Stupidity is when conscience is lacking whereas dumbness is having too much conscience. When it comes to conscience, too much/Over is merely the latency of too little/Under. Over is when Under is expressing and Under is when Over suppressing.
The judge was using excuses to hurt which probably was his favourite pastime. If true, that is indicative of the way he dishes out punishment/justice. An excuse to vent hurt because he had been hurt in the past, the duty of every principle/concept being to replicate. This Control Freak ought to realise very quickly, because mere knowledge is insufficient, that Control is merely latent Abandonment, Control being Abandonment expressed whereas Abandonment is none other than Control suppressed. This vacillation, a legacy of the duality within Humanity, ensures that as Control reaches its limit/extreme, it reverts to being Abandonment. Witness how ritualism becomes licentiousness, be it politics, religion, science or whatever.
The mother is trying to be in-between/balance but because she valued her relationship with her husband more than she valued her relationship with her daughter, she took sides. She lacked courage. Charity Beginning At Home, there is nothing constructive nor destructive that we could wage upon another without having done the same to ourself first. She should love herself first for then, her superficial love for her husband, oka her insecurity, will then be genuine. And then to her daughter too.
Love is none other than Truth expressed because Truth has no other means of expression. If true, and it is regardless of belief, agreement or ignorance, where there is Truth, there is also Love standing next to Him. Those, whose state of Evolution is still swinging at the treetops, almost all within Humanity being part human, part animal because of our animal legacy, those who justifies that abusing is also loving, needs to realise that once a human attains the age of I-ness, he cannot be taught, he then has to learn. As such, all finger-pointing/control ever does is to instill guilt or anger, Guilt being Anger suppressed with Anger merely being Guilt expressed.
What, therefore, is the judge so guilty about? His various judgements dished out on others that he knows for sure, were against justice ? Perhaps, but whatever it may be, when a human is being taught a lesson, his defiance/ego will ensure that he ends up repeating the same errors until those errors become addictions of sorts. This is because adults cannot be taught, we have to learn and learning only comes from being able to witness and not to react. When a human reacts, he will lose a litle [or much] of his empowerment/stability. As such, Disciplining an adult is merely addicting him to his errors, there being many who are beyond rescue even when the correct approach is finally applied. For that, society will have to collectively pay for somebodys error in promulgating the initial error of judgement.
When one realises how a human is truly infrastructured, one will then be able to read another like an opened book. Then, there is no need for wars, gambling, clairvoyance, spying, skull-duggery, bearing false witness, finger-pointing and more. You will only need to see how the ControlFreak-cum-AbandonedNut acts and his history is then unwound. But then, what is the need to shadow others? There is no requirement to be a voyuer other than to maintain ones immunity/stability. This is because when two energy levels engage, the lower level will always try to level the playing field. Without one single exception. Truth cannot be for all because not all are interested in the truth. Only those who are truthful will be able to bear the Truth because then, the Truth is not a burden but a relief. A Simplicity which Eludes.
[FONT="]The judge was incorrect. His wife was somewhat incorrect. His daughter was just being naughty. Whatever they may become, Love will be their antidote. Not the Love which Expects and neither will it be the Love which Demands. It will be the Love which Gives without judgement who will redress the balance. And so the theme applies to all. When it comes to judgement, all should judge themselves firstly and finally. None should judge others leaving those who have to, bear the burden that they were not supposed to bear. A moment will arrive and may it be sooner than later, that Truth is all there is, expressed through Love and with Love flowing, Joy [not euphoria or ecstasy] will be derived thereby affording Peace and Satisfaction their long awaited passage without using justification. And here the fairytale ends but it could-be/will-become real. Sooner if not later. Truth is merely The Potential/Complexity/Masculinity but It has no meaning if It is not The Kinetic/Simplicity/Love/Femininity too.[/FONT]