- Jun 15, 2001
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As much as I hate asking AT for advice P), I need a neutral party. I, of course, won't be simply following what you post verbatim, but new insight is always good.
I'm 21. I'm from the coastal Mississippi area, around 80 miles east of New Orleans, 60 miles west of Mobile, AL. When I was 19, I lived with some "friends" who screwed me out of a couple of thousand dollars. My friend moved to Orleans, Indiana. I couldn't make enough to live (I made $6.50/hr, rent was $560, I had other bills, etc), and his mom got me a job in a nearby town. In late December 2001, I moved up here.
So now I live in Bedford, Indiana, working 7 days a week, getting by, but I'm not happy. At least I'm not dead.
My father is 74. He's not in good health, in fact he had a minor stroke tonight. He's ate up with skin cancer from being in the military, and he has something called COPD. My mother died when I was 16, I was in college and didn't get down there in time to talk to her. She died a few days after I got there.
I have no family here in Indiana. My roomate's family has pretty much adopted me, and while I'm appreciative of their kindness, it's just not *my* family. I had been planning to go to USM in Hattiesburg, MS in 2004.
My cousin wants me to move in with him in Gulfport, MS. I would pay him $100/mo rent. The thing is that his girlfriend lives there. I've met her a few times, but I would just feel weird.
I would also be making $1/hr less at McDonalds (there is always the possibility of a better job), but I would have fewer bills. There are ~600,000 people in the area, it's like a huge supercity made out of little cities. Here there are ~14,000 people.
I'm just looking for any guidance or comments you guys may have. It will cost about $700 to move everything down there, it might just be cheaper to sell everything and buy new stuff there.
Any comments are welcomed.
I'm 21. I'm from the coastal Mississippi area, around 80 miles east of New Orleans, 60 miles west of Mobile, AL. When I was 19, I lived with some "friends" who screwed me out of a couple of thousand dollars. My friend moved to Orleans, Indiana. I couldn't make enough to live (I made $6.50/hr, rent was $560, I had other bills, etc), and his mom got me a job in a nearby town. In late December 2001, I moved up here.
So now I live in Bedford, Indiana, working 7 days a week, getting by, but I'm not happy. At least I'm not dead.
My father is 74. He's not in good health, in fact he had a minor stroke tonight. He's ate up with skin cancer from being in the military, and he has something called COPD. My mother died when I was 16, I was in college and didn't get down there in time to talk to her. She died a few days after I got there.
I have no family here in Indiana. My roomate's family has pretty much adopted me, and while I'm appreciative of their kindness, it's just not *my* family. I had been planning to go to USM in Hattiesburg, MS in 2004.
My cousin wants me to move in with him in Gulfport, MS. I would pay him $100/mo rent. The thing is that his girlfriend lives there. I've met her a few times, but I would just feel weird.
I would also be making $1/hr less at McDonalds (there is always the possibility of a better job), but I would have fewer bills. There are ~600,000 people in the area, it's like a huge supercity made out of little cities. Here there are ~14,000 people.
I'm just looking for any guidance or comments you guys may have. It will cost about $700 to move everything down there, it might just be cheaper to sell everything and buy new stuff there.
Any comments are welcomed.