alkemyst
No Lifer
- Feb 13, 2001
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i would definitely do #3
of her best friends. She won't mind. The dick won't be entering there for a few months anyway and she can have time with the baby.
i would definitely do #3
Buy your first real M3.
I'm the worst guy in the world to take investment advice from, so I won't give any. What I will tell you is this:
A baby changes your life in ways you cannot fathom right now b/c you're not a parent yet. TWO babies at the same age? Not to put too fine a point on it but: Kiss your free time, fun time, vacation time, hobbies, sex life, conversation with your wife, time to even swap out a mouse for your PC, all goodbye. For 3 years, minimum.
You will have NO time to do anything like cut the lawn, never mind vacationing in the Alps in your vacation cottage. And when you do have two seconds you'll be talking about all the "business of marriage" such as chores, shopping, bills and your in laws...for two seconds until the babies wake up, cry, poop, fall down, raise the volume on the TV to Deafening Level or drop the remote in the fish tank.
Our son will be five next month; only this past year were we actually able to go an amusement park or movies with him and actually have some modicum of fun. SURE; we play in the house and backyard all the time, but how much fun is it to stay home and watch Dora or the Chuggington DVD for the 2943rd time?
So here's my investment advice; bank it. Don't buy jack squat with it b/c you will have no time to enjoy it OR to go fix it if renters break it. Bank it and 4 years from now re-assess the situation.
You're welcome. ()
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Didn't read all the way to the end. I see you have made your decision. Good luck with that and congrats on the babies! See you in this forum in six months when you want to know "Do I matter to my wife anymore?" and 5 months after that when you post "Dammit, I pay the bills, why don't I get to make decisions?!" But kids are awesome...fun once you lose the diaper bag. Then you can do some stuff with them. Good luck!
3 or 4.
Anything else is butt-fucking retarded with twins on the way. If anyone tells you otherwise, they are absolutely stupid. If you think anything else for any reason (in the next 5 years), you are are absolutely stupid.
Sorry, but it's the truth. You should have learned your lesson the first time.
edit: Saw your decision. And I'm sorry for the regrets you're taking. The risks you're taking could be absolutely detrimental.
our future plans include a mountain condo too. we go up there quite a lot. where did you end up buying? would be great to see what kind of a deal you ended up with.
We will see if this ends up being the straw that broke the camels back. If it really gets that bad...we can always sell it.
You can always sell it, except that everyone keeps talking about another housing bubble looming....
And you can always sell it, under the assumption someone wants to (and can) buy it...
Since this is a 8m old topic, hows your property working out for you as far as an investment? The market has been friggen amazing, everyone expected a bear market to come along, except it hasn't.
Despite my earlier advice, sounds like you'll get a good amount of use out of it. Life is short, and added fun is an excellent use of money. Enjoy! I'm jealous.
I would dump it into the stock market.
yea, guilty of reading only the OP and first few updates
you caught me.
I totally would live on a steamboat if I knew how to keep one running. But those steam engines are a ton of work. Ohh yes, I know, steamboat is the name of the place, and you did not buy an actual steamboat, but that would have been awesome!
I totally would live on a steamboat if I knew how to keep one running.
Update: Well going against most of the sound financial advice in this thread, we went ahead and bought a mountain condo. We netted a lot more on our Greenville house than I was expecting and decided to sell some land we had in SC as well. The combined along with savings allowed us to buy the place cash. The mountain areas still have not recovered to their highs (May never, but at least I don't feel like I am buying at the top). Bought condo for 54% of what it sold for in 2006 and it has been completely remodeled since. Was being sold as part of a divorce, so between that and the fact that I was paying cash gave me a lot of leverage.
I may come to regret this, but we will see. Looking forward to finishing out mountain biking season here and getting ready for ski season.
Why would you leave Greenville!? It is really nice just north of there in Traveler's Rest.
sounds like a solid buy. good work.