if you're white, would you date a girl who has dated a black man?

[geek4life]

Originally posted by: Robor
Strange that the number of people who wouldn't date a girl who's previously dated a black guy is higher than that of an Asian guy in the other poll.

FWIW I voted yes. As long as the previous relationship is over then the past is the past.

I'm asian and I used to date a southern belle. I got a lot of stares from strangers, but I don't think it's not as bad as black/white relationship.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: mobobuff

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: mobobuff
Yes, and I am. And we've been together happily for 3 years now.

That being said, I support the OP and his feelings. Rather than being a complete moron and labeling him a racist while refusing to listen to reason.

There's lots of good advice and logic in this thread, mostly from people like Queasy, Arkitech, PingSpike (brilliant pathological adaptation instinct analogy), AStar617, and WinstonSmith to name a few.

You'll have to ignore the ignorance from such posts as moshquerade, Ausm, purbeast0, djheater, and DivideBYZero and a few others.*

I couldn't say anything else helpful that hasn't been summed up already by posts made by the first group of people. But just to summarize... try not to judge her TOO quickly. Even though you might not be as attracted to her now as you were before, try to get to know her better, or the guy she dated. With such a knee-jerk reaction like this, you may be missing out on a great relationship with a great person.

I hope this topic wasn't originally meant to be flamebait, and that this is an actual personal situation.

Good luck,
mobobuff

read his thread title and first post again. it has "i am prejudice" written all over it. deal with it. the only ignorance i see is your coddling the OP when it is obvious he has racial bias.

Can you actually express your ideas, and give reasonable suggestions as to why the OP is a racist? Or is having a developed point too hard for you? Much easier to just slap on a label and call it a day, huh?

stop playing devil's advocate. :roll:

Why? Afraid you might be forced to think outside your tiny sphere of righteousness? Devil's advocate is an important tool for self reflection, it is at its core "putting oneself in another's shoes".

I'm not interested in how things should be, we all know that already, repeating it isn't going to make it so. I'm more interested in why things are.

Perhaps you should just cease reading the posts in this thread if they inflame you so much, and go back to witch hunting and torch carrying.

yeh, i remember you.... you are the one who also likes to physically beat women down.
therefore your opinion of anything means nothing.

Ask and you shall receive.

thanks for proving my point.

Try reading it again, it may be more clear with the edit.

 

[BurntCpu]

quick question to armatron:
What if she had a lesbian
relationship with a black girl?

 

[Diasper]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: Diasper
As far as this thread, I'd like to get past the simple branding of racism - the very notion of racism is a world with so many connotations and is essence an emotionally charged word and is really a broad reaching word that disguises the underlying processes at work. The terming racism belongs in political/cultural branding and discussions - by the very first post of this thread, this discussion belongs beyond that as the author has tried to understand the underlying processes and reasons for his feelings and what they mean.

Moreover, even in any usuage of branding, the word 'racism' cannot be applied because by its very definition it is linked to the belief of superiority of one race over the other - something the originall poster has shown <i> no </i> such opinion and in fact expressed to the contrary. So here at most could be accused of insecurity ...now we could really attribute this to the wider formative societal pressures that one grows up in (we can consider the role of the media etc). Nevertheless, the original poster can be seen to be a victim of this as much that undoubtedly the rest of us, albeit over different issues and in different ways. Importantly, I would like to distance this discussion now from individuals and branding them and is why I am trying not to use names - the very fact is that this is not an uncommon feeling (poll results) and so does not deserve to be limited to individuals.

