It sucks being a girl

[Red Squirrel]

Well I'll give it to girls, they have to go through pregnancy for 9 months, then they have to give birth. Now imagine going for the meanest, most destructive crap ever that just rips your anal hole appart. It probably feels worse then that. Then they have to raise the kids. Dealing with 0-5 year old kids is probably one of the hardest tasks on this planet. I babysit for maybe 1-2 hours max here and there, and wow. I just don't know how my sister does it with 3 kids, well the two older ones are past the tough stage now but I'm sure they still are hard to deal with at times.

Girls also need to spend like 3 hours a day on their body, when us guys can get up and be heading to work within 30 minutes, if less. I'm glad I was born a guy, have to admit, our life is relatively easier.

 

[MoPHo]

In defense of OP, Text.

Cue the sexist comebacks.

 

[LS21]

i like boobs

 

[coloumb]

Hrm... well... from what my female friends have told me - they have significantly more problems to deal with on a daily basis than most men do.

However - women definitely have the advantage over men in the overall scheme of life.

 

[moshquerade]

no, it doesn't.

 

[BTA]

We have to deal with you women and all of your problems, so we're always +1 ahead of you.

Men win.

 

[Pliablemoose]

Flirting with death=telling a woman they have PMS

 

[TheChort]

Incidentally, boys have a penis, girls have a vagina.

 

[DayLaPaul]

Originally posted by: n yusef

Originally posted by: DayLaPaul

Originally posted by: n yusef

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Then when I see a black guy with a fat ugly white woman, it's an aberration? Cuz I see a lot of black men with fat, ugly white women, typically blonds.

Of course there science involved

And a medical definition of fat is a hell of a lot different than your thick & curvy BS...

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Have you ever looked at a rap video? When are fat women featured in them as objects of desire?

You see black men with fat white women and call it a phenomenon, but you ignore something much more common, white men with fat white women.

Black men may be relatively more into fat women (regardless of race) than white men, but black men are not "usually" into fat women. Look at a rap video. The women are not fat.

There is a huge difference between having a fat ass and being fat.

Did you just try and use rap videos as an authoritative example of the black man's taste in women?

:head assplodes:

Why is that bad? Rap music is created and enjoyed by young black men. Rap is the largest black American cultural export. Rappers are roll models for young black men, and the images and narratives of rap music are digested and emulated by these men.

Rap is (correctly) criticized for objectifying women, so it seems like an obvious reference for standards of beauty common to young black men.

Nobody said black guys don't like thinner chicks. The stereotype is that black guys will fuck almost anything. Yea I said it. They have a wider range of chicks they consider "good to go." This happens to include "thicker" white chicks that some on this forum may consider fat.

Now of course you aren't going to see a bunch of fatties dancing in a rap video. That's just plain embarrassing (actually you will see a lot of thicker chicks in lower budget rap videos, it's a great source of unintentional comedy, but I digress). However, you'd be fooling yourself if you think those same guys flossing with skinny chicks in those videos haven't fucked a fattie or 20 in their lifetime.

The real question is do you see the irony in perpetuating one stereotype, that all black guys want to grow up to be like Lil Wayne or Kobe (ok I added Kobe to the mix myself, but that is the stereotype -- either rapper or baller), to combat the stereotype that black guys are into fat white girls?

 

[ivan2]

was it yeast?

 

[TheChort]

sucks how women get more UTI's than guys
they've actually gotta remember to wipe front to back

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: ivan2
was it yeast?

It's always yeast...

 

[Nik]

Originally posted by: TheChort
Learn to be who you already are, and stop trying to be something you're probably not. (ie, Amazon Warrior Princess)

This.

Also, :heart: TheChort

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: TheChort
sucks how women get more UTI's than guys
they've actually gotta remember to wipe front to back

and you've got to not go IDB and then back to IDP

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: TheChort
sucks how women get more UTI's than guys
they've actually gotta remember to wipe front to back

You'd be amazed at how many women don't know that...

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose

Originally posted by: TheChort
sucks how women get more UTI's than guys
they've actually gotta remember to wipe front to back

You'd be amazed at how many women don't know that...

how would you know this?

