I started loosing my hair since about 18, yet nothing too noticable till 21...when it started to get fairly bad at vertex and in front.
I had tried using rogaine, but it required too much *work,* not enough gain, and I didn't like how it made my hair feel (greasy/clumpy...then dry). You're supposed to apply it in the morning and at night. After 6-8 months, I didn't notice any gain and I was still loosing hair in the shower.
I actually had resigned myself to my fate and as people say *man up and shave it*. I am a fairly confident person, and a joker, so I didn't really have any problems with it. People said I looked like a badass, mr. clean, lex luther, my sister freaked, my mom said she loves bald guys/my dad (who is bald). Even though I am a very positive person, it's still difficult to not be aware of your hairloss. I got turned down by a girl I liked in one of my classes and immediately I thought, "was it b/c I had shaved my head?" For a while...it's just something you think about constantly whenever you go out or see yourself in the mirror (shaved or w/loosing hair). After a while, you just start to forget about it as things become routine, but when something about yourself that's so out in the open changes drastically...it's a little callous (sp) for people to just say *man up and shave it.*
I had a doctor appointment about 5months ago and while mostly just me joking about my hairloss, he said that the genetic type of loss that I had was treatable with propecia. I wish I would've known sooner!
I've been very happy with the results, I've noticed regrowth/thickness and my bathtub doesn't have hair at bottom whenever I shower. It's noticable enough enough that my friend's/family have commented on it and almost to the point where I don't feel nervous or worry about it in social situations (in 3-4months usage). It's also quite easy to take, just a pill in the morning, and no side effects.
I'd definitely have a talk with your doctor, because if you're hairloss is in the *genetic* areas, it may very well be *treatable.* Now that I have hair again, I feel much much better about myself. Although, I still think *what do the people behind me in movie theatre see* or should I bend down and pick this thing up...etc.
Stupid stuff, but the thoughts enter your mind no matter what. It just gets to a point when you're like, whateva.
Anyway, good luck.