From my understanding, the crux of this post is the transformation of a woman from a focus of attraction to suddenly becoming completely devoid of it. Asking a more general question - why can we be suddenly not be attracted to a woman we were before after actually meeting her and talking to her? Because we realise she is not interesting to us either in her activities or personality and that we do not have anything in common with her to make her 'attractive' to us. Extrapolate this to a girl that one has been interested in and then suddenly find out that she has had a terrible past (eg had several porn stars at once as from earlier posters) and then again suddenly she is no longer attractive because she has shown herself to be outside of something we can identify with and make her interesting and attractive to us. This can be despite of her otherwise having all the qualities that would make her perfectly attractive to us - this would even override the fact she could be our very soulmate all things considered. Thus, I categorize the poster original response within this - the very fact is this girl going out with a black man has overridden any attractiveness and placed her outside something he can identify with / 'attractiveness radar'. This can be because he is not black and because he has been told by all the pressures of family and society (media) that black men <i> are </i> different. This can easily be seen from popular culture and music to popular myths. The particular problem with this in a relationship is that no matter who you are, you always compare yourself to your partner's exes and unless you can compare up - identify with them and find some reasons why <i>you</i> are better than them and why you are better suited to your partner and why she wants <i>you</i>. Supposing you are told black men are completely different (esp sexually) and have it has an ingrained accepted belief, how is one to compare to oneself to someone regarded as so different? Going out with someone to be happy one needs to reconcile with one's partners past such that they don't matter +/ you compare favourably with them. If you can't completely forget about them and can't quite compare yourself, how can one reconcile oneself? Of course, at this point on insecurities can become involved and inextricably complicate things where nothing short of a psychoanalytical thesis can answer adequately. However, the original poster has shown no such insecurities so I won't touch on that.

Anyway, this can be extrapolated to other races and other viewpoints - from the black male or indeed as one poster commented from an asian male viewpoint.

In short, one should ask while the notion of a soulmate is perhaps ridiculous, is it worth risking losing that someone who could be so perfectly suited to you, who could make the rest of your life so unbelievably happy?

Some interesting points made here. And no real conclusions jumped too.

Thanks, quite franky I don't think given such little information that anyone can just judgementally jump on any bandwagon - explore, develop, analyse then judge. There's just too many immediate emotional responses not getting bast branding racism - just another example of famewars that impede any real exploration of an issue.

My $0.02

 

[classy]

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: classy
But here is a fact for the white guys here, most women of any race whether white, asian, or hispanic that have dated both black guys and white guys, most of the time, I would easily say 80% of the time, they never ever want to date white guys again. So for all the white guys who are tooting their horns about they wouldn't date a girl who has been with a black guy, fact is for the most part those women don't want you anyway. And I am sure that the manhood while it may have something to do with it ain't the only reason.

Fight racism with racism!! It always works.. Those damn White devils, statistical research has proven that amongst Classy's circle of friends 80% of all women won't date those evil crackers!!

LOL It may not be the classiest way, but I believe in debating, you fight fire with fire. And the 80% is just a guess, but its a very very high number. In particluar case there was one hispanic lady who was very pretty, who actually I thought was white. She was married to a brother, so I asked did she have problems with her family. She said no then starts laughing, I said what's so funny, she says I am hispanic not white. I said oh, ok. Then she throws in the comment I dated a couple of white guys, no thanks, then she winks at me with a huge smile. How's that for a Bumrush?

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Diasper

Originally posted by: PingSpike
Some interesting points made here. And no real conclusions jumped too.

Thanks, quite franky I don't think given such little information that anyone can just judgementally jump on any bandwagon - explore, develop, analyse then judge. There's just too many immediate emotional responses not getting bast branding racism - just another example of famewars that impede any real exploration of an issue.

My $0.02

Yeah, there isn't really a lot there to make a mountian out of. It was a gut emotional response, one the OP claims to not understand the origins of. Its interesting to note that everyone on here seems to know what the OP was thinking while he himself doesn't.

The trouble with emotional responses like that is they often are irrational. However, attraction to the opposite sex isn't exactly the most rational business in the first place. At least he cared enough about the behavior and its ramifications to try and understand it, if he had truely racists feelings I think he would have just accepted it as 'correct' and moved on rather then reflecting on it. I certainly don't agree with the response myself, but again...this isn't a venue known for championing rationality.

The difficulty surrounding issues like this, is if you talk about them in the open you are of course subject to great scrutiny and flaming. There is an adhered to set of absolute rights for many people (I'm not even disagreeing them), and even putting yourself in the other's shoes to understand them puts you in a dangerous position of being lumped in with them.

But what is the alternative? The OP bottles his feelings in, exhibiting them explicitly to no one. That doesn't address the issue at hand, it just covers it up. Nothing is solved, its still there.