 

[badkarma1399]

Originally posted by: MoPHo
In defense of OP, Text.

Cue the sexist comebacks.

:thumbsup:

Now that's a ruling we can all stand behind!

 

[TheChort]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: TheChort
Learn to be who you already are, and stop trying to be something you're probably not. (ie, Amazon Warrior Princess)

This.

Also, :heart: TheChort

I'll meet you behind the dumpster in 10 minutes.
Bring a towel this time.

 

[n yusef]

Originally posted by: DayLaPaul
Nobody said black guys don't like thinner chicks. The stereotype is that black guys will fuck almost anything. Yea I said it. They have a wider range of chicks they consider "good to go." This happens to include "thicker" white chicks that some on this forum may consider fat.

Now of course you aren't going to see a bunch of fatties dancing in a rap video. That's just plain embarrassing (actually you will see a lot of thicker chicks in lower budget rap videos, it's a great source of unintentional comedy, but I digress). However, you'd be fooling yourself if you think those same guys flossing with skinny chicks in those videos haven't fucked a fattie or 20 in their lifetime.

The real question is do you see the irony in perpetuating one stereotype, that all black guys want to grow up to be like Lil Wayne or Kobe (ok I added Kobe to the mix myself, but that is the stereotype -- either rapper or baller), to combat the stereotype that black guys are into fat white girls?

First, how many black men do you know? You really aren't an authority on black male sexuality. It's funyny that you point out stereotypes of hypersexual black men in a thread where many men who I assume are white complained about women's relative ease with which she can have sex. These white men are not having as much sex as they would like. Maybe ATOT has high standards, or maybe the stereotype of hypersexual black men is really a stereotype of men.

Then you try to tell me that I'm being ironic--you mean hypocritical--by disagreeing with your stereotype with a generalization. First, you cannot make cultural analysis without generalizing, which is different from stereotyping because it's based on evidence (unlike your claim that black men will fuck anything). Second, I acknowledged the individuality of black male sexuality. Black men are not a monolithic group; we do not all think the same way and we have different standards of beauty. In fact, the diversity of black male sexuality was my main point. In this thread, there have been numerous stereotypes about black men, made by presumably white guys who obviously haven't met that many black people.

That said, the vast majority of heterosexual black men I know like women with thin waists and fat asses. The ideal for this body type is Beyonce; she is definitely not fat.

Just because a few white guys on the internet think that black men love fat white women does not mean that this phenomenon is common, and it certainly does not imply a majority preference.

I think I know more about black men than you do, considering I happen to be one.

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: n yusef

I think I know more about black men than you do, considering I happen to be one.

No shit?

I thought the username & avatar were a fake!

<--Re-evaluates decades of working with hanging with, treating, and observing blacks.

Yep, I still don't agree with you.

Come sign up at TFNN.net, we need new members...

 

[Geekbabe]

let's see now according to many ATOTérs


Women's love of high fashion, expensive shoes and handbags proves what idiots they are... their love of $400 video cards does not. A girl's night out is regarded as boring,boring boring, dressing as Darth Vadar to join your friends outside the movie theater is the utmost in chic.

women need to be young but if they're under 21 all they're good for is sex, not relationship material. if they're older, divorced or have a kid they're damaged goods who are also only good for sex.

they need to be busty.. but they better be natural
they have to have pretty faces and look polished but makeup is the horrors
they need to be fit..but women who body build are teh yuck
they need to be sexually open and willing.. if she won't do anal dump teh biatch but it's also best if she's a sexually open, knowing experienced virgin.

She better have a killer career... but when babies come along be willing to sit home baking cookies doing the soccer mom thing, after all what kind of whore would rather dump my baby in daycare just so she can be selfish and work? My children are sacred and deserve the very best parental care.

If we get a divorce she better not try to break the prenup, my stuff is my stuff, all she's done is sit home on her gold digging arse, she better get a babysitter and get her ass back to work.


Why on earth would you think men have it easier than women?


Btw ,before anybody gets crazy, most of what I'm pointing out here is in jest, both gender face problems

 

[oiprocs]

Yes it does suck being a female.

With age you get worse. With age we get better.

