You still mad that you had a beater M3?
What poor FINANCIAL decisions have I made?
Lol at no retirement. I had to liquidate my separate Vanguard account that was $14k because of a divorce, that was just rollover money from a short term job I stuck into something I could totally play with. I wish I could have kept that fund but I didn't have another $14k in cash.
It gained like $4k in a year and so far since has been earning about 30%.
I am in foreclosure because I am in court with my mortgage company. It was by my choice not theirs.
I'm pretty sure everyone on this forum who has had an account for more than 1 month knows that you are worse than the government at managing your finances. The kicker is how much you enjoy letting us know the magnitude of your deficiencies.
Back on topic (slightly), there is no perfect formula for what is the right work/family/play balance. For me, I know my skills and where my highest value is at the moment (project management in software space). I also know that it is not my passion (and neither would it be flipping houses). What my job does afford me is a great paycheck. I used to work an unfortunate amount of hours for this, but with my last job move, I realized my skills were marketable enough to find a company that respects my desire for balance. In the last year and a half, I can count the weeks on my hand that I have had to work more than 40 hours...and only once over 50. Setting proper expectations, managing your time, and having good upper management affords this. Could bad management changes screw this up? Sure, but I am confident I can find a new company where my skills are needed.
The way I look at it, once you feel financially secure (not something our parents or many contemporaries ever achieve(d)), the best luxury is your time (not some material possession). I would rather have time with my wife, my soon to arrive children, or time in the mountains than a Bentley. Sure I am hoping to buy an investment property in the mountains in a few years, but I will not jeopardize my family life to do so.
As I said earlier, this balance is a personal thing. Some people love their job or what their job does enough to allow it to dominate their time. Others love the material things or pride that working 80 hours a week gives them... so it is worth it to them as well. To each their own.