If your wife becomes fat [during marriage], would you divorce her?

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spidey07

No Lifer
Aug 4, 2000
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Those of you who answered yes are bad people, unless your answer was predicated on a fat persons personality being different from the personality of the same person when thin.

You can't love somebody you are physically disgusted by sexually.
 

trmiv

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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Reminds me of the marriage scene in 50 First Dates

Ula: "Do you, Honah Lee, take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife to have and to hold from this day forth as long as you both shall live?"
Henry: "I do."
Ula: "Really? Even though in, like, 10, 15 years she could possibly let herself go and then, like sex could be, like, nauseating for you?"
 

brandonb

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Oct 17, 2006
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What if your wife (or husband) was fat before you married, and after marriage, decided to diet and exercise? Would you divorce them because they were a different person than the one you married?
 

Alone

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Nov 19, 2006
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What if your wife (or husband) was fat before you married, and after marriage, decided to diet and exercise? Would you divorce them because they were a different person than the one you married?

Well, I doubt I'd ever marry a fat person to begin with, but if they did slim down it would depend on what I think about their personality.
 

guyver01

Lifer
Sep 25, 2000
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Hopefully if any of you ever get SO's.. you show them this thread... so they know you're only in the relationship for visual reasons.
 

theflyingpig

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Mar 9, 2008
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Absolutely. Fat women don't deserve husbands, or love. They are disgusting and should be treated as such. Everyone knows this.
 

shortylickens

No Lifer
Jul 15, 2003
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I am 31 years old and not even close to getting married. I suspect this will not be an issue.
 

Alone

Diamond Member
Nov 19, 2006
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Hopefully if any of you ever get SO's.. you show them this thread... so they know you're only in the relationship for visual reasons.

Uh, no, I'd be in it for the package deal. Plus, being physically attracted to someone is a fundamental part of a proper relationship.
 

Wyndru

Diamond Member
Apr 9, 2009
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Hell no, more cushion for the pushin!

My wife's cousin has a husband that insists that she stays in shape. He is a puny little army sergeant that eats whatever he wants and never gains weight. They just had a kid and she is slipping a little and this guy makes the most obnoxious comments to her, right in front of other people. I've never understood people like this, she isn't unhealthy, and just had a child. Yet when she asks him to quit smoking and drinking he laughs at her.

Anyhow, she mentioned to my wife the other day that she is regretting marrying him, and she is fed up with his comments. I hope she divorces the little tool.
 

Herr Kutz

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Jun 14, 2009
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What if your wife (or husband) was fat before you married, and after marriage, decided to diet and exercise? Would you divorce them because they were a different person than the one you married?

No, I consider that to be an improvement rather than a regression.
 

silverpig

Lifer
Jul 29, 2001
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My wife and I have a joking agreement that as soon as the other gets fat, that's grounds for divorce.
 

silverpig

Lifer
Jul 29, 2001
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Absolutely. Fat women don't deserve husbands, or love. They are disgusting and should be treated as such. Everyone knows this.

Really? That's the best you could do? I was expecting something MUCH more offensive than this.

You're losing your edge dude.
 

AstroManLuca

Lifer
Jun 24, 2004
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Hell no, more cushion for the pushin!

My wife's cousin has a husband that insists that she stays in shape. He is a puny little army sergeant that eats whatever he wants and never gains weight. They just had a kid and she is slipping a little and this guy makes the most obnoxious comments to her, right in front of other people. I've never understood people like this, she isn't unhealthy, and just had a child. Yet when she asks him to quit smoking and drinking he laughs at her.

Anyhow, she mentioned to my wife the other day that she is regretting marrying him, and she is fed up with his comments. I hope she divorces the little tool.

short guys are the worst

no offense to all the awesome short guys I know
 

Ninjahedge

Diamond Member
Mar 2, 2005
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Fat wouldn't make me divorce her.

It would just make me close my eyes while dancing or phucking.
 

meltdown75

Lifer
Nov 17, 2004
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no. i don't mind curvy women anyway. if she got obese... well... if she was still cool i'd still smush it. marriage is supposed to be forever so if you make the commitment, prepare to have sex with that person forever. just a whole lot less once you get married
 

Ninjahedge

Diamond Member
Mar 2, 2005
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Absolutely. Fat women don't deserve husbands, or love. They are disgusting and should be treated as such. Everyone knows this.

I dunno.

Correct me if I am wrong, but I am getting the feeling that you may just be, and don't get me wrong, deliberately trolling.......


I don't know.

Just a hunch.
 

Regs

Lifer
Aug 9, 2002
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Sexual intimacy is very important in any relationship. If weight has an affect on it, then yes.

I don't see anything shallow about it - it's called life and it fucking sucks. Put the cookies down.
 
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