i see people that need help addicted to chat room

[NiceCold]

ill keep it short. 7% of people still use chat rooms. i see a young women age 22 in chat room alot. first time i met her i see her on for 11 hours straight. like from 8 pm to 7 am my time. and her time was 9 pm. i was surpise how long she stayed. i let her win and i go to sleep.

shes always on webcam all the time. she look ok and i was like oh wow this girl looks ok. then time passed... she starts to freak me out by she never sleep. one point i went to sleep.... woke up... and still see her on her webcam. say it is 9 pm at my time and her place is 11 pm.... she still in! but this time she close her eyes in her webcam. wtf??? her face look all tired. she refuse to close the chat???? freaking me out! she sleep in front of webcam!

i think she have some kind of mental problem. i asked her why you dont sleep, dont you have school or work? she doesnt answer. another time i ask then she finally answer by "i am looking for a job" seems that shes jus laying low and be a slob. a girl being a slob???? especially in online?

i pity her. i told her that she need to sleep cause i worry of her health. shes crazy. i dont want to see her like that.



its not just her. i saw 50 year old lady on webcam 24/7 too and rest her eyes for like 10min then open back on webcam.

also another man around 40 sleeping while turning on the cam! letting everyone see he sleep. at first i thought he faking.... but after 4 hours in chat room.... he finally woke up and face look all real like he sleep foreal. crazy people. they need help. too much chat.


especially that young 22 year old women... she jus a girl and still young.... thats not good being addicted on chat room. i thought i was hardcore... but she even above me. its beyond real.

my best time in chat room is 99-2003 especially yahoo chat and some paltalk. i just starting to visit chat room again. yahoo chat is dead. last time i visit only see full of bots! bots that pming people pretending to be real human advertising their stuff. i hear many people say irc but i never been there or know how to use it.





ps. i just want someone to know this cause i dont think its normal and it is beyond extreme. i used to stay up late too but not like that. maybe anyone know a tip to help her or something. or we just dont middle? its her life. she can do whatever but dammm i pity her.

 

[JTsyo]

Sounds like she needs an intervention.

 

[Blackjack200]

Do people still go into those things and say "a/s/l"?

 

[lxskllr]

Yup, there's all kinds of people, and as many little problems. Don't worry about it.

 

[Saint Nick]

So, what's the problem again?

 

[edro]

This post seems very familiar...

I knew it! http://forums.anandtech.com/showthread.php?t=2172217

i have not been in chat rooms since 2005. i was hardcore in chat rooms since i first got a computer 99 to 2003 then starting 2004 i kindda laylow cause of mmorpgs and work. the rest like 2006 is tiny bit.

when i talk to a girl i like to lie alot and i just want to chat it then leave it. like one-time chat. but most time they be like all over me and want to dig more... add to friend list and tell phone # ect... and i dont even call. i dont really want to be long term chat cause i run out of stuff to lie and stuff to talk about. i dont mind if they all on me and want to be long term but only if i act the same and have many stuff to talk about non stop.

its like.... 30min session from a strange girl i be all flirty and talkative.... then 2 hours.... i be all... quiet cause ran out of stuff to talk about.... i be like only answer of what they say. im shy if long term. but short term i be all talkative. im shy of them for liking me.

is this some kind of stuff like ocd or what? is it a disorder? or normal?

just now i finally visit chat rooms after 5,6,7,8,9 years. i was all talkative and got some hot babes kept on flirting with me saying like she like how i talk ect... now i told her i gotta go... she ask if she can add me.... i kindda scare of next time if she see me online.... i dont know how to act and talk... i shift to shy mode cause she always complement me throughout the chat session.

edit: this girl i recently talk to.... she shows me cam and heard her voice on mic so shes really a girl. she looks decent. a bit chubby but cute face. she really likes me and wanted to talk to me again. actually theres two girls that added me in my recent chat. they all liked me. they all talk on mic. one i see both cam and voice and the other only voice. and yeah they both entitled to be clalled hot babes although one is a bit chubby and the other only hear sexy voice. OMG what am i thinking? theres 3! three total of girls i talked to in my recent chat session. the third one is really hot. she dress like real sexy.... not like high class but hoochi like real sexy. only see her pics but no cam or voice though.







