Of you live in B.C., consider yourselves married.Who says you have to be married to have kids?
For the record, I'm common law and have a kid, but the woman and I are not officially "married". We made the conscious decision to have a kid, but I didn't feel like spending big bux on a wedding and didn't really see the benefit of the certificate either.
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2013/03/18/bc-family-law-act-common-law-married-couples_n_2901068.html