How are we to solve a problem that we never talk about, and thus can never fully understand?

 

[Bumrush99]

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: classy
But here is a fact for the white guys here, most women of any race whether white, asian, or hispanic that have dated both black guys and white guys, most of the time, I would easily say 80% of the time, they never ever want to date white guys again. So for all the white guys who are tooting their horns about they wouldn't date a girl who has been with a black guy, fact is for the most part those women don't want you anyway. And I am sure that the manhood while it may have something to do with it ain't the only reason.

Fight racism with racism!! It always works.. Those damn White devils, statistical research has proven that amongst Classy's circle of friends 80% of all women won't date those evil crackers!!

LOL It may not be the classiest way, but I believe in debating, you fight fire with fire. And the 80% is just a guess, but its a very very high number. In particluar case there was one hispanic lady who was very pretty, who actually I thought was white. She was married to a brother, so I asked did she have problems with her family. She said no then starts laughing, I said what's so funny, she says I am hispanic not white. I said oh, ok. Then she throws in the comment I dated a couple of white guys, no thanks, then she winks at me with a huge smile. How's that for a Bumrush?

And your point being?? You can't apply one standard to everyone and then judge them, and then apply another to your set of values. Either you oppose what you percieve to be racism from all angles or you open yourself up to the fact that you exhibit the same behavior you seem so ready to criticize. You claim that this thread "boils you blood" and these forums allow for "racism" against blacks while protecting "whites", yet you have no problem saying the 80% of women that you know would never want to date white men for a variety of reasons.. Seems like the 35% of people that voted in oppositon to your viewpoint represent a much smaller percentage of the so called "racists" that you associate yourself with

 

[classy]

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: classy
But here is a fact for the white guys here, most women of any race whether white, asian, or hispanic that have dated both black guys and white guys, most of the time, I would easily say 80% of the time, they never ever want to date white guys again. So for all the white guys who are tooting their horns about they wouldn't date a girl who has been with a black guy, fact is for the most part those women don't want you anyway. And I am sure that the manhood while it may have something to do with it ain't the only reason.

Fight racism with racism!! It always works.. Those damn White devils, statistical research has proven that amongst Classy's circle of friends 80% of all women won't date those evil crackers!!

LOL It may not be the classiest way, but I believe in debating, you fight fire with fire. And the 80% is just a guess, but its a very very high number. In particluar case there was one hispanic lady who was very pretty, who actually I thought was white. She was married to a brother, so I asked did she have problems with her family. She said no then starts laughing, I said what's so funny, she says I am hispanic not white. I said oh, ok. Then she throws in the comment I dated a couple of white guys, no thanks, then she winks at me with a huge smile. How's that for a Bumrush?

And your point being?? You can't apply one standard to everyone and then judge them, and then apply another to your set of values. Either you oppose what you percieve to be racism from all angles or you open yourself up to the fact that you exhibit the same behavior you seem so ready to criticize. You claim that this thread "boils you blood" and these forums allow for "racism" against blacks while protecting "whites", yet you have no problem saying the 80% of women that you know would never want to date white men for a variety of reasons.. Seems like the 35% of people that voted in oppositon to your viewpoint represent a much smaller percentage of the so called "racists" that you associate yourself with

Your trying to twist my words there Brenda. I stated which is a very real fact, for whatever reason women, regardless of their race, who have dated both black men and white men almost rarely ever choose to date white men again. While the comment "Once you go black you never go back" is a cliche stereotype, it does hold some merit. Why that is I don't know. But the fact is if she has been with a black man, there is high probability she doesn't want you Bumrush, so it doesn't really matter how you feel.

 

[Bumrush99]

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: classy
But here is a fact for the white guys here, most women of any race whether white, asian, or hispanic that have dated both black guys and white guys, most of the time, I would easily say 80% of the time, they never ever want to date white guys again. So for all the white guys who are tooting their horns about they wouldn't date a girl who has been with a black guy, fact is for the most part those women don't want you anyway. And I am sure that the manhood while it may have something to do with it ain't the only reason.

Fight racism with racism!! It always works.. Those damn White devils, statistical research has proven that amongst Classy's circle of friends 80% of all women won't date those evil crackers!!

