Is Memorial Day really that big of a deal?

HamburgerBoy

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Today someone asked me what I was doing for the big weekend, and when I asked what was so big about it, she was in disbelief. Honestly, I thought Memorial Day was in February or something, and that it was some other day that people usually celebrated over the weekend.
 

SKORPI0

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memorial_Day

Memorial Day is a day of remembering the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.[2] As a marker it typically marks the start of the summer vacation season, while Labor Day marks its end. Many people visit cemeteries and memorials, particularly to honor those who have died in military service. Many volunteers place an American flag on each grave in national cemeteries.[3]

The part I hate is that it's been commercialized. Watch TV and you see commercials for "memorial day" sales. The remembering part is rarely commemorated by few.
 
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Matthiasa

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Most just treat like an excuse to get out the grill, or open up their pools in northern areas. In the context of how most treat it, it is not a big deal.
In the context of why it was created it is definitely a big deal.
 

HamburgerBoy

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In case it wasn't obvious, I was indeed talking in the context of it being used as a party holiday. It's as if it's only behind July 4th and New Year's.
 

randomrogue

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Memorial Day is for the dead soldiers. Veterans day is for the living soldiers?

All I know is that lately, most holidays, have just turned into commercial holidays.
 

mmntech

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Just finished Victoria Day weekend up here in Canuckistan. Did sweet f--k all. It was fantastic.

Here at least, the May long weekend is considered the unofficial start of summer.
 

jhansman

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Are you fucking serious?

This. Did you not got to school the day they taught about all the people who died defending this country? Tell ya what-come Monday, sit quietly for a moment and contemplate what it must have been like wading through the surf at Omaha Beach against withering machine gun fire. If what I just described doesn't ring any bells for you, read up on it.
 

nageov3t

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This. Did you not got to school the day they taught about all the people who died defending this country? Tell ya what-come Monday, sit quietly for a moment and contemplate what it must have been like wading through the surf at Omaha Beach against withering machine gun fire. If what I just described doesn't ring any bells for you, read up on it.

wait, Memorial Day commemorates all the people who died defending France? I assumed that would be covered by VE Day.
 

sixone

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memorial_Day

Memorial Day is a federal holiday observed annually in the United States on the last Monday of May. Formerly known as Decoration Day, it originated after the American Civil War to commemorate the fallen Union soldiers of the Civil War. (Southern ladies organizations and southern schoolchildren had decorated Confederate graves in Richmond and other cities during the Civil War, but each region had its own date. Most dates were in May.) By the 20th century Memorial Day had been extended to honor all Americans who have died in all wars. Memorial Day is a day of remembering the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces. As a marker it typically marks the start of the summer vacation season, while Labor Day marks its end.

Many people visit cemeteries and memorials, particularly to honor those who have died in military service. Many volunteers place an American flag on each grave in national cemeteries.

By the early 20th century, Memorial Day was an occasion for more general expressions of memory, as people visited the graves of their deceased relatives in church cemeteries, whether they had served in the military or not. It also became a long weekend increasingly devoted to shopping, family gatherings, fireworks, trips to the beach, and national media events such as the Indianapolis 500 auto race, held since 1911 on the Sunday of Memorial Day weekend.
 

nageov3t

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to address the actual point of this thread... yes, Memorial Day tends to be a big BBQ/long-weekend event (not along the lines of the Fourth of July, but moreso than, say, Columbus Day).
 

gorcorps

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You should at the very least know the reason you're getting the day off, don't you think?
 

Charles Kozierok

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The big deal about Memorial Day:

1. A day off work.
2. An excuse to party, overeat and drink to excess.
3. For people in the military or loved ones in the military, a reason to remember the fallen.
4. For people not related to the military, to give lip service to #3 when they really care much more about #1 and #2.
 

Angry Irishman

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Today someone asked me what I was doing for the big weekend, and when I asked what was so big about it, she was in disbelief. Honestly, I thought Memorial Day was in February or something, and that it was some other day that people usually celebrated over the weekend.

Quite ignorant of you to say....

Yes, it's important and/or a "big deal" for a lot of people who have fought, lost those they love and are able to enjoy their freedoms thanks to a small populous of folks who sacrificed on your behalf.

 
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Ackmed

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Memorial Day is for the dead soldiers. Veterans day is for the living soldiers?

All I know is that lately, most holidays, have just turned into commercial holidays.

Not just for soldiers, but airmen, sailors, and Marines.



The big deal about Memorial Day:

1. A day off work.
2. An excuse to party, overeat and drink to excess.
3. For people in the military or loved ones in the military, a reason to remember the fallen.
4. For people not related to the military, to give lip service to #3 when they really care much more about #1 and #2.

Change 3 to 1, and you'd be right.

What I find offense (besides people like the OP) is that Congress changed the date of the holiday with the uniform holiday act (along with Veterans Day, Columbus Day and GW's Bday) to make more 3 day weekends for federal employees. They have since moved Veterans day back.

Changing the date merely to create three-day weekends has undermined the very meaning of the day. No doubt, this has contributed a lot to the general public's nonchalant observance of Memorial Day.

And that's a damn shame. A lot of people these days (mostly our youth) dont give two craps about Memorial Day, or why we have it. Its a "me me me" society. No mater what someone thinks of our Country now, the simple fact is, many men and women have given their lives for this Country. Not having a clue for why we have it, makes me want to crawl thru the internet and stab you with my Kbar.
 
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As much as I appreciate what our armed forces has done for us and those who have sacrificed their lives, I feel as if Memorial Day is a bigger thing for:

1) A BBQ

2) The beginning of summer. Vegas pool parties go crazy. Sure they opened for spring break and slowly ramped up, but this is the weekend where the top DJs (Kaskade, Above & Beyond, Armin Van Buuren, Avicii, etc.) spin. It's where pool party and Vegas summer kicks off.

3) It's graduation for my alma mater and where I'm finishing up my grad degree. It marks the end of school.

4) It's the first long weekend since President's Day, and if you're in one of those companies that celebrated MLK instead of President's day, this is the first long weekend in 4 months! The next few are more closely spaced (July 4th, Labor Day). You get a flurry of summer holidays, but to me this is the big stretch.

5) I feel like this is a real good road trip opportunity. President's day for me is usually for skiing in Tahoe (as a Californian), but May marks the time where I feel like I'd want to drive to LA, San Diego, or Las Vegas. The weather is much nicer now you can head out and enjoy it.

Its an awesome party weekend in Vegas.

You going? I went last year and it was amazing! I'm sad I'm missing out this year especially with A&B spinning. I happen to be missing out on that day 1 EDC which means I'd be missing out on A&B my favorite DJs...
 
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