If your wife becomes fat [during marriage], would you divorce her?

[SandEagle]

After getting married, I gained 130 lbs. Her. :awe:

 

[Jeeebus]

Two years ago my wife continuously got fatter over a 9-month period. She eventually lost the weight, but is now 4 months into another 9-month fattening. WTF is wrong with this woman!?!?!

 

[HAL9000]

Two years ago my wife continuously got fatter over a 9-month period. She eventually lost the weight, but is now 4 months into another 9-month fattening. WTF is wrong with this woman!?!?!

Drugs?

 

[SirStev0]

This. Or if it's normal "wear and tear" as she gets older, no biggie. If she turns into a slob, yes.

agreed

 

[AstroManLuca]

Two years ago my wife continuously got fatter over a 9-month period. She eventually lost the weight, but is now 4 months into another 9-month fattening. WTF is wrong with this woman!?!?!

take her to a doctor, she may have a parasitic infection

you want to get tested too, it's likely that you're the one who infected her

 

[Nintendesert]

I voted yes simply to piss some of the fatties off.

 

[dud]

Would you?

For women: If your husband becomes fat, would you divorce him?

I answered no. When we got married she weighed 115 ... now, 23 years later she weighs 120. As you age you realize that most everything you held most dear as a younger person really does not matter. If you focus on the "physical" you are doomed to failure. If you are into failure then you'll be fine. The long term goal is that you put up with each other; You start understanding each other; You start realizing that everything you thought meant so much ... means nothing at all.

 

[Zebo]

....I've been trying to get my wife to run with me let's just say that. She's into bullshit like palliates and other fake wanna be exercise that does jack shit.

 

[Gigantopithecus]

Sexual intimacy is very important in any relationship.

There's an unfortunate imprecision.

 

[Alone]

....I've been trying to get my wife to run with me let's just say that. She's into bullshit like palliates and other fake wanna be exercise that does jack shit.

Who cares? While cardio is good and fine, you'd see far more improvements by changing your diet. I'd rather not run 10KM and instead just not eat that delicious looking double cheese burger.

 

[Zebo]

Who cares? While cardio is good and fine, you'd see far more improvements by changing your diet. I'd rather not run 10KM and instead just not eat that delicious looking double cheese burger.

Meh.. you don't get a hard body by dieting plus you can eat whatever you want by running.

 

[child of wonder]

My wife and I have had this conversation. Personally, I am not able to find morbidly obese women attractive and physical attraction is important to me. Neither of us are in good shape now by any means, but if one of us got morbidly obese I'm sure the other would leave.

 

[zinfamous]

take her to a doctor, she may have a parasitic infection

you want to get tested too, it's likely that you're the one who infected her

fucking parasites.

 

[HAL9000]

I find it surprising that so many people find physical appearance so important, to me I'm in love with the personality no matter how she looks.

 

[Alone]

Meh.. you don't get a hard body by dieting plus you can eat whatever you want by running.

This is why people are fat. Running won't cure the worlds obesity problem.

Eat less, lift more.

 

[silverpig]

Who cares? While cardio is good and fine, you'd see far more improvements by changing your diet. I'd rather not run 10KM and instead just not eat that delicious looking double cheese burger.

They kind of go hand-in-hand though. When I'm on the exercising bandwagon and feel like a triple cheeseburger, I force myself to have a glass of water and go for a good hard run. When I get home the thought of a cheeseburger puts me off and all I want to eat is a big salad.

 

[Alone]

They kind of go hand-in-hand though. When I'm on the exercising bandwagon and feel like a triple cheeseburger, I force myself to have a glass of water and go for a good hard run. When I get home the thought of a cheeseburger puts me off and all I want to eat is a big salad.

Mentality is one of the most important factors in losing fat. I'm not saying running isn't good for you, that would be stupid. I'm simply saying that people over complicate things and think running is mandatory.

 

[RocksteadyDotNet]

I find it surprising that so many people find physical appearance so important, to me I'm in love with the personality no matter how she looks.

Then you could fall in love with a guy?

 

[HAL9000]

Then you could fall in love with a guy?

Yes I could, I'm bisexual...

 

[RocksteadyDotNet]

Yes I could, I'm bisexual...

You win this round...

 

[HAL9000]

You win this round...

Ha, but the point still stands, I couldn't fall out of love with someone because they became less attractive.

 

[spidey07]

There are countless studies that show if you aren't sexually attracted to your mate then it is destined to fail. The normal course in a marriage if one gets so bad that the other shudders at the thought of having sex with them then they work together to get one or both of them back to sexually attractive state. Or at least acceptable so they aren't repulsed by the idea.

We age, we get older and maybe gain some weight. That's managable. But if one gets fat to the point the other is repulsed by their appearance the relationship, even marriage, is doomed to fail.

 

[bfdd]

Who cares? While cardio is good and fine, you'd see far more improvements by changing your diet. I'd rather not run 10KM and instead just not eat that delicious looking double cheese burger.

If you ran 10km a day you could eat whatever you want, I'd rather be able to run the 10km and eat whatever I want.

I like the guy with the 30lb limit. Look if I wasn't physically attracted to the woman anymore because she got to fat, we're going to try to do something about it or I'm going my own seperate way.

 

[bfdd]

This is why people are fat. Running won't cure the worlds obesity problem.

Eat less, lift more.

fucking WRONG, running will cure the worlds obesity. sounds like you know jack shit about running and the human body.


ps we're the longest distance runners in the animal kingdom for a reason.

 

[HAL9000]

If you ran 10km a day you could eat whatever you want, I'd rather be able to run the 10km and eat whatever I want.

I like the guy with the 30lb limit. Look if I wasn't physically attracted to the woman anymore because she got to fat, we're going to try to do something about it or I'm going my own seperate way.

I see the logic, but these comments really surprise me if your being serious.