Incredible story of woman who sent her son off from Vietnam after the war

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s0ssos

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not only is this a great story, it is a true story.
not all immigrants come here and become raging successes. some fail. and that's life.
in hollywood, the improbable always happens. people are always successful. love is always found.
now, this is real
 

sygyzy

Lifer
Oct 21, 2000
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Very good story and hits close to home. I am from/have visited many of the aforementioned cities and my mother shares the same name.
 

JS80

Lifer
Oct 24, 2005
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Originally posted by: bennylong
My story would make a great movie!

My family was kicked out of Vietnam in 1979 because we were ethnic chinese. There were about 40 people that escaped with us in a little junk boat, we were rubbing elbow to elbow. My dad told me I was wandering the street when the boat was about to leave, but he saw me from a distance and grabbed me. I asked him what would have happened if he haven't saw me and he said, "we would have left you behind because another boat wasn't coming and we would all died if we didn't leave on this boat." We went to Hong Kong and spent 6 months in a detention camp where the Hong Kong government treated us like criminals. Finally, we were approved to go to the USA in December 1979. We flew to San Francisco where we lived in the seedy part of San Francisco, the Tenderloin district. There were 7 of us and we all slept on the same mattress in a little studio without any lights or electricty. I remember waking up once with my mouth opened and there was a rat in my mouth.

My dad was an auditor in Vietnam. In San Francisco, he had to resort to becoming a butcher in a Chinatown shop. Butchers in Chinatown were paid under the table and below minimum wages and the working hours were 7 am to 7 pm, 6 days a week. My sister and I sold fishes in the alleys of Chinatown that we caught on the Pier. We were arrested once by the cops when I was 7 years old for selling fishes on the street without a license. I also went through garbage cans to pick up soda cans to earn money from recycling the cans at 5 cents a can. We could make $5 on a good day walking around Pier 39 for the entire day in our soleless shoes. Sometimes my mom would pick up piecemeals sewing work and we could earn 10 cents for each sleeves we sewed. It came out to $1 a hour.

what do you do now?
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: UberNeuman
The only way this story would work as a movie would be the last scene when the Mom looks at the camera and says, "You want happy ending?"

man....perfect just like your house. Your mom is awesome!
 

UberNeuman

Lifer
Nov 4, 1999
16,937
3,087
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: UberNeuman
The only way this story would work as a movie would be the last scene when the Mom looks at the camera and says, "You want happy ending?"

man....perfect just like your house. Your mom is awesome!

My mother is dead.

 

bennylong

Platinum Member
Apr 20, 2006
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Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: bennylong
My story would make a great movie!

My family was kicked out of Vietnam in 1979 because we were ethnic chinese. There were about 40 people that escaped with us in a little junk boat, we were rubbing elbow to elbow. My dad told me I was wandering the street when the boat was about to leave, but he saw me from a distance and grabbed me. I asked him what would have happened if he haven't saw me and he said, "we would have left you behind because another boat wasn't coming and we would all died if we didn't leave on this boat." We went to Hong Kong and spent 6 months in a detention camp where the Hong Kong government treated us like criminals. Finally, we were approved to go to the USA in December 1979. We flew to San Francisco where we lived in the seedy part of San Francisco, the Tenderloin district. There were 7 of us and we all slept on the same mattress in a little studio without any lights or electricty. I remember waking up once with my mouth opened and there was a rat in my mouth.

My dad was an auditor in Vietnam. In San Francisco, he had to resort to becoming a butcher in a Chinatown shop. Butchers in Chinatown were paid under the table and below minimum wages and the working hours were 7 am to 7 pm, 6 days a week. My sister and I sold fishes in the alleys of Chinatown that we caught on the Pier. We were arrested once by the cops when I was 7 years old for selling fishes on the street without a license. I also went through garbage cans to pick up soda cans to earn money from recycling the cans at 5 cents a can. We could make $5 on a good day walking around Pier 39 for the entire day in our soleless shoes. Sometimes my mom would pick up piecemeals sewing work and we could earn 10 cents for each sleeves we sewed. It came out to $1 a hour.

what do you do now?

I'm a banker.
 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: bennylong
My story would make a great movie!

