- Jan 11, 2006
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The son of my first cousin (1st cousin once removed?) is 25 and a total screw up. Criminal record (stupid stuff - drugs, destruction of property - nothing violent), blew off part of two fingers as a teenager, no education, etc., etc. A couple months ago I had to get him out of jail and find him a seedy motel to stay at for a weekend.
Turns out he is now in a half-way house in L.A. and they will not let him go home for Thanksgiving (When he is not in jail, he lives with my aunt/his grandma in the Bay Area).
I have decided that he will not be invited to our Thanksgiving (which is already about 30 people), because, though he is a nice enough guy, I do not want him to know where I live (He has stolen from everyone, including my aunt). However, he is family and I want to do something nice for him (I think everybody deserves that every so often). I think I will see if he can get out for a Thanksgiving breakfast or lunch.
Do you have a Black Sheep in your family? Have you washed you hands of them (like most of my family has done with this guy), or do you still reach out every so often? Have you been burned reaching out? Any Black Sheep stories?
MotionMan
March 15, 2013 UPDATE:
http://www.mercurynews.com/peninsul...ancisco-motorcyclist-dies-after-crashing-into
He killed himself in a motorcycle accident yesterday. He would have been 30 on Sunday. The funeral is Monday.
MotionMan
Turns out he is now in a half-way house in L.A. and they will not let him go home for Thanksgiving (When he is not in jail, he lives with my aunt/his grandma in the Bay Area).
I have decided that he will not be invited to our Thanksgiving (which is already about 30 people), because, though he is a nice enough guy, I do not want him to know where I live (He has stolen from everyone, including my aunt). However, he is family and I want to do something nice for him (I think everybody deserves that every so often). I think I will see if he can get out for a Thanksgiving breakfast or lunch.
Do you have a Black Sheep in your family? Have you washed you hands of them (like most of my family has done with this guy), or do you still reach out every so often? Have you been burned reaching out? Any Black Sheep stories?
MotionMan
March 15, 2013 UPDATE:
http://www.mercurynews.com/peninsul...ancisco-motorcyclist-dies-after-crashing-into
He killed himself in a motorcycle accident yesterday. He would have been 30 on Sunday. The funeral is Monday.
MotionMan
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