if you're white, would you date a girl who has dated a black man?

[Jamie571]

Originally posted by: Doboji

Originally posted by: Jamie571

Originally posted by: Doboji

Originally posted by: armatron
this is a serious poll. I always considered myself not racist... I don't (or try not to) judge people when I meet them, etc etc... but there's this girl who I found out date(d) a black guy... and for some reason I was immediately turned off by it...

Yeah you're a total racist... and so is everyone else who thinks like this.... there is no acceptable reason to take this stance other than being a ignorant racist.

period.

-Max

People make decisions based on passed history, life experiences, and even genetics. He might have had a bad experience with a black man before or had a raciest upbringing. We all dont have the same life experiences as each other, so we are all going to see this differently. Calling him a total racist is wrong and you know it.

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Dude, I wish he didn't feel the way he does. But damnnit he does. I wish he could have been raised up the way you were, then probably wouldn't feel that way. This is the way it is and it comes from all ethnic backgrounds.

 

[Chrono]

I'm Chinese. I'd date a white girl. I won't date a black girl though.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: Jamie571

Originally posted by: Doboji

Originally posted by: Jamie571

Originally posted by: Doboji

Originally posted by: armatron
this is a serious poll. I always considered myself not racist... I don't (or try not to) judge people when I meet them, etc etc... but there's this girl who I found out date(d) a black guy... and for some reason I was immediately turned off by it...

Yeah you're a total racist... and so is everyone else who thinks like this.... there is no acceptable reason to take this stance other than being a ignorant racist.

period.

-Max

People make decisions based on passed history, life experiences, and even genetics. He might have had a bad experience with a black man before or had a raciest upbringing. We all dont have the same life experiences as each other, so we are all going to see this differently. Calling him a total racist is wrong and you know it.

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Dude, I wish he didn't feel the way he does. But damnnit he does. I wish he could have been raised up the way you were, then probably wouldn't feel that way. This is the way it is and it comes from all ethnic backgrounds.

Hey look it's not his fault he's a racist... but he is a racist... the sooner he admits this the sooner he can begin dealing with it. But if you read the whole thread you'll find him looking for a way out of his racist definition... looking or ways to justify his racist POV.

Being a racist isnt a death sentence... it is something almost everyone is by default... Not being racist requires attention to your own inner prejudices. The OP up til now doesnt appear to be paying the attention to it, that is warranted.

-Max

 

[Chrono]

Yes, I'm racist too. I have black friends who know I'm racist. But they're cool with me. Also, co-workers who know I'm racist too, but we're cool like that because they're racist back.

 

[Zeeky Boogy Doog]

if its a productive member of society black guy yeah, if its a dumbass gangster badboy black guy no, and not because of hte guy, just because she was dumb enough to go out with a guy that was such a waste of a human being, of course if that guy was white, indian, mexican, chineese, canadian or eskimo it woudl be the same thing

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: ncircle
it begs to be posted

wtf? why would someone even waste their time making something that fvcking retarded?

 

[BigToque]

The only reason most people have a problem with it is because of the stereotype of the black guy with a huge dick. Even though there is almost no difference statistically, people have become so fixated on the stereotype that it is very easy to feel insecure and intimidated by it.

That is your answer to the thread.

 

[gururu]

everyone who is calling OP racist has no clue. I'm not even white, and I have similar feelings. I'm latino, and if a latina dated a white, asian, or black before me, it would give me second thoughts about making a move. Now, if I were interested in a woman of another race, her past would mean little. Its weird, but that is the way it is. But as someone mentioned, a persons past with complete scumbags is an even more serious issue

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

OP, would you feel differently if he was a white porn star? How about a very daintily hung Latino?

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: Chrono
Yes, I'm racist too. I have black friends who know I'm racist. But they're cool with me. Also, co-workers who know I'm racist too, but we're cool like that because they're racist back.

Nice little circle of friends you hang out with...:roll:

 

[Gurck]

Originally posted by: Stefan
The only reason most people have a problem with it is because of the stereotype of the black guy with a huge dick. Even though there is almost no difference statistically, people have become so fixated on the stereotype that it is very easy to feel insecure and intimidated by it.

That is your answer to the thread.

I wouldn't be so sure... just as dark skin is an adaptation to living in hot sunny weather, so is enlargement of body parts which have a lot of blood flow - it helps with heat dissipation. At any rate, I'd love to have that stereotype, though I sorta do anyway being mostly Italian.

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: gururu
everyone who is calling OP racist has no clue. I'm not even white, and I have similar feelings.

I'd say you're the one born without a clue. You don't have to be white to be a racist, as you so capably show.

 

[shimsham]

wouldnt matter to me what color he is, but what type of lifestyle he lived. if he was a gangbanger/drug dealer/crackhead/manho, then i wouldnt date her. if he was an average guy, it wouldnt bother me.

color doesnt matter, character does.

 

[Brutuskend]

I have.

 

[Pepsi90919]

It's like saying we can't hire you because your WHITE. We don't care about your skills/ personality just we'll COMPLETELY DISMISS you because YOUR xxx skin colour. It isn't racist it is just an opinion

YOU'RE

YOU ARE

YOU ARE WHITE

YOU ARE XXX SKIN COLOUR

 

[shimsham]

Originally posted by: Pepsi90919

It's like saying we can't hire you because your WHITE. We don't care about your skills/ personality just we'll COMPLETELY DISMISS you because YOUR xxx skin colour. It isn't racist it is just an opinion

YOU'RE

YOU ARE

YOU ARE WHITE

YOU ARE XXX SKIN COLOUR

your on a mission, aint you?

