If a girl gives you her number....

[pontifex]

just read the update about her blog.
dude, she must be one hot piece of ass if you still want to hook up with her after what she typed.

 

[SilentZero]

LMAO!!!! This is just sad!

 

[DaShen]

OP, from what I am reading from your first post, I would say the girl is a drama queen who will give you grief. She also makes bad decision based not on thinking it through, but through immature emotional decisions. Do not get involved with her in that way and get yourself stuck emotionally on her. That would not be a practical or long term relationship wise decision. Also remember, she has a baby, so unless you are prepared to father the child and have all of your relationship decisions revolved around the child, you will be giving yourself heartache. Of course, some people are mature enough and "good" enough to do that, but the drama that you pulled from her blogs really seems to show that she is too immature at this time. She is only 19 anyways. Be a friend and let her grow up without using a man as a crutch. That being said, it seems you have already made some moves into meeting her family and her family is already considering you a prospect. I would get out now and just be a distant friend who is there to help move as well as other nonemotionally committing things.

You considering a relationship with a girl who is so young seems to point to you being young and immature, too.

 

[Accipiter22]

wtf? seriously...why do guys get into these situations, and then when it turns to crap they'll post about it on ATOT. dude, don't even bother with this...

 

[astrocase]

quasarsky I can't believe you. You're missing the perfect play. Go for her mom. That way you can be close to both women and when the time comes, and she hollas at u, you bust your phat moves all over this girl.

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: astrocase
quasarsky I can't believe you. You're missing the perfect play. Go for her mom. That way you can be close to both women and when the time comes, and she hollas at u, you bust your phat moves all over this girl.

ugh. gross. thats just nasty. like i said anyways, she is going to make it work with her bf. so i'm done as far as being interested in her.

 

[y2kc]

she's never going to leave him. she's using you. she has what she wants. i've known her type all my life.

move on, don't look back.

 

[aldy402]

the last poster was right, I've dealt with girls like this for a long time. They will never leave their man and you'll become the GO-TO guy whenever they get into a fight. Is that what you really wanna be ? 2nd string?

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: y2kc
she's never going to leave him. she's using you. she has what she wants. i've known her type all my life.

move on, don't look back.

thanks. thast what i plan on doing.

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: aldy402
the last poster was right, I've dealt with girls like this for a long time. They will never leave their man and you'll become the GO-TO guy whenever they get into a fight. Is that what you really wanna be ? 2nd string?

haha definitely not. thanks for the advice

 

[aldy402]

Originally posted by: quasarsky

Originally posted by: aldy402
the last poster was right, I've dealt with girls like this for a long time. They will never leave their man and you'll become the GO-TO guy whenever they get into a fight. Is that what you really wanna be ? 2nd string?

haha definitely not. thanks for the advice

np you can also play the friend role for a while and see how that pans out...

you got a pic of her? btw

 

[middlehead]

Originally posted by: EvilYoda
2 MONTH OLD BABY, DANGER WILL ROBINSON, DANGER!

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: aldy402

Originally posted by: quasarsky

Originally posted by: aldy402
the last poster was right, I've dealt with girls like this for a long time. They will never leave their man and you'll become the GO-TO guy whenever they get into a fight. Is that what you really wanna be ? 2nd string?

haha definitely not. thanks for the advice

np you can also play the friend role for a while and see how that pans out...

you got a pic of her? btw

its in the original post lol. i don't really wanna do the friend role right now. i think women have disgusted me enough for this year lol

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: quasarsky

Originally posted by: aldy402

Originally posted by: quasarsky

Originally posted by: aldy402
the last poster was right, I've dealt with girls like this for a long time. They will never leave their man and you'll become the GO-TO guy whenever they get into a fight. Is that what you really wanna be ? 2nd string?

haha definitely not. thanks for the advice

np you can also play the friend role for a while and see how that pans out...

you got a pic of her? btw

its in the original post lol. i don't really wanna do the friend role right now. i think women have disgusted me enough for this year lol

don't play the friends role even. Iv'e been in similar situations, just like the other guy advising you not to stick around for this. Playing the friend role just means you get to see her demean, degrade, and basically make herself more disgusting in your view. It's like a front-row seat to all her whining, drama, etc.


if she has a kid where the fizzzuck does she get time to post in an online journal?

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: quasarsky

Originally posted by: aldy402

Originally posted by: quasarsky

Originally posted by: aldy402
the last poster was right, I've dealt with girls like this for a long time. They will never leave their man and you'll become the GO-TO guy whenever they get into a fight. Is that what you really wanna be ? 2nd string?

haha definitely not. thanks for the advice

np you can also play the friend role for a while and see how that pans out...

you got a pic of her? btw

its in the original post lol. i don't really wanna do the friend role right now. i think women have disgusted me enough for this year lol

don't play the friends role even. Iv'e been in similar situations, just like the other guy advising you not to stick around for this. Playing the friend role just means you get to see her demean, degrade, and basically make herself more disgusting in your view. It's like a front-row seat to all her whining, drama, etc.


if she has a kid where the fizzzuck does she get time to post in an online journal?

like i said i'm not gonna do the friend role lol. time for the online journal, i don't really know

 

[aldy402]

i kind of went thought the same situation but she didnt have a kid. She was definetly a looker too. thats what got me. We went out on like a couple of dates, lots of money wasted on her. Then before you know it, her EX calls her in the middle of OUR date. She tells me the truth and we had to end the date early because he was in front of her house. Total BULLSHIT, i wasnt upset, i understood but i was pissed kos i spent money on her.

but now she calls me every now and then and I give her the cold shoulder. SHe only calls when she's arguing with him though(they got back together)

moral of the story is, dont spend time or money , wait atleast 4-6 months after they've broken up before you go in for the kill.. lol

the way she describes her current bf, he seems to be as codependent as she is, meaning if they break up, one of them will engage the other quite quickly after the breakup. They seem perfect for each other..

anybody have any similar experiences?