My family was kicked out of Vietnam in 1979 because we were ethnic chinese. There were about 40 people that escaped with us in a little junk boat, we were rubbing elbow to elbow. My dad told me I was wandering the street when the boat was about to leave, but he saw me from a distance and grabbed me. I asked him what would have happened if he haven't saw me and he said, "we would have left you behind because another boat wasn't coming and we would all died if we didn't leave on this boat." We went to Hong Kong and spent 6 months in a detention camp where the Hong Kong government treated us like criminals. Finally, we were approved to go to the USA in December 1979. We flew to San Francisco where we lived in the seedy part of San Francisco, the Tenderloin district. There were 7 of us and we all slept on the same mattress in a little studio without any lights or electricty. I remember waking up once with my mouth opened and there was a rat in my mouth.

My dad was an auditor in Vietnam. In San Francisco, he had to resort to becoming a butcher in a Chinatown shop. Butchers in Chinatown were paid under the table and below minimum wages and the working hours were 7 am to 7 pm, 6 days a week. My sister and I sold fishes in the alleys of Chinatown that we caught on the Pier. We were arrested once by the cops when I was 7 years old for selling fishes on the street without a license. I also went through garbage cans to pick up soda cans to earn money from recycling the cans at 5 cents a can. We could make $5 on a good day walking around Pier 39 for the entire day in our soleless shoes. Sometimes my mom would pick up piecemeals sewing work and we could earn 10 cents for each sleeves we sewed. It came out to $1 a hour.

what do you do now?

he plays wow 24/7 :laugh:
 

eleison

Golden Member
Mar 29, 2006
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Originally posted by: bennylong
My story would make a great movie!

My family was kicked out of Vietnam in 1979 because we were ethnic chinese. There were about 40 people that escaped with us in a little junk boat, we were rubbing elbow to elbow. My dad told me I was wandering the street when the boat was about to leave, but he saw me from a distance and grabbed me. I asked him what would have happened if he haven't saw me and he said, "we would have left you behind because another boat wasn't coming and we would all died if we didn't leave on this boat." We went to Hong Kong and spent 6 months in a detention camp where the Hong Kong government treated us like criminals. Finally, we were approved to go to the USA in December 1979. We flew to San Francisco where we lived in the seedy part of San Francisco, the Tenderloin district. There were 7 of us and we all slept on the same mattress in a little studio without any lights or electricty. I remember waking up once with my mouth opened and there was a rat in my mouth.

My dad was an auditor in Vietnam. In San Francisco, he had to resort to becoming a butcher in a Chinatown shop. Butchers in Chinatown were paid under the table and below minimum wages and the working hours were 7 am to 7 pm, 6 days a week. My sister and I sold fishes in the alleys of Chinatown that we caught on the Pier. We were arrested once by the cops when I was 7 years old for selling fishes on the street without a license. I also went through garbage cans to pick up soda cans to earn money from recycling the cans at 5 cents a can. We could make $5 on a good day walking around Pier 39 for the entire day in our soleless shoes. Sometimes my mom would pick up piecemeals sewing work and we could earn 10 cents for each sleeves we sewed. It came out to $1 a hour.

Yea, when we first got to the States... we were pretty poor also... not as poor as your sorry assess though food stamps.. american cheeze.. coupons.. crappy cloths.. hahaha.. good times..

Not to mention all the cultural stuff.. my mom tried to bargain with jewel when we first got here, etc...
 

SSSnail

Lifer
Nov 29, 2006
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Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: UberNeuman
The only way this story would work as a movie would be the last scene when the Mom looks at the camera and says, "You want happy ending?"

man....perfect just like your house. Your mom is awesome!

My mother is dead.
Happy ending?
 

gopunk

Lifer
Jul 7, 2001
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Originally posted by: CTrain
What tragic for her to find her son and hes homeless.
Can't fault the guy if he came here and didn't have guidence.

somehow, i still fault him... good mother though
 

EmperorIQ

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Sep 30, 2003
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Originally posted by: gopunk
Originally posted by: CTrain
What tragic for her to find her son and hes homeless.
Can't fault the guy if he came here and didn't have guidence.

somehow, i still fault him... good mother though

hmm, somehow i do too, and I feel bad about that. There was a portion where he got into a gang and stole, went to jail, etc. That part was a bit off for me. I wonder if there is a statistic of the % of people who end up being successful compared to the # of people who immigrated.
 

