What’s weird is the seeming lack of realization that the child support is for the child, not the mother. You made a kid, you help support it.
But if the man DID agree to have a baby I don't think he should be able to "Change his mind" and say he doesn't want to take care of the baby anymore.
If the man agrees to have a baby, that's a lifelong commitment and he can't run from it.
I think women should have to have a man sign a contract saying he would care for the baby.
What do you think?
Even if she won't, a good caring girl can be trained to do a proper, satisfying handjob. Especially useful when she is on her periods.Just find a girl that swallows.
And in the courts view as well.If you have unprotected sex with a woman, that’s as good as any signature in my book.
Do you suppose that ZZ Top was onto something with their song Backdoor Love Affair?Just find a girl that swallows.
Nooooooooooo. I thought you said sex is sacred. Oh my God, a hand job? How could you be so callous?Even if she won't, a good caring girl can be trained to do a proper, satisfying handjob. Especially useful when she is on her periods.
The needs of the man must be met when the girl's equipment is out of order!Nooooooooooo. I thought you said sex is sacred. Oh my God, a hand job? How could you be so callous?
Mine was 250 bucks out of pocket. One of the best investments I've made.I've been wanting a vasectomy for a few years now. It's on the short list of things to get that are expensive.
Seems fair enough to me. But the issue appears to be one of choice. Man and woman have a fun night, suffer a structural failure of properly utilized safety equipment, child is produced from the catastrophic failure. Woman then has total control of the outcome and places unforeseen finical responsibility on the male. Where is his choice? Why does the male assume a minimum of eighteen years of payments for an accident?What’s weird is the seeming lack of realization that the child support is for the child, not the mother. You made a kid, you help support it.
Seems fair enough to me. But the issue appears to be one of choice. Man and woman have a fun night, suffer a structural failure of properly utilized safety equipment, child is produced from the catastrophic failure. Woman then has total control of the outcome and places unforeseen finical responsibility on the male. Where is his choice? Why does the male assume a minimum of eighteen years of payments for an accident?
Seems to me that what's needed here is insurance, not forced compliance with a decision that the male doesn't agree with.
Agree
If a man gets a woman pregnant and she wants to have the baby, I believe the man is partly responsible for the child's financial obligations. But so many men run from their responsibilities, monetary and emotional.
It's a touchy subject for a lot of people. But should a woman force a man to sign a contract that obligates his financial support? The document may not hold up in family courts, depending on state laws.
But judge overseeing a child support case will likely have the final say unless the parties can work out their own arrangement. No matter what, the child's wellbeing should be paramount.
Seems fair enough to me. But the issue appears to be one of choice. Man and woman have a fun night, suffer a structural failure of properly utilized safety equipment, child is produced from the catastrophic failure. Woman then has total control of the outcome and places unforeseen finical responsibility on the male. Where is his choice? Why does the male assume a minimum of eighteen years of payments for an accident?
Seems to me that what's needed here is insurance, not forced compliance with a decision that the male doesn't agree with.
Seems to me that what's needed here is insurance, not forced compliance with a decision that the male doesn't agree with.
If you thought it was tough and expensive to get car insurance for a teenager.... Yea. Good luck with that.
Think it will cost more than 18 years of child support?If you thought it was tough and expensive to get car insurance for a teenager.... Yea. Good luck with that.
Think it will cost more than 18 years of child support?
I don't have any answers, but I'm not a fan of a life changing decision that you have no say in. I'm also not a fan of men abounding their children.
Only this thread? lolThis thread is a persuasive argument in favor of mandatory non-reversible sterilization for the OP.
You know how insurance companies make profit right?Think it will cost more than 18 years of child support?
I don't have any answers, but I'm not a fan of a life changing decision that you have no say in. I'm also not a fan of men abounding their children.
you don't accidentally buy a house, you choose to get married not accidentally say I do in front of Church or State, and last but not least you don't accidentally just end up in a contract.You guys don't think it's weird that a contract is involved when you get married, a contract for buying a house, a contract when buying a car,....but no contract involved when having a baby?
I have medical insurance, home insurance, employee insurance, car insurance, business insurance, pet insurance, liability insurance. I think I've cracked the code on how insurances company's make money. OFF OF ME!You know how insurance companies make profit right?