I'm a dad now. Well as of 9/7/16 - EditEdit.. Bill's likely to hit $2M

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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My wife and I were expecting a baby girl around November 8th. Early in the pregnancy, we had some issues which lead us to think there was a miscarriage, but a trip to the ER confirmed we were still pregnant. However, these problems manifested into something more serious later on.

After some routine tests and ultrasounds, it was confirmed that my wife had IUGR, aka Intrauterine growth restriction. Basically the 'miscarriage' event was actually from losing part of the placenta. This then resulted in a restricted amount of nutrition, blood, etc. getting to the baby. It was fine at first, because her demands were small. But as she grew, it created a 'sucking a thick milkshake through a small straw' problem for the baby. About a month ago, after a follow up test, my wife's doctor had her admitted to Mercy (St. Louis, aka the baby factory) for bedrest and monitoring until birth. This was at approx 27 weeks gestation.

They suspected they'd need to do a C-section by week 29, but things went well enough that they were able to hold off until week 31. At this point, baby's heart rate was dropping enough to show possible distress, and an ultrasound showed that she likely had her umbilical cord wrapped around her neck. At this point, they called it, and my wife went in for an emergency c-Section. This was on the 7th.

My wife asked that I don't share any direct photos of the baby in the NICU because she's covered in sensors, etc. and it looks discouraging, but I'm going to share this vid, that I took during the C-section. It's mostly just the camera pointed down at my feet, as I was more concerned about capturing the audio of my baby's first cries. But I managed to look up for a split section to see the baby coming out.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KyovrTSpBRA

She was born at 9/7/16 @ 6:09pm

Sex: Girl
Weight: 1 Pound, 9 Ounces
Length: 13 inches

Yes, she's not even 2 pounds. She's super tiny. Smallest baby in the NICU at St. Louis's best baby hospital. But she's doing great! She's 2 months early, but still underweight for her gestation age. That said, her lungs are doing amazingly well, and there's no issues on radar. The only thing that was on radar was her platelets being low, but that has stabilized. So right now it's just a matter of letting her bake for a few months and getting her ready for regular feeding.

I'm a daddy! Here's my life for the next few months.

 

Oyeve

Lifer
Oct 18, 1999
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Congrats! Don't worry, I am sure this will all work out! My niece was born 1.5 lbs, 6 month premie. Shes now 34 and weighs about 160 (a little chunky) and she is just fine!
 

TechBoyJK

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I would like to add that the staff at Mercy, everyone from the AntePartum nurses, the resident surgeon, the respiratory team, to the NICU nurses and doctors, have been absolutely amazing. They've been nothing less than confident AND competent the entire way through this situation. They've had wise answers to all of our questions, were prompt with everything, and were basically our own little pit crew the entire time.

The nurses watching her in the NICU are amazing! They're all in love with our daughter and the level of care is extraordinary. A++ to St. John's Mercy Hospital in St. Louis.
 

Oyeve

Lifer
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My Son was a C section as well. Only because he was a lazy baby. Still is at the age of 22.
 

highland145

Lifer
Oct 12, 2009
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Grats. Nothing like your own kid. And ignore Exterous.

So right now it's just a matter of letting her bake for a few months and getting her ready for regular feeding.

lol.


1st dibs on pics in 18 years.
 

Cal166

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WOW! Thanks for sharing the update. Congrats & Best to you and your new family.
 

monkeydelmagico

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Magical Monkey fingers crossed for your baby girls speedy exit from the NICU. Pay close attention to the infection control isolation precautions. Her tiny life depends upon it.
 
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Congratulations! I was premature too, I think I spent 8 weeks or so in one of those except it was the 60's version of it so I'm sure it was less cool looking. I think I was around 2lbs I had a blood problem too the positive negative conflict thing with my mothers blood, I turned out fine.
 

Linux23

Lifer
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Congratulations! I was premature too, I think I spent 8 weeks or so in one of those except it was the 60's version of it so I'm sure it was less cool looking. I think I was around 2lbs I had a blood problem too the positive negative conflict thing with my mothers blood, I turned out fine.

So you say???
 
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core2slow

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Congrats man! Hope for the baby's quick recovery. 1lb 9oz wow first I've heard of that.
 

HumblePie

Lifer
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My wife was a premie about that size as she was 3 months early too if memory serves me right.

She made it and so will yours. Congrats man
 
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Tormac

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Congrats! I can not imagine a more important, life changing event than your first child.
 

Stopsignhank

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Ah yes, I remember the proud moment when I looked around and thought, My daughter is hooked up to the most machines in the NICU!! Woo Hoo, I win!

Congrats on your baby. (Be extra nice to your wife right now. What you are going through, multiply it by 10 for her.)
 

cyclistca

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My wife and I just had our first baby in our forties. We started having complications at 6 months. She had to go on bed rest and at that point we were scheduled for a C-Section. Our little guy is now three month old and healthy as a horse. Best move ever. Love the little guy.
 
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JulesMaximus

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Congrats man! Hope the baby develops normally and has no complications (well, other than having you for a father of course).

Just kidding bro. Seriously, congratulations!
 

TechBoyJK

Lifer
Oct 17, 2002
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So far, the hospital staff is giving her an A+.. and they said they don't do that lightly. Right now, she's quickly tearing through the support needs and day by day they're scaling things back. They were able to take her off oxygen within 48 hours, and she's done amazing with just regular room air (it's filtered and humidified, but otherwise room air). They thought they'd need her on oxygen for a few weeks. Right now she's basically on cruise control and just needs time to develop her ability to feed normally (via bottle/breast). Until she proves we can feed her normally, we can't take her home.. and that's understandable.
 
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