 

[Buck Armstrong]

Originally posted by: Pepsei
That means you have an innate racial avoidence that is going to be very hard to change.

would it make any difference if you found out she dated Peter North?

It doesn't necessarily make him racist. Maybe he's just worried about how his little white wiener will stack up against the black man's kickstand.

 

[Dr. Detroit]

A valid concern in this debate is the rate of STD's in blacks versus other races.

Especially AIDS


Rate that was recently reported in the US is that 2% of blacks in the US have AIDS. While 0.4% for whites.



Aside from being a racist, fear of the girl being piped out, insecurity on your small penis, I see this STD as a valid concern.

 

[Arkitech]

Originally posted by: Fmr12B
A valid concern in this debate is the rate of STD's in blacks versus other races.

Especially AIDS


Rate that was recently reported in the US is that 2% of blacks in the US have AIDS. While 0.4% for whites.



Aside from being a racist, fear of the girl being piped out, insecurity on your small penis, I see this STD as a valid concern.

Statistics like that are very skewed, especially considering there are far more whites in amerca than blacks

 

[Doboji]

rant
This thread is filled with such ignorance, utter stupidity and outright bigotry.

1. Who are you to judge a person based on the mistakes they've made in their past?

I know very few people who haven't made stupid mistakes in regards to their love life, sleeping with people they probably shouldn't have... maybe even having done drugs, or whatever. If you want to limit yourself to only the pure of heart who've never strayed from the straight and narrow, then feel free to be a stupid asshat and missout on 80% of the world's population. Furthermore, if you're looking just for a piece of a$$ in the first place... then more than likely the skeez in the scenario is actually you!...

2. The very fact that this thread has gone from someone's decision to date or not date black people to how shady someone's past is racist to the nth degree! Who are you people to equate dating black people with having a shady past!?! How fvcking insulting.... Make no bones about it... THAT is utter and complete racism... the concept that you would take the color of a person's skin as an indicator of their past sex life.... my god are you people even from the same planet as I am? How can you possibly see that utter prejudice as even remotely ok?

3. I'm so tired of the I have lots of friends who are <insert discriminated against group name here> so I can't be racist. What on earth would give you the idea that having friends or neighbors of that particular group exempt you from being racist. It doesnt... so stop trying to hide behind this pitiful facade.

It's one thing to choose not to date outside of your cultural group... that I can understand... but not dating someone because of their race... is pitiful.... period. I understand if you're more attracted to a certain shade of skin, or a eye color or a hair color... thats one thing... but dismissing all "black" people... is just stupid... there are black people of all shades of skin.... would you not date a "white" girl who hard dark skin? would you date a black person with really light skin?

You guys need to take a deep look inside with an open mind to the possibility that you might actually be a racist bigot.... and rather than hiding from it like the OP, take responsibility for and CHANGE it.

/rant

 

[BriGy86]

im going to sound racist when i say this but i don't really care

im not saying ALL black guys are thugged out wanna be "gangstas" but from my experience (and maybe from the OP's experience) a lot of them seem that way- for me that would be a bigger deal than JUST the color of the guys skin

so again it all comes down to character and what kind of guy the other guy actually was, if the OP actually met her ex maybe he would have a dif thinking

also, why is it that when ever you say one bad thing about some one, and the other person just so happens to be a dif race, everyone starts screaming racist? its like they automaticaly start to focus on color, and thats going against everything they're preaching

 

[Doboji]

Hey DUMBASS... NEWSFLASH: Read the OP.

He was upset not because the girls ex was a "gangsta", he was upset because the girls ex was BLACK... no details... JUST BLACK.... and once again you've played your racist card for making the wild assumptions about this person YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT... JUST because he's BLACK.

Get cancer and die.

-Max

Originally posted by: BriGy86
im going to sound racist when i say this but i don't really care

im not saying ALL black guys are thugged out wanna be "gangstas" but from my experience (and maybe from the OP's experience) a lot of them seem that way- for me that would be a bigger deal than JUST the color of the guys skin

so again it all comes down to character and what kind of guy the other guy actually was, if the OP actually met her ex maybe he would have a dif thinking

also, why is it that when ever you say one bad thing about some one, and the other person just so happens to be a dif race, everyone starts screaming racist? its like they automaticaly start to focus on color, and thats going against everything they're preaching

 

[PingSpike]

1. Who are you to judge a person based on the mistakes they've made in their past?

Assuming I am in the position of a potential relationship with this person, I'm the person with the most to lose by not doing so. Thats who.

A person's past actions are the best indicator of what that persons future actions are going to be. Sorry. If some girl slept with 100 dudes and got aids while cheating on her last boyfriend...I'd like to know about it so I can dump her and save myself a lot of trouble.

Sorry! Everyone's got a past, doesn't mean I have to deal with it...its not my past!

 

[91TTZ]

Originally posted by: Doboji
rant
This thread is filled with such ignorance, utter stupidity and outright bigotry.

1. Who are you to judge a person based on the mistakes they've made in their past?

Answer: The other half of the relationship.

 

[dfinder]

Personally i wont take that too seriously, as long as she doesnt remember that person while with me. Besides black too are people and nothing to make it a matter too.