Is it wrong to find a distant cousin attractive?

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joeyd

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I hooked up with ym cousin. last summer but it was through marriage not blood , god was she hot ...... errr anyway yea my aunt married her father...
 

shiner

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If you find your cousin, sister, aunt, or hell even your uncle attractive just move to Arkansas and you'll fit right in.
 

joeyd

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shinerburke you wearing that bag on your head cause your mother and father were brother and sister and now you have a third eye or something wierd on your face ?
j/p
 

shiner

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Jul 18, 2000
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Third eye...yeah right....damn....where are my special glasses?

Shhh.....I'm actually in the ATOT witness protection program.
 

Emulex

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you can find your sister attractive, but dont pollute the gene pool and make any blue blooded creatures..
 

gnoymyguy

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I fail to see the negative aspect of having 3 eyes instead of 2 Then again I've only got 2:Q

Is Arkansas the state where the Clintons hail from?
 

Teatowel

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Well it is legal (here in the UK anyway) to have sex with your first cousin. What happens if your cousin happens to be the most amazing looking woman on the face of the planet?

Not that I have done anything about it, mind

 

urameatball

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I think according to chinese tradition. if you marry a close relative or someone with the same last name, your family will be cursed (or something like that). It must suck for the 'chan' family!
 

Raspewtin

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if it's a 2nd cousin by marriage only then you guys really aren't related and it's not a big deal.
 

classy

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<<
just curious.

Because i heard the term &quot;kissing cousins&quot; for the first time today and wasn't sure what it meant until someone explained it to me. (Growing up in japan you don't hear of such things. )

In the old days it was considered acceptable to marry cousins if they were removed enough, and sometimes even direct cousins.

Share your view!

-M.T.O
>>



Thats nasty man. Its your blood relative.
 

Jokeram

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<< Well it is legal (here in the UK anyway) to have sex with your first cousin. What happens if your cousin happens to be the most amazing looking woman on the face of the planet?
>>


Introduce her to me
 

perry

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When I was back home a couple months ago I went to this restaurant with my mom. The hostess was one of my 4th or 5th cousins that I had never met before (small town....). A day or two later, my aunt asked me if I thought she was cute. I just said, &quot;She's my cousin!&quot;

If there is proof that the person is related to you, then it's off limits. Seeing how we all evolved from the same monkeys that evolved from the same fish that evolved from the same micro-organism that started out as a single cell after the big bang -- we're all related! Gotta love a stupid man's logic, huh?
 

mrCide

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I think most, if not all, of the women in my family line are beautiful. We have some damn good genes (I think I got unlucky). Sometimes even my friends ask me and I'm like.. dude.. it's my cousin.

Just some things you really shouldn't be doing/thinking .
 

Viper GTS

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I have a couple cousins that are pretty damn hot.

I don't have a problem with admitting it.

There are two others that I'm related to as well, they're my mom's cousin's daughters.

They are freakin' hot as well, but I don't think I've ever met them. I've only seen pictures.

Viper GTS
 

TripleJ

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Hmmm, dang you ask the hard ones!

I guess I'd find out if it was OK when it happened to me because it's just too hard to decide sitting here at the desk. It would of course be OK if you found the distant cousin attractive. I suppose it would be OK if you were in a relationship before you knew and then found out, but I'm not sure if it would be OK if you knew the person before hand. Depends on how distant the cousin is.

I remember when I was knee high to a grass hopper my cousin wanted to marry me. Hehe, those were the days.


(Little rant: This @#$!#$ crappy ISP connection is giving me the #$%@!&amp; #$@!'%! Come oooooooon! I've watched a whole episode of Buffy waiting for this pile of @#$! to get it's %$@!^%$ arse into gear!...Please come back, I'm dying here. Huuuuu, haaa, huuuuu, haaa. Can't...breath. Sorry, I'm going crazy here! Yeeesssss, it's back!)
 

Buddhist

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&quot;Hey Buddhist, growing up in Japan, you should know that you are allowed to marry FIRST cousins there.&quot;

Hey now, i never said anything about that not being true.
All i stated was in the old days it was allowed even between closer relatives.


&quot;Thats nasty man. Its your blood relative.&quot;
classy

Did you even read that i said this isn't my situation nor anyone i know of's situation?

&quot;Little rant: This @#$!#$ crappy ISP connection is giving me the #$%@!&amp; #$@!'%! Come oooooooon! I've watched a whole episode of Buffy waiting for this pile of @#$! to get it's %$@!^%$ arse into gear!...Please come back, I'm dying here. Huuuuu, haaa, huuuuu, haaa. Can't...breath. Sorry, I'm going crazy here! Yeeesssss, it's back!)&quot;

LOL

I suppose while i'm at it i should clarify my position.
Frankly ,and genetically speaking,i don't care so long if your removed far enough, IE no direct blood relatives, no first or second cousins. Reason for this is because of gene pool being crossed which is not a good thing. As to finding your cousin attractive, hell your human aren't you? Your hard wired to think of people as either or naturally so its hard to distinguish cousins from this factor as well. Only do we psychologically as an after thought go &quot;eww thats my cousin&quot; which may i reminds some of us, is nothing more then a taboo instilled in us from a young age. In the old days, breeding mates were much more selective and thus it was considered acceptable ,and the right thing, for people to breed between brothers and sisters as well as close cousins in order to keep their unique heritage (often nobility/royalty) in tact. Thus did we see such illustrious insane characters such as nero (ol' little boots), and common ailments throughout different monarchy's of europe.
-M.T.O
 

Rand

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Oct 11, 1999
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I don't think it is wrong to recognize that a relative is attractive.

Nor do I believe it is wrong to become involved with your cousin AS LONG as she/he is distantly removed from you and is not related by blood. If she/he is related only by marriage then it should be okay.

I don't believe it is right to become involved with your cousin if your directly related to her by blood.
 

Noriaki

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Jun 3, 2000
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Well heck I know my *sister* is pretty and lots of guys find her attractive...there's nothing wrong with knowing your relatives are pretty or what not...but actually being personally attracted to them?

No thanks...
 
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