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pauldun170

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I was a Cub Scout Wolf - Webelo, was a Boy Scout, got to first or second class before I dropped out around 14. Went to summer camp a few times, blue swimmer, shot .22's, made fires, built flag stands out of lumber and twine, did all the fun stuff. It was a good experience for me.

And again, I don't care if girls are allowed, I think there could very well be great lessons for girls the same as boys. But, as I said, the push behind this is today's PC environment.

If you were running scouts and during a discussion of declining membership the question was raised "Why are we excluding girls from joining?" what would be your answer?
 

Puffnstuff

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Scout store might need to revisit sizing on uniforms for some girls (shirts)
A most valid point as biological differences need to be accounted for.
I was a Cub Scout Wolf - Webelo, was a Boy Scout, got to first or second class before I dropped out around 14. Went to summer camp a few times, blue swimmer, shot .22's, made fires, built flag stands out of lumber and twine, did all the fun stuff. It was a good experience for me.
Cool as I also started out in the cub scouts progressing to webelos and finally to the boy scouts where I earned many achievements including the arrow of light. With so much sexual harassment in the workplace teaching boys and girls to be respectful of one another at an early age will aid in addressing this issue.
 

pauldun170

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I don't have much experience with girl scouts, but the little bit of research I've done seems like they are still preparing girls for the 1950s, not 2030.

Most of the families I've know that dipped their toe in the girl scout organization quickly moved on after seeing it for the sales organization it is. I don't know how it is in other areas locally it seems culturally broken.
 

SlowSpyder

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If you were running scouts and during a discussion of declining membership the question was raised "Why are we excluding girls from joining?" what would be your answer?

I don't know, something about being "Boy Scouts" I guess. If they want to fundamentally change what they are, so be it. But there are reasons why some groups shun a co-ed environment. I guess we'll have to see how it plays out.
 

ivwshane

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I don't know, something about being "Boy Scouts" I guess. If they want to fundamentally change what they are, so be it. But there are reasons why some groups shun a co-ed environment. I guess we'll have to see how it plays out.

So you don't have a reason for their exclusion. Got it.
 

vi edit

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I was in Scouts until I was around 15. Made it to Life. So close to Eagle. But just lost steam. Started dating, working and sports. Boy Scouts gotleft behind. Maybe if girls were allowed and you could spend time with them on weekends camping or doing other scout activities I would have stayed in the rest of the way.
 
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bshole

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They should just combine with girl scouts. Kind of stupid to separate kids by gender.

Couldn't disagree more. My daughter certainly did NOT want boys around during girl scouts. Guys tends to be sexual predators.
 

ivwshane

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Couldn't disagree more. My daughter certainly did NOT want boys around during girl scouts. Guys tends to be sexual predators.

I'm pretty sure that has more to do with her paranoid father than anything. Most children (pre teens) don't give a shit who their play buddy is and just want to learn and have fun.
 
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SlowSpyder

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I was in Scouts until I was around 15. Made it to Life. So close to Eagle. But just lost steam. Started dating, working and sports. Boy Scouts gotleft behind. Maybe if girls were allowed and you could spend time with them on weekends camping or doing other scout activities I would have stayed in the rest of the way.

That is kind of what happened to me. It was great while it lasted, I wanted to climb the ranks, learn more, but for me at a certain point other interests were just more intriguing and Boy Scouts were fairly time consuming.

I got my sub zero badge, somehow always go suckered into winter camping. Lots of great memories for me, though.

Maybe, I guess we'll see if it turns out to be a good move. But, I have my reservations.
 
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1prophet

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In theory there shouldn't be an issue with boys and girls sleeping in the same tents. The moral values and good judgment taught to scout members should be enough to prevent any foul play from occurring and strict rules should prevent inappropriate consenting behavior from happening in such an environment.
In theory.

In theory, such a situation would also teach boys and girls that they are equals and that forcing yourself on another is wrong and treating girls different than boys is also wrong. Basically it would remove the societal norms of women be subservient to men and reduce the number of Harvey Weinsteins in this country.
In theory.
In Theory, but in the real world where school teachers and priests who are adults aren't stopped by moral values and good judgment,

do you honestly believe that mixing adolescent youth who are just experiencing their new found sexuality will be stopped of any foul play from occurring because of strict rules which in theory should prevent inappropriate consenting behavior from happening in such an environment.

Are you prepared to require scoutmasters teaching them sex education including what is considered sexual assault/harassment, but be ready, willing, and able to pass out condoms and birth control pills including morning after pills in case of an accident to these children just in case your theory doesn't pan out under this new all inclusive tent?

And here all this time pretend liberals especially the Hollywood types were the supposed champions of empowering women, pointing out the evil sexual deviants like Ailes. O'Reilly, Trump, etc. 24/7 on liberal biased media while telling the world how you are the standard bearer of women's rights and equality, and wouldn't think of threatening the liberal newspaper media with lawsuits or paying off DA's if someone said otherwise,

but as the world is finding out thanks to Weinstein, the Affleck bros, and soon to be others, it all was just a THEORY.
 
