mindless1
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That's not reasonable at all. How about the responsibility of the female, who also chose to have sex, but apparently with a male who did not demonstrate financial ability, the desire to be, or at least after the fact, the mental acceptance, of being a father?except you had your say when you pick your penis in a vagina. You had a choice, you made it.
personal responsibility, get some.
A female can take steps to prevent pregnancy, before, during, day after, and possibly later depending on how the Roe vs Wade situation pans out in the next several months.
If the male did not want to become a father, I can't agree with requiring him to pay support. The female should not have the only say in whether she has a baby, if someone else has to pay for it.
150 years ago yes, but not so much for the past few decades where there were alternatives and ample education of how babies are made. If a woman is against having an abortion No Matter What, she should not entrap men who didn't make a long term commitment to be a father.
There are two scenarios: Sex where both want to be parents. Both should provide support. Sex where one or the other doesn't want to be a parent, then that party should not have to provide support or if the female, should not be forced to get pregnant (denied contraceptive options) or continue to be pregnant instead of allowed to have an abortion. How far into the pregnancy an abortion should be allowed, is the gray area in my mind.
Someone previously used a car wreck analogy and I have one too. Suppose you go out driving in your car and someone wrecks into you. Are you automatically at fault and liable because you didn't keep your car keys in your pants and not drive? OR is it the fault of the person who made the bad decision, who could have prevented the wreck? It applies even more so to unprotected sex because the day after pill is like a Time Machine to stop pregnancy, while there is no do-over with the car wreck.