I'll check it out. This may seem nitpicky to some, but when you say several orders of magnitude less than 15 lbs, if several = three, that indicates you believe all the BGA pins can be held in reliable contact with less than 7 grams of pressure.
actually u need less then 1lb of pressure on the naked die.
When u have TIM / Surface contact your only aiming to seal microbubbles / tiny tiny airgaps which are blemishes on the surface of the IHS.
Everyone knows metal -> heat source contact direct is always the best.
Adding TIM only gets rid of the air gaps.
Adding pressure causes the air gaps to push out and get more surface area on the sink + IHS.
IHS is far from being a perfect surface.
The Naked Die on the other had, has much smaller gaps which tim needs to fill.
Which also in turn leads to a better contact on 2 mirror like objects.
Hence less pressure is required to fill those micro air gaps.
But you are again leaving it to average Joe, rather than some trained/skilled worker or robot. Both AMD and Intel decided from experience that average Joe wasnt fit for the task.
I can count many many times where i always pull off the stock heat sinks on everything... cake off that old TIM with a razor blade, and retim the board before install.
I dont think the average Joe cracks naked Dies.
Its the average Joe
Jr. who has no concept of proper research, patience to be working on a PC, that ends up cranking the heat sink down, or using a improper heat sink, who cracks dies.