1sikbITCH
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Originally posted by: Semidevil
what if your married s/o's native language is not the same as yours and he/she really wants you to learn his/her naitive language as a way for alternate communication for eachother or to their parents. Is it your obligation to learn the language to at least a basic communication level?
reason I ask is that I know a lot of interacial or inter-ethinic married couples who have a lot of heated arguements because the guy or girl wants their spouse to learn the language, but the other person either 1)is not interested, or 2)wants to learn, but just is not motivated enough.
a lot of the basis for argument that I hear, come down to 1)not willing to appreciate their culture/language, not willing to take the extra step to enhance communication, etc etc.
what do you guys think? when it comes to inter-ethnic couples, must the language thing be part of the give/take compromise if it is being requested?
if it makes any difference, we are talking about married couples, not dating.
They should have thought of that BEFORE they got married. If I had met and fallen in love with some foreign chick (or if I was the foreign dude), I couldn't imagine NOT wanting to learn their language, their customs, and everything else about them.