If you love a girl....

[Ausm]

Change your name from greasyburger to greasygash


Ausm

 

[fredtam]

Oh and just so you know the rule is to add five to that.

 

[ElFenix]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I think it being known that you were a regular here would be more damaging than anything she might have done in the past.

true that!

 

[moks78]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

...you got the "Girl Next Door Syndrome." That probably is just a sampler fm her...she might have videos too that she have not told you. Nah, enjoy and then move on.

Like what most of the peeps here have said...you can find better chics with clean background and no dirty laundries to bother you...believe me. Enjoy while it last...take her as a part of your growing up experience...something to savor or relish but not to be taken seriously.

 

[Atlechnik]

Originally posted by: Feldenak

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

Wow...if that bothers you, you've got some serious insecurity problems.

seriously, thats not that uncommon, much too normal really. I have seen girls that go through boyfriends like they go through shoes.

 

[jonmullen]

Don't let it get to you...she is with you now and that is what matters....other wise you will bea Chasing Amy.


By the way watch that (Chasing Amy) movie it will knock some sense into you hopefuly.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: rdgr8

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

...you got the "Girl Next Door Syndrome." That probably is just a sampler fm her...she might have videos too that she have not told you. Nah, enjoy and then move on.

Like what most of the peeps here have said...you can find better chics with clean background and no dirty laundries to bother you...believe me. Enjoy while it last...take her as a part of your growing up experience...something to savor or relish but not to be taken serioulsy.

LOL....a girl with a past isn't worth isn't someone to enter into a serious relationship with?

IMO girls with a somewhat wild past are generally more stable than "goody two shoes" girls. They've experienced the world and have sown their wild oats.

 

[PunDogg]

umm u just have to work through it, but don;t put all the blame on you man, she did that stuff, its not like someone forced her. But i guess if you are SURE that she is changed then u just have to work through it

Dogg

 

[Storm]

Just out of curiosity why is she with you? What does she like about you?

 

[fredtam]

Originally posted by: rdgr8

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

...you got the "Girl Next Door Syndrome." That probably is just a sampler fm her...she might have videos too that she have not told you. Nah, enjoy and then move on.

Like what most of the peeps here have said...you can find better chics with clean background and no dirty laundries to bother you...believe me. Enjoy while it last...take her as a part of your growing up experience...something to savor or relish but not to be taken seriously.

You are a fool.

 

[jjones]

I always preferred women with experience, as long as she doesn't have a mattress strapped to her back.

 

[GreasyBurger]

Originally posted by: jjones
I always preferred women with experience, as long as she doesn't have a mattress strapped to her back.

Give me a number. We all have our limitation

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: jonmullen
Don't let it get to you...she is with you now and that is what matters....other wise you will bea Chasing Amy.

By the way watch that (Chasing Amy) movie it will knock some sense into you hopefuly.

That movie made no sense.

 

[Injury]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

So you're jealous?

 

[MikeMike]

nope i dont care. its her past, people can change.

"Yes, there are two paths you can go by, but in the long run
There's still time to change the road you're on.
And it makes me wonder. "

MIKE

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger

Originally posted by: jjones
I always preferred women with experience, as long as she doesn't have a mattress strapped to her back.

Give me a number. We all have our limitation

You're asking for personal preferences the upper limit for past sexual partners?

I never had one. I don't really care. What she did in her past as long as it doesn't impact the current relationship (STDs, emotional baggage, etc...). I'd never ask the woman I'm with how many partners she had in the past....I don't care and it's none of my business. Doesn't matter if she's had 1 partner or 100.

 

[Kibbo]

Dude,

My current GF has one heck of a past. Go with it. I trust her more than I've been able to trust any GF prior to her. It's great to know that she's gotten all that out of her system, and won't be wondering what is possibly around the corner. And experience certainly has its advantages.

I really don't see why a "clean" girl is better. I (breifly) dated a virgin, and dealing with that tension ruined the whole thing. And a number of years ago I dated a girl with not much experience, and she ended up leaving me basically out of curiosity for the greener grass.

Your relationship will be so much better if you can be laid back and open about sex. That is much more probable if the girl is experienced. Also, I'm sure that there are actions in your sexual past that you're not proud of. If you haven't discovered where your own moral "limits" are wrt sex, maybe you shouldn't be thinnking about a serious relationship just yet.

 

[brigden]

You guys constantly amaze me with your complete naivety towards life in general and women in particular. Do you honestly expect to find a perfect woman who's only been with one guy, and they only shagged three times?

A woman's sexual history is irrelevant to your relationship provided she discloses any STDs, or the lack thereof.

What if my girl has had 2 one night stands and 3 different boy friends in college?

That statement spells a normal sexual history of an average woman. In fact, it might even be conservatively average.

Your girl's sexual history isn't the issue here - it's your insecurity.

 

[GreasyBurger]

Saying a gir's sexual history isn't the issue is also bullshit. There is a limitation in everything that we do.

What if a girl has a new bf each month all throughout college? That should tells me that she doesn't take relationship seriously. How can a guy be sure to know that he won't end up like her last BF of January?

 

[ElFenix]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
Saying a gir's sexual history isn't the issue is also bullshit. There is a limitation in everything that we do.

What if a girl has a new bf each month all throughout college? That should tells me that she doesn't take relationship seriously. How can a guy be sure to know that he won't end up like her last BF of January?

how can you know if you don't bother dating her?

 

[SuperTool]

Make sure you watch her pornos and you are OK with them. You wanna know if she is into weird... um... sh!t.

 

[fredtam]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
Saying a gir's sexual history isn't the issue is also bullshit. There is a limitation in everything that we do.

What if a girl has a new bf each month all throughout college? That should tells me that she doesn't take relationship seriously. How can a guy be sure to know that he won't end up like her last BF of January?

I'm glad I don't have your insecurity issues.

 

[lokiju]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I think it being known that you were a regular here would be more damaging than anything she might have done in the past.

nah he's ok he's just a noob.

 

[WhiteWonder]

Use her to make your own wild past.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: GreasyBurger
Saying a gir's sexual history isn't the issue is also bullshit. There is a limitation in everything that we do.

What if a girl has a new bf each month all throughout college? That should tells me that she doesn't take relationship seriously. How can a guy be sure to know that he won't end up like her last BF of January?

Actually it isn't bullshit. It's not our fault you are a some scared, socially inept geek who can't get beyond his own personal insecurities. A woman's sexual history means nothing to me, provided she doesn't bring issues into the relationship, ie. STDs

Get over yourself, you will not be marying the virginal prom queen. Everyone has a past, some more sordid than others.