I'm getting married in a week...

[rh71]

went thru it on 9/5 ... and I attended my friend's wedding yesterday. We said to them that the last week is the worst because of exactly that... small details you don't want to forget, yet can't finalize right away. Last week my friend said to us it's so true...

Both of us (couples) have been living with our SO for years so "feeling different" is nothing to worry about - maybe you're on a different boat as far as "cold feet".

Anyway, it all works out in the end, don't worry. Just make sure your DJ knows how to say your names and your groomsmen are on top of what should happen when. You need to create a what's-going-to-happen-when list for your own sanity and also for someone to check up on once in a while on the day of.

 

[obiwaynekenobi]

Originally posted by: SampSon
Yes, but you will be divorced within 10 years so don't worry so much.

divorce rate in most of the states in the U.S. is like 43% or so last time I checked.

so sadly, that may not be far from the truth.

 

[obiwaynekenobi]

Originally posted by: SampSon
Yes, but you will be divorced within 10 years so don't worry so much.

http://www.divorcereform.org/rates.html

U.S. Per Capita Divorce Rates Every Year 1940-1990
Since 1990:
1991, 0.47%
1992, 0.48%
1993, 0.46%
1994, 0.46%
1995, 0.46%
1995, 0.43%
1997, 0.43%,
1998, 0.42%,
1999, 0.41%,
2000, 0.41%,
2001, 0.40%,
(Mostly from NCHS, some from Census Bureau's Statistical Abstract of the U.S., which often differs from NCHS by 0.01%)U.S. divorce rates and other vital stats from 1950 to 2001.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: PhoenixOrion
It's not scared as in cold feet. Just a little bit wary about the finality of things.

:beer:

(you poor dumb bastard)

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: PhoenixOrion
Just got back from wedding and honeymoon in Maui.

Didn't get nervous at anytime through the whole thing.
Like I mentioned, it was just a "2 weekends before the wedding" anxiety for me.

Maui rocks! And the Ritz-Carlton is one pimpin place.

I just got back from Maui 3 days ago! My wife and I were there on vacation. We were the couple in the Chrysler 300. Hehehe...

 

[rh71]

Originally posted by: obiwaynekenobi

Originally posted by: SampSon
Yes, but you will be divorced within 10 years so don't worry so much.

divorce rate in most of the states in the U.S. is like 43% or so last time I checked.

so sadly, that may not be far from the truth.

that's cause most couples don't test drive living together before they actually get married.

 

[rh71]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: PhoenixOrion
Just got back from wedding and honeymoon in Maui.

Didn't get nervous at anytime through the whole thing.
Like I mentioned, it was just a "2 weekends before the wedding" anxiety for me.

Maui rocks! And the Ritz-Carlton is one pimpin place.

I just got back from Maui 3 days ago! My wife and I were there on vacation. We were the couple in the Chrysler 300. Hehehe...

LOL, we went to Kauai and Maui 9/6-9/17. All the cars were Cavaliers, Chrysler 300, Sebrings, or Neons.

 

[PhoenixOrion]

Originally posted by: rh71

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: PhoenixOrion
Just got back from wedding and honeymoon in Maui.

Didn't get nervous at anytime through the whole thing.
Like I mentioned, it was just a "2 weekends before the wedding" anxiety for me.

Maui rocks! And the Ritz-Carlton is one pimpin place.

I just got back from Maui 3 days ago! My wife and I were there on vacation. We were the couple in the Chrysler 300. Hehehe...

LOL, we went to Kauai and Maui 9/6-9/17. All the cars were Cavaliers, Chrysler 300, Sebrings, or Neons.

We were the couple in a red Jeep Wrangler.

Lol, wranglers and chrysler 300's are the most common rentals in Maui.