Originally posted by: b0mbrman
Sure is possible...it helps when they're unattractive though (don't be mad, someone had to say it )
So true, so true. Yes it does sound harsh, but I also try to to befriend people who I view as unattractive or someone who most people dont' like for one reason or another. Uh, and to the original question, regarding my previous post, the girl i'm currently interested in does indeed have a boyfriend, who is in college while she's still in high school. Yeah i'd try to date her in the blink of an eye if the oppertunity came up, but she's the type of person who I could see as a good friend, someone who can uplift my spirits when i'm down or just a fun person to be around. Both of us don't drink or do drugs either, so I don't think we'd be getting into too much trouble if we did things together as friends...Originally posted by: Shaftatplanetquake
Nope. No guy can be great friends with a girl and not want to hit it/even get with her for a relationship.
Any guy who is best friends and doesn't want one of the two (or both) is fooling himself. Guys are slimey creatures. All we think about is sex. We CANNOT help it. There isn't a damn thing we can do to stop it.
Also, a regular guy couldn't be best friends with an ugly girl(the only way he wouldn't want to hit it). We just don't want to talk to those kinds of people.
Lots of what is said here is harsh, but it is quite true. Also, I am way less likely to be best friends with a really ugly guy, just can't take it. I've got a friend with really bad teeth and acne, and he is hard to be around he is so ugly.
Guys' interest is only peaked by a girl when the girl is attractive. We go around, we take a quick look at something, we size it up. Takes less than 5 seconds, actually most of the time it can probably be done in less than a second. Not just girls, not just people, but everything. We like to be masters of the world we live in.
OH damn.. I got way off topic there.
Answer to the original question... "No."
thats a tool that guys use to get on the "now she trusts me" level (some people do it intentionally, others may not realize it)... they talk about other girls and how they like them, sometimes its true, but there's ALWAYS a thought in the back of their mind that they wanna get it on with the "best friend" girl. and if the girl is already taken, they just wait for that one big argument when the girl needs a shoulder to cry on and BAM (my girlfriend's best friend is another guy and it pisses me off when she says that he's always been there for her :|)So does that mean that my close guy friends are bound to 'like' me sooner or later? I won't buy that, I know them, I frequently know who they're interested in, and I don't think any of them see me as being someone they could ever date