and back like early 2000.... theres this girl i first chat with her and everything was all good like we both talkative and friendly.... then turns something else. she starts being flirty. ask me if she can be my girlfriend ect... she even sent me 2 or 3 air mails with her pics and its the first time i finally see how she look like.... not what i expected. she is fat! and a bit not-pretty side. ever since she sent me air mail with pics.... i start to avoid her.... i just wait for her to say something and i answer..... she call on phone and same thing i just wait for her to say something then i answer. she finally say why am i so quiet... i jus say i dont know. one time i let my cousin use my sn..... she pm.... i told my cousin to say "oh he doesnt come online much since hes busy with work now" which is true. day pass and day pass...... then we jus completely stopped talking.

i feel very bad since now. how can i be like that???? im a dick right????? why couldnt i tried to steer her to be friends instead of avoiding her? i should of steer her to be friends and get to know her pretty friends! even my cousin say that. i am stupid and a dick. i hurted a girl. she liked me so much. but anyway she probly got a husband and a kid by now. still feel bad though. she from like 9 days drive from me. long distance relationship dont work but it could work if i wanted to.... i was being a dick jus cause of her looks and i was young dont know how to think.

 

[TecHNooB]

you don't seem creepy yourself :|

 

[NiceCold]

This post seems very familiar...

I knew it! http://forums.anandtech.com/showthread.php?t=2172217

wow i talk about chat rooms two times? well i guess its different. this one is about a young women thats addicted to chat room.

first time i see her and i want to be flirty but after knowing shes like this made me feel sorry for her and pity her. she still young you know. futures still ahead of her. she need to control addiction.

you don't seem creepy yourself :|

creepy? i used to be like her but lesser version. now i am fully in control and i dont even chat for the past 5,6,7,8,9 years.

 

[mesthead21]

What the hell just happened?

edit: just saw the previous post about chatrooms. FAIL OP!

 

[Beev]

I went into a chat room today and found a girl who said she was 18. I think I'm going to pursue a relationship.

 

[Nintendesert]

So, asl?

 

[NiceCold]

What the hell just happened?

edit: just saw the previous post about chatrooms. FAIL OP!

what so fail about me talking about chat room in two threads? i dont get it.

 

[AyashiKaibutsu]

Someone needs an intervention for their stalking addiction.

 

[NiceCold]

Someone needs an intervention for their stalking addiction.

oh then i better not telling her to sleep anymore. hope she finds a job and be normal. didnt mean to middle. not stalking too. just cant stop noticing her nonstop in chat room.




and the other thread about chat room.... this and that one does not relate to each other. it is a whole different story. that one is talk about myself and this one talk about other people. so no relating.

 

[Nintendesert]

oh then i better not telling her to sleep anymore. hope she finds a job and be normal. didnt mean to middle. not stalking too. just cant stop noticing her nonstop in chat room.

You stalking bro! At least upgrade to looking inside her apartment window. :thumbsup:

 

[DesiPower]

ill keep it short. *Snip*

tldr

 

[DesiPower]

This post seems very familiar...

I knew it! http://forums.anandtech.com/showthread.php?t=2172217

lol, wow!

 

[Soundmanred]

Creeper creepin'

 

[DesiPower]

whats asl? Age sex loser?

 

[mesthead21]

what so fail about me talking about chat room in two threads? i dont get it.

Two threads about chat rooms? Chat rooms died about 4-5 years ago.


Do you still use ICQ?

 

[NiceCold]

Two threads about chat rooms? Chat rooms died about 4-5 years ago.


Do you still use ICQ?

back in 99 i use yahoo, paltalk.... and people i get to be friend with they will either add me in aim, msn, yahoo and icq messenger. icq is not my main. i end up ditching it. i dont use any messenge now. im fully changed. no messenger at all! my chat days are over. but i just started to visit chat rooms a tiny bit. i even forgot my user name and passwords in instant messengers.

 

[dpodblood]

If you haven't been in chatrooms for the last 5,6,7,8,9 years than how are you seeing this girl online constantly?

 

[NiceCold]

If you haven't been in chatrooms for the last 5,6,7,8,9 years than how are you seeing this girl online constantly?

i started chat room again last 3,4,5 weeks ago.

 

[Imp]

I stopped "chatting" after age 12 or 13. Man was I a prick in the chat rooms...

 

[Lifted]

In Asia a lot of people keep the webcam on 24/7 and go about their business at home and at work. A lot of webcams you just see people sleeping.

This was my experience on camfrog anyway.