LOL It may not be the classiest way, but I believe in debating, you fight fire with fire. And the 80% is just a guess, but its a very very high number. In particluar case there was one hispanic lady who was very pretty, who actually I thought was white. She was married to a brother, so I asked did she have problems with her family. She said no then starts laughing, I said what's so funny, she says I am hispanic not white. I said oh, ok. Then she throws in the comment I dated a couple of white guys, no thanks, then she winks at me with a huge smile. How's that for a Bumrush?

And your point being?? You can't apply one standard to everyone and then judge them, and then apply another to your set of values. Either you oppose what you percieve to be racism from all angles or you open yourself up to the fact that you exhibit the same behavior you seem so ready to criticize. You claim that this thread "boils you blood" and these forums allow for "racism" against blacks while protecting "whites", yet you have no problem saying the 80% of women that you know would never want to date white men for a variety of reasons.. Seems like the 35% of people that voted in oppositon to your viewpoint represent a much smaller percentage of the so called "racists" that you associate yourself with

Your trying to twist my words there Brenda. I stated which is a very real fact, for whatever reason women, regardless of their race, who have dated both black men and white men almost rarely ever choose to date white men again. While the comment "Once you go black you never go back" is a cliche stereotype, it does hold some merit. Why that is I don't know. But the fact is if she has been with a black man, there is high probablity she doesn't want you Bumrush, so it doesn't really matter how you feel.

Don't worry, if she went out with you Classless, I can tell you for certain that I wouldn't want her
And your point is BS. There are plenty of white women that have dated white men after being with a black man.. One that comes to mind is Nicole Simpson, but we all know how that turned out, huh Fire with fire, right Classy

 

[Doboji]

Wow this thread is still alive? What a shame.

How is this even an arguable point?

The OP is racist... those that agree with him are racist... You don't have to be black to understand this... hey you can be blue, from a blue world where you've never seen another race. It's really quite simple...

The OP says he will not date women who dated black men.

What is the defining factor here... He mentions nothing of the character of the woman... he doesnt even mention the character of said black man. THE ONLY qualitative characteristic here is his being from the supposed "BLACK RACE". This is purely unadulterated utter racism. There is no other possible explanation. Perhaps if he said I don't date black women... that would be one thing... hey... I don't like women with red hair generally... that's not racism. But he didnt... he is discriminating against this women for her simple association with a Black person. Now perhaps he is not worthy of hanging for this racism... as racism is certainly a natural phenomenon not worthy of instant crucifixion... HOWEVER there is no doubt he is in fact racist.

His duty is to now deal with this newly discovered reality. I do thank him however for revealing to me all the racists on this board... who's names I have noted... and I will be harassing in the days months and years to follow.

Classy... I'm afraid you've managed to demonstrate clearly how racism isn't defined as white only... Your statements are assanine and counter-productive. As has been pointed out by others. Please stop posting in order to prevent further self-idiotification.

To all you others who hate being called racists.... who want to try and reason yourself a excusable reason to feel the way you do. Hey man... go for it... be a reasonable racist... Hitler was pretty successful at it... I'm sure you can be to.

There is no possible argument here... and after reading all the posts in this thread... I have yet to read a single post that progresses beyond "You guys are elitist scum-bags and don't know anything".... So if thats the best you can do... I suggest saving your fingers the keystrokes... I can read idiotic comments like that all I want... there are at least 50 of them in this thread.

-Max

 

[classy]

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Don't worry, if she went out with you Classless, I can tell you for certain that I wouldn't want her
And your point is BS. There are plenty of white women that have dated white men after being with a black man.. One that comes to mind is Nicole Simpson, but we all know how that turned out, huh Fire with fire, right Classy

Don't worry I can asure you if she went out with me I gurantee she wouldn't look your way. You want some personal numbers. 7 white women, 5 of them, I was the first black guy they dated. Only 1 ended up with a white dude, last when I talked to her she was getting divorced. Out of the 7, I did eventually keep one. Dated more than a dozen sistas and close to a dozen hispanic women, and two asian gals. Out all of them only 2 that I know of ever dated or ended up with a white guy after me. One of the white honeys and one sista, but hell he was a black man at heart . Now why is that? And I certainly didn't sleep with all of them so the potent equipment wasn't the deciding factor. And Nicole Simpson loved black men, so I don't know where you are coming from with that comment.

