Originally posted by: MichaelD
Do you know what the term "Deadbeat Dad" means? Well, I'm not one of those. Paying child support is what I legally have to do. However, I'm not obligated to see him at all. Or give her additional money for clothes. I see him b/c I love him and WANT to see him, even though it means putting up with her. I buy him clothes b/c I want him to look good and be a happy kid. Obviously you have zero experience with issues like children, custody agreements and life in general. How about you drink a big glass of STFU and go away?Originally posted by: BD2003You dont get a cookie for doing WHAT YOURE SUPPOSED TO DO. You should be slapped in the mouth for even writing this paragraph. Geez. :disgust:That's a typical woman's point of view, Baff. She should be GREATFUL that I didn't completely bail out right at the beginning. Grateful that I see my son and that he loves his Daddy. Grateful that she get more $$$ in child support per month for one kid than most of her friends get for TWO kids. Grateful that I help out with additional money for clothes and shoes. Grateful that I change my plans with him, at the last minute when she decides "I'm going someplace with him Friday night" and never complain. She should be kissing my @ss not kicking it.
I know what deadbeat dad are. Many of my friends had them, luckily I do not. But that still doesnt make you special. Dont think for a second that your son wont be resentful towards both you and your mother for putting him in the middle of the sh*t between the two of you. Regardless of what you want to believe, youre not the perfect dad, and your kid is going to let you know as soon he's old enough to understand.
I've never shot or run over anyone, where's my medal?
I may not have any experience with custody agreements, but thats because I'm not stupid enough to get caught in one, and put a child in the middle, like you.