My life is pretty much over right?
I turn 30 this May, it feels weird,
The feels. I turn 30 in 4 months. I can't handle it.
Drinking on a Sunday? Who has time for that? I barely have time for a beer or two on a Friday or Saturday night. Most weekends, I don't touch booze at all, and extremely rarely during the week.
That's because you are around 30. Life is busy, you are trying to establish yourself. Once you hit your 40's you will have time for a beer or two on Friday again.
I barely remember my 30's. I was working 60+ hours a week, skipping vacations, starting a family, etc. My 40's have been a much more enjoyable decade to this point.
Drinking on a Sunday? Who has time for that? I barely have time for a beer or two on a Friday or Saturday night. Most weekends, I don't touch booze at all, and extremely rarely during the week.
Thats not always true. Im not far past 30 and I have time to drink. Granted I don't have kids and already moved out of long hour jobs. I did my 80-100 hour weeks in and just out of college. Now I am almost always done at 4pm, work pretty much only 40 hour weeks and get overtime on the rare occasions I need to work more
When I hit 30 (20 years ago) it sucked. I got married, had a breakdown, had surgery, got fired........When I hot 40 I was much happier, got divorced, got custody of my son, fell in love with my EXes best friend (we are still together) and got a great job. I wonder what 50 will bring in a few months......
When I hit 30 (20 years ago) it sucked. I got married, had a breakdown, had surgery, got fired........When I hot 40 I was much happier, got divorced, got custody of my son, fell in love with my EXes best friend (we are still together) and got a great job. I wonder what 50 will bring in a few months......
Are you hiring?
Some of my best years have been my 30s and 40s. Have travel to fabulous places, met my future wife, lived a great life.
30 blah I'm turning 50 in 6 months and loving it.
I turned 33 in January. I feel pretty good and am in a better place than I have been for the past 6 years but I'm still single and lonely. Oh well, fuck it.
Reading this sort of made me feel like an exception. I mean, yeah, I'm 33 and not getting any younger; however, I'm fitter and more attractive than I've ever been. I'm finishing my first year of law school. I have some amazing stories behind me, but have even more interesting stuff ahead of me. Not just in my own view, I'm more desirable physically, emotionally, and professionally. I feel like I'm still on an upward trajectory.
My point? Don't accept it, reject it, tell it to go fvck itself, and make yourself even better than you were.