If a girl offers to pay on a date, do you let her?

[Ranger X]

YES. I'm a feminist and I'm all for gender equality. If men pay, women should too.

 

[thetruth21]

totally depends on the situation with the girl and how much money you are talking about. my best friend has his girlfriend pay most of the time because he has never has any money and the gf always gets money from her parents. not sure how i would deal with that. id feel pretty bad in that scenario.

 

[crt1530]

It depends. I always expect to pay for everything, but I'm not going to fight over the bill if a woman says she wants to pay. I don't play games like that.

 

[3point14]

"She doesn't have to pay. The soup at the shelter is always free."

 

[emb09]

let a chick pay if she wants to,
there's no reason to create a scene.

 

[ViRaLRuSh]

I wouldnt know, when you're with someone so long it doesnt even matter

 

[schizoid]

Originally posted by: Gnote
On getting to know you dates, no. Once I'm in a relationship, I pay 75 to 80 percent of the time.

Exactly. In a relationship, just enough so every once in awhile (like, once a week or once every two weeks, assuming you hang out a lot) you're like, caught off guard and you're like "hey! I get to eat for free today! dope!"

Girls have no idea how little it takes to keep guys happy.

Also, if you've had a big hit in the wallet recently and you're "feeling" poor, then some times it's nice for the girl to pick up the check. But other than every once in awhile and those special cases, I'm all down for paying whatever.

 

[passivex]

I don't feel comfortable letting her pay but once in a while it'd be nice.

 

[eLiu]

If she offers, I'll accept the first time. I don't believe in offering anything you're not willing to give...and I'm more than happy to save some $. If she never offers, I pay for everything.

 

[NutBucket]

Absolutely I do. I wouldn't the first few dates but after that its all good. BTW, my gf just takes the check if she's paying. I don't fight her for it.

 

[thomsbrain]

if she offers to pay, she offered to pay. i'm not going to play high school games with someone. i'll get the next one, though, and there won't be any discussion about it.

 

[silverpig]

I decided to go dutch on my last date: I paid for the dinner and the movie, and the rest of the night was on her

 

[NutBucket]

Originally posted by: silverpig
I decided to go dutch on my last date: I paid for the dinner and the movie, and the rest of the night was on her

:Q:Q! Good work Silverpig:beer:

 

[Acanthus]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
I don't have any issues with "going dutch" but I like to pay for my own half of things.

- M4H

same