If you love a girl....

[GreasyBurger]

...but she had scandalous past in her wilder days? But she has great personality and beautiful, and completely change now.

Was it a big deal to any of you? What would you do in that situation?

Scandalous past=porn star, one night stands, double penetration by both guys at the same time, etc

I'm very confused right now because the thought of her going at it with another guy or guys just break my heart. It's not her fault but it's my insecurity is my biggest problem. How do you cope with this if you're in my situation?

 

[Ns1]

do her like a european

edited for zomb :rolleyes;

 

[glen]

love > *

 

[cherrytwist]

Fingercuffs.

 

[z0mb13]

edited so u dont get banned

 

[LiQiCE]

Originally posted by: cherrytwist
Fingercuffs.

So then the solution would be for him to have a threesome with her, right? j/k

 

[Feldenak]

No. Her past is just that...past.

 

[DannyBoy]

Have you just had a dream about The Girl Next Door?

 

[cherrytwist]

Seriously - if it bothers you now, you'd probably resent her for it. Work out your own issues before taking on such a relationship.

 

[GreasyBurger]

Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Have you just had a dream about The Girl Next Door?

 

[deejayshakur]

lose her now. there are hundreds of beautiful women out there with great personalities who have clean pasts and won't keep you worried about her running off now or in the future.

 

[GreasyBurger]

What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

 

[ironcrotch]

Originally posted by: cherrytwist
Seriously - if it bothers you now, you'd probably resent her for it. Work out your own issues before taking on such a relationship.

ding ding ding ding

 

[z0mb13]

good for a booty call

 

[Kadarin]

Some of you guys are way too uptight. I don't know her situation, but how can you criticize a girl for sexual experimentation when most of you would cheerfully engage in much the same behavior if given a chance? If she has emotional baggage, that's one thing, but if she is ok with who she is, then you should be too.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

Wow...if that bothers you, you've got some serious insecurity problems.

 

[DannyBoy]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger

Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Have you just had a dream about The Girl Next Door?

Oh come on, it's just a movie, it's not real get over it.

 

[Geekbabe]

I think it being known that you were a regular here would be more damaging than anything she might have done in the past.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Some of you guys are way too uptight. I don't know her situation, but how can you criticize a girl for sexual experimentation when most of you would cheerfully engage in much the same behavior if given a chance? If she has emotional baggage, that's one thing, but if she is ok with who she is, then you should be too.

:thumbsup:

 

[shimsham]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

pfffttt....practically a virgin these days.

 

[DannyBoy]

Originally posted by: Feldenak

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

Wow...if that bothers you, you've got some serious insecurity problems.

I was thinking the same.

 

[fredtam]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

That is nothing.

 

[rgwalt]

A buddy of mine told me something recently on the same subject... He said that with most girls you meet, unless they are right out of high school (or in high school) or unless they are very religious, you aren't going to tred in virgin territory. You are not Magelan.

Also, when you start dating a girl, but you are not exclusive, you need to face the possibility that any night she isn't with you, she is with someone else.

You need to come to terms with these facts, and learn to deal with it.

R

 

[PricklyPete]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

How is this double penetration? Girls get a little crazy in college and 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college doesn't seem bad at all. At least she is honest with you. I know plenty of guys who think their girlfriend's are "angels" when I know they have been around the block. The past is the past. If you can't get by that, fine...your pool just got a lot smaller.

 

[fredtam]

Maybe you shouldn't have asked the immature question "how many people have you been with?'".