I have something to share about some of the ways racism is perpetuated.
My wife is the most caring, wonderful, pure soul I know. Honestly. She is a teacher, and she GENUINELY loves every child in her class. The fact is, MOST kids in her classes so far have been underprivileged black children. Sure, there are some white kids in her classes, but I hear more often how annoyed she is by them because of their snotty upbringing and poor manners. She LOVES ALL the kids in her classes, and they all love her too, genuinely. She even had a very very close black friend in high school (that's an overused cop-out, I realize, and very cliche, but in this case it's also true.) Anyway, it's miraculous, considering the DISGUSTING amount of racism in her back-woods Alabama family. Her uncle FORREST (who is, in fact, named after the founder of the KKK) is a real gem.
Anyway.... So she is finally certified (graduates officially tomorrow), and she is starting her first real teaching job in January. Well, a substitue there caought wind of it and sent her a box of teaching supplies and other gifts, and called her, telling her that she has already been talking with the other teachers at the school about her, and everyone is really chomping at the bit to talk to her and give her the "inside scoop" on the school. --Then the conversation took a more serious, darker turn. Apparently, not EVERYONE wants to talk with Heather....just the white teachers. Why? Well, the principal of the school is a black woman. Apparently, all the white women of the school want to let Heather know what she's gotta do to get around the obstacle of her boss being black. Also mentioned was the fact that "There is a definite line between the black teachers and the white teachers here."
SO WHAT IS HEATHER TO DO NOW?
Well, I'll tell you what she DID do...She cried. She got very upset, angry, then sad. This job, which is the happiest development in her life since the wedding, has suddenly turned into a racial showdown. --And she is in a bad situation. She has NO FEELINGS at all about her boss being black. She has NO PROBLEMS working alongside black teachers. She was very much looking forward to working with EVERYONE at the school. --But now the white teachers have reached out to try to "recruit" her for their little gang. If she doesn't respond and play along, what does that make her? In their eyes, is she some crusading "n@gger-lover?" What if she DOES go along with the white teachers and join them in their stupid-ass game? Then the black teachers will automatically see her as just another cracker-ass prissy white teacher who they don't want to deal with.
Either way, she is going to alienate someone. WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE THAT WAY? And what is the result of this? People just get bitter. For now, she is deeply hurt by all this. I can only pray it stays that way. --Because the day she is not bothered by this childish bullsh!t, it means she has given in and doesn't care that it goes on.
There is no solution in sight. That's the sad part. --But it's clear what makes it worse: People like Jessie Jackon on BOTH sides of the racial lines. People who point out every little situation and claim it is a racist ploy usually MAKE THEM SO. If white people win the lottery 5 times more often than black people, does that mean anything? Well, maybe not at all. --Or maybe it means that white people buy roughly 5 times more lottery tickets? Or could it mean that the whole lottery is SET UP to be won by white people? NO WAY! --But if Someone pours his heart and soul into making that the issue, and finds SOMETHING to back it up, and finds people to march with him, then that will BECOME the issue, be it groundless or not. EVERYTHING is not about race.
Ricky
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