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Originally posted by: NeuroSynapsis
been there done that
I'm sorry, but you don't ask for help on a public message board
you talk to friends that actually know you and can give a damn
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What if he didn't have any friends to turn to?
No kidding!
Good or bad, right or wrong, for SOME people this may BE their life. Or it may at least seem that way to them.
Did it not cross your mind that the type of person that would think life is so bad that they would want to end it might be the same type of person that doesn't make friends easily. Maybe the people he feels closest to are the guys and gals on here! They can't easily judge someone by how they look, unlike the "REAL" word.
People on here (for the most part) judge a person by what they say, and how they behave on here, and how helpful they are to their fellows.
I only wish people in "The Real Word" could be like a large percentage of the people on here!
Several years ago my best friend took his life.
A day or so before he did it he came around to spend time with me, and my girl friend at the time didn't like him so I sent him away. As it turned out he was going around visiting ALL of his friends and saying good-by in his own way.
For the longest time I felt terrible about not being there for him. Part of me thought maybe I could have stopped him if I had just spent some time with him that day. Of course I'm sure I couldn't have, I wouldn't have even know what he had planned to do. But I still wish I could have spent just a bit more time with him before he left.
Personally I think it's GREAT that anyone could feel close enough to people on here that they would want to share their feelings and their troubles with them!!
And I hope that we as a community when called upon to help a FRIEND can BE a friend and help.....................