Originally posted by: tallest1
Definitely and I'm single. As immature as this sounds, you can do whatcha wanna, when you wanna. You save yourself a ton of money, you have less drama, you don't have to compromise on Home Theatre vs Minivan. you don't have nasty divorces and breakups. You aren't banned from be-friending the opposite sex. You can't get stabbed in the back emotionally at any moment (cheatting SO, or what have you) The list goes on and on.
You folks who feel that you can't be happy alone are weak minded pansies. I mean, most of you have lived alone for the majority of your life but then when your SO of 1 or 2 years breaks up with you, you feel that the world is going to end. (and then post about it on ATOT) If you say 'Thats not me!!111', you're probably a pu$$y-whipped shell of a man who worships the feet women walk on - convincing yourself that they can do no harm. See CrazyPerson's threads for an example.
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: tallest1
Definitely and I'm single. As immature as this sounds, you can do whatcha wanna, when you wanna. You save yourself a ton of money, you have less drama, you don't have to compromise on Home Theatre vs Minivan. you don't have nasty divorces and breakups. You aren't banned from be-friending the opposite sex. You can't get stabbed in the back emotionally at any moment (cheatting SO, or what have you) The list goes on and on.
You folks who feel that you can't be happy alone are weak minded pansies. I mean, most of you have lived alone for the majority of your life but then when your SO of 1 or 2 years breaks up with you, you feel that the world is going to end. (and then post about it on ATOT) If you say 'Thats not me!!111', you're probably a pu$$y-whipped shell of a man who worships the feet women walk on - convincing yourself that they can do no harm. See CrazyPerson's threads for an example.
Why do all your statements above revolve around flawed relationships?
Originally posted by: tallest1
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: tallest1
Definitely and I'm single. As immature as this sounds, you can do whatcha wanna, when you wanna. You save yourself a ton of money, you have less drama, you don't have to compromise on Home Theatre vs Minivan. you don't have nasty divorces and breakups. You aren't banned from be-friending the opposite sex. You can't get stabbed in the back emotionally at any moment (cheatting SO, or what have you) The list goes on and on.
You folks who feel that you can't be happy alone are weak minded pansies. I mean, most of you have lived alone for the majority of your life but then when your SO of 1 or 2 years breaks up with you, you feel that the world is going to end. (and then post about it on ATOT) If you say 'Thats not me!!111', you're probably a pu$$y-whipped shell of a man who worships the feet women walk on - convincing yourself that they can do no harm. See CrazyPerson's threads for an example.
Why do all your statements above revolve around flawed relationships?
Because successful relationships in the US are in the minority now. Sorry to break the news to ya
Originally posted by: fyleow
Do you think it's possible to be truly happy (or at least as happy as someone in a relationship) as a single person? Why/why not?
Originally posted by: alkemyst
The fact is people get to caught up in changing others, many times your SO is not doing things to hurt you, it's just the way they are.
Originally posted by: fyleow
Do you think it's possible to be truly happy (or at least as happy as someone in a relationship) as a single person? Why/why not?
I personally don't think it's possible. Just being in a relationship gives a huge self esteem boost, a better sense of stability (most of the time), and a different sense of (non sexual) love that can't be provided by regular friends or family.
Yay? Nay?
EDIT: Also do you think that those who say no and are single are merely placing an unfairly high expectation on how a relationship would change their life? If they were to suddenly be in a relationship tomorrow would they be happy or not?
Originally posted by: fyleow
Do you think it's possible to be truly happy (or at least as happy as someone in a relationship) as a single person? Why/why not?
I personally don't think it's possible. Just being in a relationship gives a huge self esteem boost, a better sense of stability (most of the time), and a different sense of (non sexual) love that can't be provided by regular friends or family.
Yay? Nay?
EDIT: Also do you think that those who say no and are single are merely placing an unfairly high expectation on how a relationship would change their life? If they were to suddenly be in a relationship tomorrow would they be happy or not?
Originally posted by: fyleow
Do you think it's possible to be truly happy (or at least as happy as someone in a relationship) as a single person? Why/why not?
I personally don't think it's possible. Just being in a relationship gives a huge self esteem boost, a better sense of stability (most of the time), and a different sense of (non sexual) love that can't be provided by regular friends or family.
Yay? Nay?
EDIT: Also do you think that those who say no and are single are merely placing an unfairly high expectation on how a relationship would change their life? If they were to suddenly be in a relationship tomorrow would they be happy or not?
Originally posted by: kami
Yes.
Having good friends helps too.
Originally posted by: luvly
"well a lesbian or gay person would still want companionship, twit."
All right, smart-a$$, since you missed it, I'll write it in full: closet lesbian.
You are a very interesting guy! I observe in just about every relationship related post you make, you give details about your personal life. Uhmm . . . I know I wouldn't appreciate that if my significant other were doing so on a public forum. The most puzzling part to me is, Why exactly do you always try to qualify yourself as the authority to reckon with because you have had previous relationships and are in one now? I mean, it sounds to me as though you're not too happy or confident in what you have but try by all means to justify it. Is there some guilt trip going on here? I can't understand someone who so defends romantic relationships as a necessity, yet seeming so indifferent about the one he's already in. Uhmmm. . . . Besides, how did you survive before you ever got involved a relationship the first time? The Self comes first, as far as I'm concerned. If you haven't found the Self, then it's hard to ever enjoy the full potential of a romantic relationship . . . except if you're in it just for sex.
Anyway, whatever rocks your boat.