Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
I can't think of any reason why I would want to have a joint account with my spouse... Yes, be open with financials, but no... we shouldn't share a bank account/credit card, etc... when is this ever a good idea?
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: spidey07
Not having a joint account means you aren't really commited to the marriage IMHO.
Originally posted by: vi_edit
Originally posted by: shilala
Here's how ours works...
I have a wife and two kids.
My paycheck goes into the only account there is.
That money goes toward taking care of our family.
My wife puts her paycheck into the only account we have.
That money goes toward taking care of the family.
She pays the bills.
I make more money than she does.
She works harder than I do.
When we want something, we buy it. If it's big, we discuss it. "Big" around here is anything over 100-200 bucks, I suppose.
If I have a pocketful of money and she doesn't have any, I give her some.
If she has a big wad of money and I'm out, she gives me some.
I guess the key is that when I got married, there wasn't any more "I".
It became "us".
The kids are just more of "us".
:thumbsup:
Originally posted by: vi_edit
Originally posted by: shilala
Here's how ours works...
I have a wife and two kids.
My paycheck goes into the only account there is.
That money goes toward taking care of our family.
My wife puts her paycheck into the only account we have.
That money goes toward taking care of the family.
She pays the bills.
I make more money than she does.
She works harder than I do.
When we want something, we buy it. If it's big, we discuss it. "Big" around here is anything over 100-200 bucks, I suppose.
If I have a pocketful of money and she doesn't have any, I give her some.
If she has a big wad of money and I'm out, she gives me some.
I guess the key is that when I got married, there wasn't any more "I".
It became "us".
The kids are just more of "us".
:thumbsup:
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
I have a joint account w/ my mom .....anyways..she does all the deposits it's all good man :thumbsup:. She needs financial support, I gotta do what I gotta do :heart:
Originally posted by: Shadowknight
Given the cases where spouses have run off after cleaning out the entire joint account, I couldn't see having a joint account as a good idea.
Originally posted by: cbrsurfr
Makes things easier when one of you die.
Originally posted by: Ausm
Having a joint account is excellent for her when she files for divorce she knows exactly what she will get
Ausm
Originally posted by: shilala
Here's how ours works...
I have a wife and two kids.
My paycheck goes into the only account there is.
That money goes toward taking care of our family.
My wife puts her paycheck into the only account we have.
That money goes toward taking care of the family.
She pays the bills.
I make more money than she does.
She works harder than I do.
When we want something, we buy it. If it's big, we discuss it. "Big" around here is anything over 100-200 bucks, I suppose.
If I have a pocketful of money and she doesn't have any, I give her some.
If she has a big wad of money and I'm out, she gives me some.
I guess the key is that when I got married, there wasn't any more "I".
It became "us".
The kids are just more of "us".
Originally posted by: Pacfanweb
Go ahead and have individual accounts. Then let one person die, and the survivor needs the money in the dead one's account to help pay bills.
Then the survivor will wish it was a joint account.
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Ausm
Having a joint account is excellent for her when she files for divorce she knows exactly what she will get
Ausm
You forgot about your savings, your 401k, the house, the cars, the everything.
Not legally, you won't. If your accounts are separate, and one of you dies, the other has to wait until the will is probated (think that's the term) until you get the money.Originally posted by: davew0670
Originally posted by: Pacfanweb
Go ahead and have individual accounts. Then let one person die, and the survivor needs the money in the dead one's account to help pay bills.
Then the survivor will wish it was a joint account.
my wife and I have separate accounts but we know each others info to be able to get any money if anything ever happens to us.
Originally posted by: spidey07
Not having a joint account means you aren't really commited to the marriage IMHO.
Originally posted by: Turbopit
Originally posted by: spidey07
Not having a joint account means you aren't really commited to the marriage IMHO.
What's the point of getting married if you aren't going to do things "jointly". If you do everything as individuals, your really just roommates.
We just have "one" account, but everything is based on a budget. That way we can sort of keep track of spending. Not to keep each other from buying anything, but it makes sure we aren't duplicating spending or spending a bunch of money on something at the same time something else needs paid for. Keeps us much healthier financially.