I'm soooo F^&#%@ pissed!!!

Cuda1447

Lifer
Jul 26, 2002
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I need to fucking vent and then need some damn advice!


Long story short. Fiancee ordered wedding invitations through alaunbydesign.com. We ordered a couple sets of previews (which we paid for) to get the font we liked. We finally made the final order at the beginning of Dec. Our wedding is March 7th and the invitations have to go out between 4-6 weeks before the wedding. We got the invites in two days ago (a week after they said they'd be in). We found a few problems. We got invitations as well as envelopes with the addresses printed on them, along with all those other things that go with wedding invites. Well the font on the invite is wrong (not the end of the world, but disappointing), one of the names is spelled incorrectly (oh welll, we can fix it) but THE MOTHER FUCKING INVITATION IS THE EXACT SAME SIZE AS THE ENVELOPE IT GOES IN!!! IT doesn't fucking fit in the envelope!!! omfg who the fuck is stupid enough to do that?!??

So I call this damn company and speak with the owner. She's a total bitch. At first she doesn't want to talkto me cause I didnt sign the agreement. I tell her my fiancee isn't here and she's going to talk to me. We tried emailing her two days ago and she never responded. She claims if we would have sent the email she would have got it so it didn't go through. Well WTF? I did it through her website so maybe her websites fubar'd, but whatever. Anyways, this bitch lady tells me we signed an agreement yatta yatta and that I have to send all the shit back before they will do anything (I'm assuming at my cost). I told her I don't even care about the font i just want envelopes of the right size and we need these asap. Well she still si makign me send them back before she does anything, even though I dont have the time to do that now! I told her I'd send back the old envelopes and wait for the new ones since I don't have time. She told me it was against her policy (even though she owns the business). I told her I was extremely dissatisfied etc... and I told her I would report her to BBB. She actually said "Good, do it cause I held up my end of the agreement", which she didnt cause the envelopes are the wrong fuckign size. I also told her I'd stop payment if we didnt get this taken care of. She told me I can't cause she already has my money. We paid with a debit card out of our bank account. With a credit card I could dispute payment and ship her all of her bulslhit back, but I don't know if we can with a debit card. What the fuck do we do now?


Cliffs: This lady's a fucking bitch.
 

KK

Lifer
Jan 2, 2001
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can you trim a wise and beautiful woman hair off the invites?
 

keird

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Jan 18, 2002
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My wife and I got married by a justice of the peace Monday. It cost $75 and we're happy.

Sorry 'bout the invitations for the big day, though. The envelopes thing is a little retarded for a company whose purpose is to make invitations.
 

Cuda1447

Lifer
Jul 26, 2002
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Because its easier. We don't use our credit cards ever, why not just go straight from the bank account? A lot of places run it like credit anyway. Besides, we didn't expect to have a problem.
 

Newbian

Lifer
Aug 24, 2008
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My question is why are you doing anything that has to do with the wedding?

I thought women forbid men from doing any of that.
 

Codewiz

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Jan 23, 2002
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I can provide a solution. Go to target. They have pretty decent selections for invitations including wax to seal then envelops. Find a good quality laser printer and print them yourself. Too bad you used the debit because I am not sure you can do that much at this point.
 
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um, next time you want someone to help you solve a problem you might want to leave the anger out of it.

you better let your fiance step in and try to resolve this. Just ask the company to send some larger envelopes and agree to pay for them up front, then ask the company to refund the cost of the original envelopes.

Otherwise, just go to the store and see if you can find some bigger envelopes. Or take the invites to a local printer and ask them to trim off 1/8".

 

Cuda1447

Lifer
Jul 26, 2002
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Originally posted by: Codewiz
I can provide a solution. Go to target. They have pretty decent selections for invitations including wax to seal then envelops. Find a good quality laser printer and print them yourself. Too bad you used the debit because I am not sure you can do that much at this point.

I think we are going to keep the invitations and just get new envelopes.
 

Cuda1447

Lifer
Jul 26, 2002
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Originally posted by: HomeBrewerDude
um, next time you want someone to help you solve a problem you might want to leave the anger out of it.

you better let your fiance step in and try to resolve this. Just ask the company to send some larger envelopes and agree to pay for them up front, then ask the company to refund the cost of the original envelopes.

Otherwise, just go to the store and see if you can find some bigger envelopes. Or take the invites to a local printer and ask them to trim off 1/8".

I wasn't angry on the phone, at first. It took a good 5 minutes before I began to get really frustrated with her. She was seriously a bitch with me. Extremely rude. I'm a nice guy too, I work retail. I understand how these processes work. I VERY rarely get angry with someone, even if they are totally in the wrong.
 

Ns1

No Lifer
Jun 17, 2001
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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Because its easier. We don't use our credit cards ever, why not just go straight from the bank account?

Ironically enough, the answer to this question lies in the OP

 

dabuddha

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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Because its easier. We don't use our credit cards ever, why not just go straight from the bank account? A lot of places run it like credit anyway. Besides, we didn't expect to have a problem.


Your original post is the reason why :/

As for the immediate problem, just go buy some envelopes that do fit your cards.
 

Cuda1447

Lifer
Jul 26, 2002
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Ya alright, so we fucked up with using a debit card. Lesson learned I suppose. Never really had that thought cross my mind. I'm so fucking pissed as this bitch ass whore right now. I just want to fucking send her back the envelopes with a pissed off scorpion in every one. BAM! take that bitch
 

Ns1

No Lifer
Jun 17, 2001
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yelp her ass with a negative review, just don't slander her or your ass will get sued =P
 

Kalmah

Diamond Member
Oct 2, 2003
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I just don't understand how somebody can run a business as an asshole and make a profit.
And then you and your employees have a simple job of doing:
A: match font
B: match envelop

And somehow they fuckup both.

I need to find me a job where I don't have to bust my ass daily that I can mess things up left and right and the owner will just bitch at the client for wanting too much.
 

Aharami

Lifer
Aug 31, 2001
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take your invitation to kinkos, use their cutters to trim a hair off the invitations. problem solved.
 

rudeguy

Lifer
Dec 27, 2001
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Originally posted by: Kalmah
I just don't understand how somebody can run a business as an asshole and make a profit.
And then you and your employees have a simple job of doing:
A: match font
B: match envelop

And somehow they fuckup both.

I need to find me a job where I don't have to bust my ass daily that I can mess things up left and right and the owner will just bitch at the client for wanting too much.

Have you checked into politics?
 

GasX

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
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Find a local B&M stationary store who does wedding invites. Take what you have and get them to help you. It will cost more money, but they should be able to sort you out.

Best case, you can send the wrong envelopes back for a refund. Good luck with that though...
 

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
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My advice: CHILL

Every little detail doesn't get remembered. You're ruining it for yourself. These things happen.

Things people remember at a wedding:

1. Ceremony
2. Food
2. Speeches
3. Cake
4 First Dance

Things people DO NOT REMEMBER:

1. Dress/tux designs
2. flowers
3. decorations
4. invitations

It doesn't seem like it now, but you're making mountains out of molehills.
 
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