I have an interview with Corning Inc. (in Corning, NY) next week and if i get the job, my girlfriend is going to leave me. She is not interested in moving with me because she's afraid she wont find a job. She has a 4-year degree and she can find a job easy... it's just that she's been working at the same place for 5 years (Wegmans) and she has benefits (not very good ones) and she doesn't make all that much. I told her that I need to secure a future for me and for her and I can't pass up an opportunity to work for one of the best companies in the world right now. I had a lot of strings pulled to get my resume to the top of the list and now i have a real chance at landing a position (in their IT department... entry level but that's fine for me). Money is not an issue for me, if i don't have it i'll get it and i told her i'll take care of whatever she needs. We can stay with my father until I get a new place and things will be out of wack for a little while but we can adjust. I thought if you loved someone you would do what it takes??? She'd rather me stay here and work crap minimum wage (10 an hour is min wage for me) just so she doesn't have to move. If i get the job i'm taking it... why must she be so irrational? We've been going out 5 years now so this isn't a new relationship and it's worth the effort for me to save it. Any advice would be great. Girls too, gimme your advice cause i need both sides opinions.