 

[Fox5]

Originally posted by: aldy402
i kind of went thought the same situation but she didnt have a kid. She was definetly a looker too. thats what got me. We went out on like a couple of dates, lots of money wasted on her. Then before you know it, her EX calls her in the middle of OUR date. She tells me the truth and we had to end the date early because he was in front of her house. Total BULLSHIT, i wasnt upset, i understood but i was pissed kos i spent money on her.

but now she calls me every now and then and I give her the cold shoulder. SHe only calls when she's arguing with him though(they got back together)

moral of the story is, dont spend time or money , wait atleast 4-6 months after they've broken up before you go in for the kill.. lol

the way she describes her current bf, he seems to be as codependent as she is, meaning if they break up, one of them will engage the other quite quickly after the breakup. They seem perfect for each other..

anybody have any similar experiences?

Yep, I have a similar experience. Don't feel like sharing, but I say walk away from this situation and don't look back. I mean heck, she said GOD brought her together with her boyfriend, she obviously has some heavy attachment and will only use you for when things aren't going well.
Women who complain about their boyfriends but stick with them anyhow are women you need to avoid. They either get very overly attached (and probably way too easily) or are just complete bitches that you would have a hellish time with anyway.

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: Fox5

Originally posted by: aldy402
i kind of went thought the same situation but she didnt have a kid. She was definetly a looker too. thats what got me. We went out on like a couple of dates, lots of money wasted on her. Then before you know it, her EX calls her in the middle of OUR date. She tells me the truth and we had to end the date early because he was in front of her house. Total BULLSHIT, i wasnt upset, i understood but i was pissed kos i spent money on her.

but now she calls me every now and then and I give her the cold shoulder. SHe only calls when she's arguing with him though(they got back together)

moral of the story is, dont spend time or money , wait atleast 4-6 months after they've broken up before you go in for the kill.. lol

the way she describes her current bf, he seems to be as codependent as she is, meaning if they break up, one of them will engage the other quite quickly after the breakup. They seem perfect for each other..

anybody have any similar experiences?

Yep, I have a similar experience. Don't feel like sharing, but I say walk away from this situation and don't look back. I mean heck, she said GOD brought her together with her boyfriend, she obviously has some heavy attachment and will only use you for when things aren't going well.
Women who complain about their boyfriends but stick with them anyhow are women you need to avoid. They either get very overly attached (and probably way too easily) or are just complete bitches that you would have a hellish time with anyway.

this is very very true. and as for work today

she called in sick.

but i'd be surprised if i see her in tmw lol

 

[smut]

Ive been in more then a few situations where I met a new girl with a boyfriend and she magically dropped her man a few days/weeks later for me. But every time in the long run she ended up doing the same to me or ended being psycho and I had to drop her! Just a word to the wise, if they break up instantly with an a boyfriend to be with you, they can and will do the same to you eventually! Drop you like a bad habit! Its definetely not fun especially when they seem to be a great girl until the end of teh relationship and you seem them for what they truly are, a psycho, smut, out to take what you got, money grubbin bitch! ahhah

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: smut
Ive been in more then a few situations where I met a new girl with a boyfriend and she magically dropped her man a few days/weeks later for me. But every time in the long run she ended up doing the same to me or ended being psycho and I had to drop her! Just a word to the wise, if they break up instantly with an a boyfriend to be with you, they can and will do the same to you eventually! Drop you like a bad habit! Its definetely not fun especially when they seem to be a great girl until the end of teh relationship and you seem them for what they truly are, a psycho, smut, out to take what you got, money grubbin bitch! ahhah

LOL i will heed your advice man

 

[The Batt?sai]

one last final update. she hasn't been to work the last 2 days so she quit, or her bf made her quit. i dunno and i don't care lol. oh well . thanks to all for all advice given. it was all helpful and informative

 

[ribbon13]

Originally posted by: quasarsky

Originally posted by: astrocase
quasarsky I can't believe you. You're missing the perfect play. Go for her mom. That way you can be close to both women and when the time comes, and she hollas at u, you bust your phat moves all over this girl.

ugh. gross. thats just nasty. like i said anyways, she is going to make it work with her bf. so i'm done as far as being interested in her.

I imagine you saying that with the voice of Cleveland from Family Guy. Them I replay the episode where his wife leaves him in my head.

You need http://www.tenetsofleykis.com/

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: ribbon13

Originally posted by: quasarsky

Originally posted by: astrocase
quasarsky I can't believe you. You're missing the perfect play. Go for her mom. That way you can be close to both women and when the time comes, and she hollas at u, you bust your phat moves all over this girl.

ugh. gross. thats just nasty. like i said anyways, she is going to make it work with her bf. so i'm done as far as being interested in her.

I imagine you saying that with the voice of Cleveland from Family Guy. Them I replay the episode where his wife leaves him in my head.

You need http://www.tenetsofleykis.com/

leykis was already quoted to me lol. but thanks anyways. oh and btw, i'm not black LOL. i'm half white and half colombian

not sure how u can picture me as cleveland from family guy

 

[Need4Speed]

can you write one scentence without using "lol" or "lmao" ?

 

[ta8689]

Originally posted by: Need4Speed
can you write one scentence without using "lol" or "lmao" ?

Umm.... ive never seen that one spelled like that before