I posted a message a few months back (which the wonderful search function can't find of course) about my x telling me in the parking lot that she was probably going to lose her job - all kinds of paranoia that they were trying to force her out over allegations that she was having an affair with a married doctor (she's a nurse) and etc.
The next morning she calls to tell me "it was all a big practical joke". :roll: Uhm ... yeah ... ok
Now tonight I get home and find a message on my answering machine from her "I really need to talk to you, it's urgent urgent urgent. Nothing to do with the kids, but you need to come." I check caller ID and she's called 3 times in the past hour.
Ok, WTF??
So I call and she sounds upset and tells me she *really* needs to talk to me. I say ok, about what? Well, she can't talk about it n the phone. S I suggest she call back after the kids are in bed (they are with hr tonight). Nope - she can't talk about it on the phone at all. Then she hints that it has to do with the stuff she told me about before. I don't recall her exact words, but she basically suggested (and sounded like she might be lwsing it. Talked about being paranoid about everything - the people she works with, our pediatrician (who she used to work for), etc.
Then I talked to the kids, and they both sounded sad or stressed as well, but said everything was OK. They are 4 & 7
For what it's worth, she does have a fairly history of mental illness in her family.
So, I told her I would go down to her place at 9 (about an hour from now) after the kids are in bed. I have NO idea what the hell Im walking into. :disgust::|
The next morning she calls to tell me "it was all a big practical joke". :roll: Uhm ... yeah ... ok
Now tonight I get home and find a message on my answering machine from her "I really need to talk to you, it's urgent urgent urgent. Nothing to do with the kids, but you need to come." I check caller ID and she's called 3 times in the past hour.
Ok, WTF??
So I call and she sounds upset and tells me she *really* needs to talk to me. I say ok, about what? Well, she can't talk about it n the phone. S I suggest she call back after the kids are in bed (they are with hr tonight). Nope - she can't talk about it on the phone at all. Then she hints that it has to do with the stuff she told me about before. I don't recall her exact words, but she basically suggested (and sounded like she might be lwsing it. Talked about being paranoid about everything - the people she works with, our pediatrician (who she used to work for), etc.
Then I talked to the kids, and they both sounded sad or stressed as well, but said everything was OK. They are 4 & 7
For what it's worth, she does have a fairly history of mental illness in her family.
So, I told her I would go down to her place at 9 (about an hour from now) after the kids are in bed. I have NO idea what the hell Im walking into. :disgust::|