Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: KMFJD
Yep, women should just wear a burqa and never leave the house other than to get groceries...ffs
That's just ridiculous.
Why do the less intelligent members on ATOT use ridiculous comparisons like this? A wise man exercizes some judgement... an idiot instantly compares that judgement to something extreme and uses that as an excuse to be, well, an idiot.
There's a big difference between forcing your woman to wear a burqa and allowing her to screw around behind your back. But I doubt the idiots on here (hint: you) would be able to discern the difference.
Don't waste your breath on the kids. Wait until they grow up and marry, and then we'll see how liberal they are when the office douchebag starts hitting on their wives, waiting for the right moment..."Oh, are you guys fighting again? That's too bad. Do you need to talk? What a jerk he is..."
Truth is, if your wife was worth a ******, this question would never come up in the first place.
QFT
My wife and I have a strong marriage but here's my take:
My wife and her boss would occassionally go to lunch: sometimes with others, sometimes not.
Fast forward a couple of months and they have to go to a conference in Minneapolis. Apparently, my wifes boss had a custom where when he would go to a city on business, he would have dinner at a rather expensive steak house. So he invites my wife to go along with him. Of course, not being a business dinner the drinks were flowing. Upon returning to the hotel, he invites my wife to spend the night in his room, which my wife declines. (Slimeball move number 1)
The icing on the cake occurred at a Christmas party that I did not attend. Apparently, after the party when everyone was in the parking lot going to his/her car: He propositions her to run away from their marriages and move to Florida to be together. (Slimeball move number 2, compunded by idiocy because this time he was not drunk as it was a "dry" Christmas party)
Now between Slimeball move 1 and 2 I had asked my wife to leave the job, but not because of move # 1. My wife was just at the Christmas party because she was transitioning her job to a new employee.
Now I completely trust that my wife did absolutely nothing because of two things:
1. The jackass is 65 years old, my wife is 30
2. I know how much my wife loves me, and how much I trust her
However, that doesn't mean that ulterior motives aren't sometimes involved in "innocent" lunches, and as a man these situations made me uncomfortable. After incident number one, I gave her an ultimatum that she could no longer have lunches alone with her boss to which she agreed. It doesn't mean that we want to ostracize our loved ones from memebers of the opposite sex, or from all of society.