 

[Bumrush99]

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Don't worry, if she went out with you Classless, I can tell you for certain that I wouldn't want her
And your point is BS. There are plenty of white women that have dated white men after being with a black man.. One that comes to mind is Nicole Simpson, but we all know how that turned out, huh Fire with fire, right Classy

Don't worry I can asure you if she went out with me I gurantee she wouldn't look your way. You want some personal numbers. 7 white women, 5 of them, I was the first black guy they dated. Only 1 ended up with a white dude, last when I talked to her she was getting divorced. Out of the 7, I did eventually keep one. Dated more than a dozen sistas and close to a dozen hispanic women, and two asian gals. Out all of them only 2 that I know of ever dated or ended up with a white guy after me. One of the white honeys and one sista, but hell he was a black man at heart . Now why is that? And I certainly didn't sleep with all of them so the potent equipment wasn't the deciding factor. And Nicole Simpson loved black men, so I don't know where you are coming from with that comment.

That waiter was probably plowing her Not that it matters that comment was out of line on my part, I thought it was funny.. Classy, I'm done arguing with you. I have no problem with your perceptions, yes it probably sucks to be Black in the US given all the racism that is both on the surface and beneath the surface here, but it doesn't give you the right to claim the moral high ground when you have the same misconceptions and racial favoritisms that you claim to be against. Thats all I'm trying to say. Peace.

 

[zixxer]

Originally posted by: Doboji
Wow this thread is still alive? What a shame.

How is this even an arguable point?

The OP is racist... those that agree with him are racist... You don't have to be black to understand this... hey you can be blue, from a blue world where you've never seen another race. It's really quite simple...

The OP says he will not date women who dated black men.

What is the defining factor here... He mentions nothing of the character of the woman... he doesnt even mention the character of said black man. THE ONLY qualitative characteristic here is his being from the supposed "BLACK RACE". This is purely unadulterated utter racism. There is no other possible explanation. Perhaps if he said I don't date black women... that would be one thing... hey... I don't like women with red hair generally... that's not racism. But he didnt... he is discriminating against this women for her simple association with a Black person. Now perhaps he is not worthy of hanging for this racism... as racism is certainly a natural phenomenon not worthy of instant crucifixion... HOWEVER there is no doubt he is in fact racist.

His duty is to now deal with this newly discovered reality. I do thank him however for revealing to me all the racists on this board... who's names I have noted... and I will be harassing in the days months and years to follow.

Classy... I'm afraid you've managed to demonstrate clearly how racism isn't defined as white only... Your statements are assanine and counter-productive. As has been pointed out by others. Please stop posting in order to prevent further self-idiotification.

To all you others who hate being called racists.... who want to try and reason yourself a excusable reason to feel the way you do. Hey man... go for it... be a reasonable racist... Hitler was pretty successful at it... I'm sure you can be to.

There is no possible argument here... and after reading all the posts in this thread... I have yet to read a single post that progresses beyond "You guys are elitist scum-bags and don't know anything".... So if thats the best you can do... I suggest saving your fingers the keystrokes... I can read idiotic comments like that all I want... there are at least 50 of them in this thread.

-Max

There is a difference between me CHOOSING not to date her, and me JUST NOT LIKING HER.

 

[classy]

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Don't worry, if she went out with you Classless, I can tell you for certain that I wouldn't want her
And your point is BS. There are plenty of white women that have dated white men after being with a black man.. One that comes to mind is Nicole Simpson, but we all know how that turned out, huh Fire with fire, right Classy

Don't worry I can asure you if she went out with me I gurantee she wouldn't look your way. You want some personal numbers. 7 white women, 5 of them, I was the first black guy they dated. Only 1 ended up with a white dude, last when I talked to her she was getting divorced. Out of the 7, I did eventually keep one. Dated more than a dozen sistas and close to a dozen hispanic women, and two asian gals. Out all of them only 2 that I know of ever dated or ended up with a white guy after me. One of the white honeys and one sista, but hell he was a black man at heart . Now why is that? And I certainly didn't sleep with all of them so the potent equipment wasn't the deciding factor. And Nicole Simpson loved black men, so I don't know where you are coming from with that comment.

