just got dumped

[Alex]

gf of a year and 3 months been acting weird lately...comes over last night and says she's breaking up with me... she needs some time to discover herself and find out who she is... says she still loves me so much and doesnt want to lose me...

WTF??!?!?!

i cant believe this... i treated her like gold and did everything for her... i thought we had such a good relationship goin... and then she starts acting weird and avoids me for 2 weeks and this happens... man i dont know what to do or say right now this sucks so much

i asked if there was another person or if i did anything wrong and she said no and no and it was a good breakup i guess with lots of hugging and crying so im completely baffled...

if she doesnt want to lose me and still loves me then why dump my ass?

girls are stupid



edit: oh and i called her this morning apologised for calling her place drunk last night and told her that we shouldnt lose contact and that id always be there for her.

yeah i know i didnt really mean it i just wanted to hear her voice and be nice about this...

 

[minendo]

if she doesnt want to lose me and still loves me then why dump my ass?

Girls try to be nice during break ups so they feed you that I still love you bullshit hoping that your stupid ass will sit around and wait for them to come back to after she is done knocking boots in an attempt to find herself.

 

[WyteWatt]

No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

 

[ThePresence]

Sux man. Have a :beer: on me.

 

[Graphicd00d]

Sounds like someone else is in the picture.

 

[johnjbruin]

she found another "one" and still wants to maintain backup - most common scenario for a breakup situation like this

 

[Alex]

Originally posted by: minendo

if she doesnt want to lose me and still loves me then why dump my ass?

Girls try to be nice during break ups so they feed you that I still love you bullshit hoping that your stupid ass will sit around and wait for them to come back to after she is done knocking boots in an attempt to find herself.

thats what all my buddies have been telling me...

 

[Crusty]

Originally posted by: minendo

if she doesnt want to lose me and still loves me then why dump my ass?

Girls try to be nice during break ups so they feed you that I still love you bullshit hoping that your stupid ass will sit around and wait for them to come back to after she is done knocking boots in an attempt to find herself.

Roger that!



Just dont get sucked into their games, if she wants you back she will come back. Don't try and chase her, it will just make her not want to go back to you.

 

[isekii]

Originally posted by: Graphicd00d
Sounds like someone else is in the picture.

Bingo!
Don't even bother, she'll come crawling back later.

 

[Pepsei]

Originally posted by: Graphicd00d
Sounds like someone else is in the picture.

Speaking of pictures, perhaps you need to change that link to ex-girl in your sig.

Good for you , go out and get drunk.

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.

 

[bunker]

i asked if there was another person or if i did anything wrong and she said no and no

Lies.

 

[ThisIsMatt]

You're done, she doesn't still like you like she did, it's over, move on.

Either because the relationship stagnated or she found someone else. Just move on.

 

[Alex]

Originally posted by: johnjbruin
she found another "one" and still wants to maintain backup - most common scenario for a breakup situation like this

man i hope not i cant believe this... i thought everything she said was genuine and ive never seen her tell a lie...like shes good like that u know lotsa morals and values and stuff but i guess maybe its true... i guess treating girls good and doin everything for them just doesnt cut it these days

 

[WyteWatt]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

You're an idiot beyond description. Shut up and die.

brigden why thank you. You haven't seen the light as well and you must be part of the my generation that I hate so much and that I despise. No offense of course.

 

[MaxDepth]

Hopefully you didn't buy or give her anything for valentine's day! If ya did, I think it is okay to ask for it back cuz she's pulling this sh!t right now.

But for experience, as the weather gets warmer people like to get rid of their baggage. Spring cleaning, if you will.

 

[slightlyhuman]

Im not saying this is your case but in my case last year I started liking a different girl(thought I did anyways) and I told my gf(year and 1/2 been with her) that I need to find my self and just need time, but I liked the other girl. A month or 2 later I got played by the girl I thought I liked and somehow God granted me a 2nd chance with her(the gf) and I broke up with her again because I was starting college and she was still in HS, my best friend started liking her, she tried to stop loving me but couldnt(this is what she said) she tried to wing her self away etc. after about a month I got her back somehow, I dont know but havent taken advantage or taken it for granted not one time since and dont plan too.


kinda got off topic but dude I know it sucks trust me I had my far share of doing STUPID sh1t when we broke up, saw her with other guys but dude momma told me they always come back to the good guys in the end so be nice NO MATTER what happens, she will realize it one day, whether or not she comes back I dont know but she will realize it bro.


if ya need someone to talk to, pm me man cuz I feel for ya





goodluck man, I know it hurts



:gift:

 

[MrAwesome]

Bye bye sex on a regular basis. Hello Palmela Handerson.

 

[DanJ]

Originally posted by: franguinho
... i treated her like gold and did everything for her...

She might be one of those girls that can't be in a relationship like you just described. Some girls require guys that treat them a bit harder.

 

[JHoNNy1OoO]

Sucks man but better now than when/if you guys moved in together and got married or had kids. Most likely there is another person but just see it as you had good times and move on. Don't dwell on her since most likely she won't be dwelling on you. Have a beer and chalk another one up for experience.

Hang tight and GL

 

[WyteWatt]

Yep my generation just by seeing the way they are posting.

 

[bleeb]

She's cheating on you. She found someone better.... forget about her and move on dawg!

 

[brigden]

How old is she?

She could just be going through that phase that many girls hit in their late teens, early twenties. Her friends are all single and enjoying an active social scene when she's spending her weekends with a boyfriend. She feels she's missing out on a big time in her life and panics.

Let me tell you something; it sucks right now, but before you know it you won't feel anything for her. You'll be with another girl and everything will be sweet. Hard words to swallow at the momment, I know, but it's the truth, bra.

Go out and crank it up with the lads.

 

[WyteWatt]

It amazes me how human beings get jealous over each other so easily. There always people fighting over each other for one person. i just don't get it.

 

[TommyVercetti]

Originally posted by: imtim83
No one will ever see the light but oh well. I tried to tell you all but no one will listen to me. Thats ok not my fault. I could care a less if no one will listen because I don't want anyone to listen. They can find out for themselfs just like you have.

Your thoughts intrigue me and I would like to subscribe to you newsletter. Could you please elaborate on this "light" and what did you try to tell?