Syringer

Lifer
Aug 2, 2001
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Well the type of person who would immigrate, is going to be someone motivated enough to put themselves in such a situation where they'd have to start their lives over in a new land. So generally it'll be the most ambitious of a country that will immigrate over, who will go to no end to make something out of themselves.
 

SSSnail

Lifer
Nov 29, 2006
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Originally posted by: Syringer
Well the type of person who would immigrate, is going to be someone motivated enough to put themselves in such a situation where they'd have to start their lives over in a new land. So generally it'll be the most ambitious of a country that will immigrate over, who will go to no end to make something out of themselves.
That's true with the first generation of immigrants; that doesn't really apply to some of the second generation, as you have gangs, a total distant of the culture that they left behind, too much adaptation into the new culture (read "white-washed"), etc... It's a sad tale for some, and it's also a waste of sacrifice for some parents.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: UberNeuman
The only way this story would work as a movie would be the last scene when the Mom looks at the camera and says, "You want happy ending?"

man....perfect just like your house. Your mom is awesome!

My mother is dead.

Movie would probably need a NC17 rating then.
 

CTrain

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Sep 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: SSSnail
Originally posted by: Syringer
Well the type of person who would immigrate, is going to be someone motivated enough to put themselves in such a situation where they'd have to start their lives over in a new land. So generally it'll be the most ambitious of a country that will immigrate over, who will go to no end to make something out of themselves.
That's true with the first generation of immigrants; that doesn't really apply to some of the second generation, as you have gangs, a total distant of the culture that they left behind, too much adaptation into the new culture (read "white-washed"), etc... It's a sad tale for some, and it's also a waste of sacrifice for some parents.


I totally agree with you.
Seems like the 2nd generation of immigrants are less motivated to succeed but thats just me.
 

bennylong

Platinum Member
Apr 20, 2006
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Originally posted by: CTrain
Originally posted by: SSSnail
Originally posted by: Syringer
Well the type of person who would immigrate, is going to be someone motivated enough to put themselves in such a situation where they'd have to start their lives over in a new land. So generally it'll be the most ambitious of a country that will immigrate over, who will go to no end to make something out of themselves.
That's true with the first generation of immigrants; that doesn't really apply to some of the second generation, as you have gangs, a total distant of the culture that they left behind, too much adaptation into the new culture (read "white-washed"), etc... It's a sad tale for some, and it's also a waste of sacrifice for some parents.


I totally agree with you.
Seems like the 2nd generation of immigrants are less motivated to succeed but thats just me.

This is what happens to 2nd generation! This picture cracks me up everytime I see it. Chigga What? Chigga Who? Chigga Deeeez Nutzzz!

http://www.wiggaz.com/asian/green.jpg

http://www.wiggaz.com/chiggaz.htm
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: CTrain

I totally agree with you.
Seems like the current generations are less motivated to succeed but thats just me.

fixed, everyone today seems to expect a handout and then a do-over when they fvck up in life.

I made some major mistakes, and somethings I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time...I am not about to get everyone else to foot the bill to bring my life to a better level or even equal to what is was before.

Crap, in school you have to pick Joe Fatboy for your competitive team because if you don't Mr and Mrs Fatboy will sue the school and even if they lose the cost is crazy.
 

UberNeuman

Lifer
Nov 4, 1999
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: UberNeuman
The only way this story would work as a movie would be the last scene when the Mom looks at the camera and says, "You want happy ending?"

man....perfect just like your house. Your mom is awesome!

My mother is dead.

Movie would probably need a NC17 rating then.

hahaha... You could stand over her, crankin' your little pud chanting, "oohh, me soo horny, oohh, me soo horny.... me rub you wong time...."

 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: UberNeuman

hahaha... You could stand over her, crankin' your little pud chanting, "oohh, me soo horny, oohh, me soo horny.... me rub you wong time...."

yeah mine is too tiny..., thanks for telling us what you deal with though every few weeks.

I suspect your mom is calling you to bed about now if you live on the east coast.

If not she will be calling soon.

Man, I love her.
 

UberNeuman

Lifer
Nov 4, 1999
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Again, she is dead. Dead seven years now.

Anyhow, you're a real funny guy... You should write for tv, like "King of Queens" or "According to Jim" or some show like that.... because your wit is so sharp....



 
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