That waiter was probably plowing her Not that it matters that comment was out of line on my part, I thought it was funny.. Classy, I'm done arguing with you. I have no problem with your perceptions, yes it probably sucks to be Black in the US given all the racism that is both on the surface and beneath the surface here, but it doesn't give you the right to claim the moral high ground when you have the same misconceptions and racial favoritisms that you claim to be against. Thats all I'm trying to say. Peace.

I'll ended it on this I have never ever claimed the moral high ground. I believe to clean the pig pen you have to get down and dirty where the pigs are.

 

[clarkey01]

if the only reason a girl wants to be with you is because of your "much bigger manhood" then shes's pretty hollow & not worth keeping.

Once they go black they dont cone back ?

whats that due to manhood ? what smell ? skin colour ? money ? social acceptance ?

I knew from the OP it was going to boil down to manhood. If a girl sticks with a race due to there manhood (which isnt always the case of blacks being bigger) then let her, her choice.

If thats all shes intrested in, shes not worth keeping. There are plenty big white /asain guys.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: armatron
this is a serious poll. I always considered myself not racist... I don't (or try not to) judge people when I meet them, etc etc... but there's this girl who I found out date(d) a black guy... and for some reason I was immediately turned off by it...

Edit:
There is a difference between me CHOOSING not to date her, and me JUST NOT LIKING HER.

Sorry to tell you this, but if the reason you are turned off is because of someone black being involved with her that is RACIST.

There is a difference like you said, but this is not the same example.

Any adult that is caught up with someone's sexual past (I will accept those that have had risky pasts causing a concern as normal, to me this is someone that's been involved with IV drugs, unknown sexual partners, but not based on a number. Having 6-7 in a month once vs repeatedly is where I separate things).

 

[Pepsei]

Originally posted by: CTrain

Originally posted by: Pepsei
Right right, I think you'd be a homosexual if you did not find Tiger Woods' wife attractive.

Hate to tell you but Tiger is half Asian.
Seems like most American forget that fact ??

Oh noes, she cease to be attractive to me now.

Yep, people 'assumed' that he's black because he 'looks' black. so that just proves that you can't judge a book by its cover.

 

[Gulzakar]

It doesn't matter who she's dated...it only matters that you're pokin her now.

The bottom line? Nothing is ever 100% so take it when you can get it.

 

[mordantmonkey]

well you can't force yourself to be attracted to someone. But given only the information that she "once dated a black man", it's pretty obvious that you have some subconscious racism going on. Not necessarily your fault, but still obviously racist. obviously the idea of dating the same person that a black man has repulsed you, or "turned you off". what ever the underlying reason: insecurity, cultural stigma, etc. it is clearly a racist reaction.
but i don't hate you for it. at least you can admit it, and frankly it doesn't really matter who you chose to date and for what reasons. relationships are between no one but the two people involved. and maybe their kids.

 

[Taejin]

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Don't worry, if she went out with you Classless, I can tell you for certain that I wouldn't want her
And your point is BS. There are plenty of white women that have dated white men after being with a black man.. One that comes to mind is Nicole Simpson, but we all know how that turned out, huh Fire with fire, right Classy

Don't worry I can asure you if she went out with me I gurantee she wouldn't look your way. You want some personal numbers. 7 white women, 5 of them, I was the first black guy they dated. Only 1 ended up with a white dude, last when I talked to her she was getting divorced. Out of the 7, I did eventually keep one. Dated more than a dozen sistas and close to a dozen hispanic women, and two asian gals. Out all of them only 2 that I know of ever dated or ended up with a white guy after me. One of the white honeys and one sista, but hell he was a black man at heart . Now why is that? And I certainly didn't sleep with all of them so the potent equipment wasn't the deciding factor. And Nicole Simpson loved black men, so I don't know where you are coming from with that comment.

