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It could be Ed McMahon with the PCH and your $1 million dollar check!
It's pretty safe to say it won't be Ed.
It could be Ed McMahon with the PCH and your $1 million dollar check!
This is a very enlightening thread.
I've learned that 99% of the posters here are total social retards ...
What's wrong with answering your front door ? You put a door-bell there, didn't you ? It's just common decency. Maybe indeed it's a neighbor. Maybe it is someone who wants to warn you you left your lights on. Maybe it's the parent of a kid in your kid's school.
Of course if it's a salesperson, you can tell them: "no. go away". If they don't, I'm fine with you yelling at them, or making nasty remarks. I do that. But you gotta show a sense of decency during the first 10-20 seconds. Some politeness. Are all of you in the US such rude jerks ?
Or is this about fear ?
People not answering the door, because it could be someone with a gun ?
I suspect this might play a bigger role than most of you trying to sound tough.
Americans are on average the most scared people I've ever met.
If you assume everybody else is an arsehole, most of the time you'll be right, and be ahead of the game.This is a very enlightening thread.
I've learned that 99% of the posters here are total social retards ...
What's wrong with answering your front door ? You put a door-bell there, didn't you ? It's just common decency. Maybe indeed it's a neighbor. Maybe it is someone who wants to warn you you left your lights on. Maybe it's the parent of a kid in your kid's school.
Of course if it's a salesperson, you can tell them: "no. go away". If they don't, I'm fine with you yelling at them, or making nasty remarks. I do that. But you gotta show a sense of decency during the first 10-20 seconds. Some politeness. In a civilized society you gotta assume at first that new people are friendly, decent, normal human beings. Only after they indicated that they are not, you can start treating them non-polite. Didn't your parents raise you properly ? If you start assuming everybody else is an arsehole, and not even worthy to talk to for 5 seconds, what do you expect society will turn into ?
Or is this about fear ?
People not answering the door, because it could be someone with a gun ?
I suspect this might play a bigger role than most of you trying to sound tough.
Americans are on average the most scared people I've ever met.
Or maybe you are the one that has a pathological problem.I've learned that 99% of the posters here are total social retards ...
Nothing at all, there is also nothing wrong with not answering it. I'll decide which I feel like doing each time.What's wrong with answering your front door?
No, I did not. I don't have one. You have to knock at my door.You put a door-bell there, didn't you ?
Nope. Maybe a hundred years ago it was. Now we have all these other communication mediums that don't waste so much of my time. Use one of those if you want to communicate with me. Oh, and if you are trying to call me voice, you better leave a message because I'm not going to answer a call unless you are someone I actually want to talk to, and there are only a handful of those.It's just common decency.
Why would I want to talk to them? Because they happen to live near me? You must be that annoying guy that tries to introduce himself to everyone sitting around him in a theater.Maybe indeed it's a neighbor.
Maybe, but probably not. In any case, either of those people knows other ways to contact me.Maybe it is someone who wants to warn you left your lights on. Maybe it's the parent of a kid in your kid's school.
Or just ignore them, since I have no obligation to answer my door in the first place.Of course if it's a salesperson, you can tell them: "no. go away".
Quieter. I like quiet.If you start assuming everybody else is an arsehole, and not even worthy to talk to for 5 seconds, what do you expect society will turn into ?
Or is this about fear ? People not answering the door, because it could be someone with a gun ? I suspect this might play a bigger role than most of you trying to sound tough.
Americans are on average the most scared people I've ever met.
This is a very enlightening thread.
I've learned that 99% of the posters here are total social retards ...
What's wrong with answering your front door ? You put a door-bell there, didn't you ? It's just common decency. Maybe indeed it's a neighbor. Maybe it is someone who wants to warn you you left your lights on. Maybe it's the parent of a kid in your kid's school.
Of course if it's a salesperson, you can tell them: "no. go away". If they don't, I'm fine with you yelling at them, or making nasty remarks. I do that. But you gotta show a sense of decency during the first 10-20 seconds. Some politeness. In a civilized society you gotta assume at first that new people are friendly, decent, normal human beings. Only after they indicated that they are not, you can start treating them non-polite. Didn't your parents raise you properly ? If you start assuming everybody else is an arsehole, and not even worthy to talk to for 5 seconds, what do you expect society will turn into ?
Or is this about fear ?
People not answering the door, because it could be someone with a gun ?
I suspect this might play a bigger role than most of you trying to sound tough.
Americans are on average the most scared people I've ever met.
This is a very enlightening thread.
I've learned that 99% of the posters here are total social retards ...
What's wrong with answering your front door ? You put a door-bell there, didn't you ?
I used to knock on my friend's houses doors when I was a kid (less than 10yo). I don't know what my life would have been like if the parents shushed the whole family down and didn't answer. Many of them kept the door unlocked and would just yell "come in!" That was the rural South, though.
I don't live near her, so I don't know first hand, but my family tells me stories about one of my cousins who once she got married and had a baby, no one was allowed to come see the baby unless they had an appointment. Her own parents, who lived down the road, would come over sometimes unannounced and knock on the door, but they would not answer. Strange how private we've (had to) become.
One time I had a solicitor knock and I really really really did not feel like dealing with that because I was eating. So I just kept eating. The bastard started snooping in the windows, now I had no choice but to answer. I have curtains but you can kind of see through them so they're not of much help if someone puts their face right on the window.
Some of those door to door salesmen are relentless, they'll even go in your back yard and check all windows and loiter on your property until you answer. Basically if they see the car in the driveway they pretty much know someone's home so they wont give up.
Door to door salesmen still exist??
What are they selling? Encyclopedias?
that's just retarded behaviour.
I'm assuming that those in this thread who said they don't have to answer the door check who it is before deciding not to open.
I'm assuming that those in this thread who said they don't have to answer the door check who it is before deciding not to open.
This is a very enlightening thread.
I've learned that 99% of the posters here are total social retards ...
What's wrong with answering your front door ? You put a door-bell there, didn't you ? It's just common decency. Maybe indeed it's a neighbor. Maybe it is someone who wants to warn you you left your lights on. Maybe it's the parent of a kid in your kid's school.
Of course if it's a salesperson, you can tell them: "no. go away". If they don't, I'm fine with you yelling at them, or making nasty remarks. I do that. But you gotta show a sense of decency during the first 10-20 seconds. Some politeness. In a civilized society you gotta assume at first that new people are friendly, decent, normal human beings. Only after they indicated that they are not, you can start treating them non-polite. Didn't your parents raise you properly ? If you start assuming everybody else is an arsehole, and not even worthy to talk to for 5 seconds, what do you expect society will turn into ?
Or is this about fear ?
People not answering the door, because it could be someone with a gun ?
I suspect this might play a bigger role than most of you trying to sound tough.
Americans are on average the most scared people I've ever met.