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OutHouse

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As a Eagle Scout I do not agree with this change. There are already co-ed non-scouting sponsored by the Boy Scouts, like Venturing, Sea Scouts, Explorer programs. Maybe the GS needs to change their program and do more non girly stuff.
 

bshole

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"Guys, why do the girls need the BSA when they can just go LARPing in the woods?"

I think the scouting in general is doomed. Kids tend to be more interested in cell phones and video games. My kids certainly have no interest in going into the woods.
 

ivwshane

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In Theory, but in the real world where school teachers and priests who are adults aren't stopped by moral values and good judgment,

do you honestly believe that mixing adolescent youth who are just experiencing their new found sexuality will be stopped of any foul play from occurring because of strict rules which in theory should prevent inappropriate consenting behavior from happening in such an environment.

Are you prepared to require scoutmasters teaching them sex education including what is considered sexual assault/harassment, but be ready, willing, and able to pass out condoms and birth control pills including morning after pills in case of an accident to these children just in case your theory doesn't pan out under this new all inclusive tent?

And here all this time pretend liberals especially the Hollywood types were the supposed champions of empowering women, pointing out the evil sexual deviants like Ailes. O'Reilly, Trump, etc. 24/7 on liberal biased media while telling the world how you are the standard bearer of women's rights and equality, and wouldn't think of threatening the liberal newspaper media with lawsuits or paying off DA's if someone said otherwise,

but as the world is finding out thanks to Weinstein, the Affleck bros, and soon to be others, it all was just a THEORY.

Yes and in theory, the values and morals taught by the boy scouts to their members at a young age would prevent such things from happening as they grow up and by the time their are grown up, things like sexual assault and harassment would be a thing of the past.

Do I believe knowledge fixes a lot of these issues? Absolutely? My proof? A comparison of those that live in a mixed race environment where people who aren't like each other interact with each other every day and do so respectfully.
We can treat girls and women with kid gloves and brush off bad behavior from boys and men as them just being guys and its just locker room talk and hope things will change but I personally think there are better ways.
 

realibrad

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Yes and in theory, the values and morals taught by the boy scouts to their members at a young age would prevent such things from happening as they grow up and by the time their are grown up, things like sexual assault and harassment would be a thing of the past.

Do I believe knowledge fixes a lot of these issues? Absolutely? My proof? A comparison of those that live in a mixed race environment where people who aren't like each other interact with each other every day and do so respectfully.
We can treat girls and women with kid gloves and brush off bad behavior from boys and men as them just being guys and its just locker room talk and hope things will change but I personally think there are better ways.

Do you really think rape happens because people are ignorant? I would imagine rape happens because someone wants sex and does not respect the sovereignty of others. Its the same for things like theft. People don't steal because they are unaware that stealing is wrong. They steal because they want something and think they can get it without getting caught.

If rape were due to not knowing rape is wrong, then people would rape and not try and hide it.
 

ivwshane

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Do you really think rape happens because people are ignorant? I would imagine rape happens because someone wants sex and does not respect the sovereignty of others. Its the same for things like theft. People don't steal because they are unaware that stealing is wrong. They steal because they want something and think they can get it without getting caught.

If rape were due to not knowing rape is wrong, then people would rape and not try and hide it.

Sexual assault doesn't necessarily mean rape. So no, I don't think you can stop bad people from doing bad things but you certainly can create a culture where people are treated and respected equally.
 

brycejones

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Holy shit... thread... where are you going??

No kidding
As to the change it could be helpful in my family. The Girl Scouts aren't an option unless we want to start a troop ourselves which we don't have the time to do. For those of you concerned about the end of the world as we know it, go start your own group. Sounds like the BSA is trying to be responsive to what its members want which is what any organization tries to do to stay relevant as society changes.
 
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Will everyone just calm the fuck down with the rape shit and take it somewhere else.


Summary:
Calm the fuck down about guns in this thread
Calm the fuck down about rape in this thread



@vi edit can I be a mod now?
 
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brycejones

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Will everyone just calm the fuck down with the rape shit and take it somewhere else.


Summary:
Calm the fuck down about guns in this thread
Calm the fuck down about rape in this thread





can I be a mod now?

What about smoking? Until we do something about smoking I'm not sure we can talk about anything else.




I'll show myself out now.
 
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Blackjack200

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No kidding
As to the change it could be helpful in my family. The Girl Scouts aren't an option unless we want to start a troop ourselves which we don't have the time to do. For those of you concerned about the end of the world as we know it, go start your own group. Sounds like the BSA is trying to be responsive to what its members want which is what any organization tries to do to stay relevant as society changes.

Please, we all know that this is not about what's best for your children, but about your slavish devotion to political correctness.
 

brycejones

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Please, we all know that this is not about what's best for your children, but about your slavish devotion to political correctness.

Well I do ensure that I refer to my dog by its preferred gender and my children's favorite game is "spot the white male privilege" and we selected the interior color of our house by taking the average skin tone of all the people in the world.
 

Blackjack200

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Well I do ensure that I refer to my dog by its preferred gender and my children's favorite game is "spot the white male privilege" and we selected the interior color of our house by taking the average skin tone of all the people in the world.

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