Wow, what a sexy stud. It's obvious you were the single most mitigating factor in their lives that led them to dump white men, since they obviously did not size up to your enormous superiority. /sarcasm

go find a mirror if you wanna preen. It's sick to watch you do it here.

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: classy

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Don't worry, if she went out with you Classless, I can tell you for certain that I wouldn't want her
And your point is BS. There are plenty of white women that have dated white men after being with a black man.. One that comes to mind is Nicole Simpson, but we all know how that turned out, huh Fire with fire, right Classy

Don't worry I can asure you if she went out with me I gurantee she wouldn't look your way. You want some personal numbers. 7 white women, 5 of them, I was the first black guy they dated. Only 1 ended up with a white dude, last when I talked to her she was getting divorced. Out of the 7, I did eventually keep one. Dated more than a dozen sistas and close to a dozen hispanic women, and two asian gals. Out all of them only 2 that I know of ever dated or ended up with a white guy after me. One of the white honeys and one sista, but hell he was a black man at heart . Now why is that? And I certainly didn't sleep with all of them so the potent equipment wasn't the deciding factor. And Nicole Simpson loved black men, so I don't know where you are coming from with that comment.

That waiter was probably plowing her Not that it matters that comment was out of line on my part, I thought it was funny.. Classy, I'm done arguing with you. I have no problem with your perceptions, yes it probably sucks to be Black in the US given all the racism that is both on the surface and beneath the surface here, but it doesn't give you the right to claim the moral high ground when you have the same misconceptions and racial favoritisms that you claim to be against. Thats all I'm trying to say. Peace.

I'll ended it on this I have never ever claimed the moral high ground. I believe to clean the pig pen you have to get down and dirty where the pigs are.

:roll: Nobody gets lower than you, which makes you at least tied for winner in the race to be the biggest racist ass on this board. Where do you want your trophy delivered?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: armatron

Originally posted by: Doboji
Wow this thread is still alive? What a shame.

How is this even an arguable point?

The OP is racist... those that agree with him are racist... You don't have to be black to understand this... hey you can be blue, from a blue world where you've never seen another race. It's really quite simple...

The OP says he will not date women who dated black men.

What is the defining factor here... He mentions nothing of the character of the woman... he doesnt even mention the character of said black man. THE ONLY qualitative characteristic here is his being from the supposed "BLACK RACE". This is purely unadulterated utter racism. There is no other possible explanation. Perhaps if he said I don't date black women... that would be one thing... hey... I don't like women with red hair generally... that's not racism. But he didnt... he is discriminating against this women for her simple association with a Black person. Now perhaps he is not worthy of hanging for this racism... as racism is certainly a natural phenomenon not worthy of instant crucifixion... HOWEVER there is no doubt he is in fact racist.

His duty is to now deal with this newly discovered reality. I do thank him however for revealing to me all the racists on this board... who's names I have noted... and I will be harassing in the days months and years to follow.

Classy... I'm afraid you've managed to demonstrate clearly how racism isn't defined as white only... Your statements are assanine and counter-productive. As has been pointed out by others. Please stop posting in order to prevent further self-idiotification.

To all you others who hate being called racists.... who want to try and reason yourself a excusable reason to feel the way you do. Hey man... go for it... be a reasonable racist... Hitler was pretty successful at it... I'm sure you can be to.

There is no possible argument here... and after reading all the posts in this thread... I have yet to read a single post that progresses beyond "You guys are elitist scum-bags and don't know anything".... So if thats the best you can do... I suggest saving your fingers the keystrokes... I can read idiotic comments like that all I want... there are at least 50 of them in this thread.

-Max

There is a difference between me CHOOSING not to date her, and me JUST NOT LIKING HER.

because you were IMMEDIATELY TURNED OFF after hearing she previously dated A BLACK MAN!

 

[Geekbabe]

At my age the only question I ask a prospective date is if he accepts mastercard or Visa

 

[Bumrush99]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
At my age the only question I ask a prospective date is if he accepts mastercard or Visa

Pay for sex Geekbabe??

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Bumrush99

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
At my age the only question I ask a prospective date is if he accepts mastercard or Visa

Pay for sex Geekbabe??

Where do you think the script material for "Desparate Housewives" comes from ?