We don't bleed every month. We don't shoot 7lbs 4oz out of any orifice.

I feel your pain. Really, I do. If I were a girl I'd definitely think life was unfair. The amazing glory years (17-30) do not make up for everything else.

 

[Pliablemoose]

Plus, after age 40, you have a better chance of being struck by lightening than getting married...

 

[0roo0roo]

Originally posted by: ProfJohn

Originally posted by: n yusef
Women's lib has gotten women into the workforce, but has not had an equivalent shift in housekeeping and childcaring roles. This is a fact. Maybe this hasn't reached Southern Ohio yet, though.

Women are not held to a lower standard; they have better high school and college GPAs than us, and most women do not want to be held to a lower standard. Women are held back not by intelligence or themselves, but because of sexism. Grocery stores have many women employees, but have a majority of male bosses. School teachers are overwhelmingly female but deans and principles are mostly male. This is no coincidence.

A lot of that is because of what women choose and what men choose, not sexism.

Elementary education is dominated by women because few men want to teach at those grade levels. Men who want to enter education typically either teach at Jr High or High Schools or follow the management (principle) route.

Same with grocery stores. Many of the women who work there left the work force to raise children, or are happy doing their lower paying jobs because someone else is helping to foot the bill at home. Men don't have that luxury. We are expected to be the main income earners and thus men tend to head towards the higher paying jobs.

And the double standard works both ways.
If you go to Publix today and the cashier is a 40 year old women has been doing that job for 10 years you think nothing of it. But if it was a 40 year guy who has been doing that job for 10 years you think 'what a loser'

http://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-...tartling/dp/0814472109
a good book on this by warren farrell, 3 time elected board member of the national organization for women.

sometimes people like to make things simplistic, or pretend that the genders always make the same choices when clearly there are gender differences that affect life decisions. in fact warren points out fields where women do earn more. women make choices on work life balance, dangerous, disgusting work, physical work, relocation work, and decisions based on child care. this affects earnings. a librarian is safe and low on physical wear for instance, but sometimes a dirty construction worker can make more. not to mention job security is quite different, and choosing a more secure job can be a good decision as a mother, it may not be lucrative but in the simplistic value equation of only counting money people used this to bolster arguments of sexism and unfairness.

the problem are the feminists that are blind to real differences and want to create a false equality by force. this has created botched programs like specialized speed tracked math courses for girls in high schools trying to get them into technical fields. course they were disappointed as the women failed to choose math majors and such when they hit college trying to force people into what you think is best for them can be misguided. other fields like medicine are now dominated by women. many medical schools are now lopsided with female enrollment. the genders do have different interests as a whole, so the numbers can never be truly equal down the middle for every field/interest. look at anandtech, how many girls are on here compared to boys? does that mean anandtech is sexist by default? of course not, it just means self selection has produced the truth of the situation. more men are interested in this kind of stuff as a hobby. atots even tried killing babe threads, and that has not led to a flood of chicks on atot.

grocery stores aren't exactly highly sought after jobs by women. many probably leave after marriage or go on to choose something else. many women do have that option which is a considerable factor. most men do not.

 

[QueBert]

Originally posted by: n yusef

Originally posted by: oldsmoboat

Originally posted by: Riceninja
thinking that all black men like big chicks is racist.

Well, they usually like ugly, fat chicks.

:roll: Because you're the authority on black men.

There are some black men who like large women, just like there are white men who like large women, and women who like large men, and women who like large women, and men who like men, etc.

First, no one is attracted to ugly people. Attraction is subjective; if you are attracted to someone then she isn't ugly. Second, "usually" implies a majority; the majority of black men do not like "fat" women. "Thick" or "curvy" women, with thin waists and large behinds are generally preferred. These women are not "fat," they are normal sized.

I use to go to a BBW club in LA called Moxie, it was for big/biiiiiig girls. The majority of men in there were black. I'm not saying most black men like big girls, but they were the the majority at that club, because on any given Saturday night there the Black men out numbered white/other men by 5-1 if not more. And the girls at Moxie were not thick (for the most part) they were ginormous. I was typically one of very white few white boys in there lol. Those were the days.