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[Alphathree33]

emotional problems.

I'm not just saying this to be a jerk.

Many if not most of the girls I've met recently seem relatively normal at first, but reveal deep emotional disturbances only shortly after getting to know them.

And I'm not meeting "low quality" girls. I've met girls from different walks of life in different venues and relatively different age groups (17 to 22... a fair range since I'm 21.)

They all have one thing in common: they are confused, disturbed, walled off or otherwise emotionally unstable.

Even my ex girlfriend had these problems.

Is there such a thing as an emotionally stable woman or are all of them so frail?

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: Alphathree33
emotional problems.

I'm not just saying this to be a jerk.

Many if not most of the girls I've met recently seem relatively normal at first, but reveal deep emotional disturbances only shortly after getting to know them.

And I'm not meeting "low quality" girls. I've met girls from different walks of life in different venues and relatively different age groups (17 to 22... a fair range since I'm 21.)

They all have one thing in common: they are confused, disturbed, walled off or otherwise emotionally unstable.

Even my ex girlfriend had these problems.

Is there such a thing as an emotionally stable woman or are all of them so frail?

Those are rare... There is one in my ChemEng classes, but she is already taken.

 

[Zim Hosein]

Is there such a thing as an emotionally stable woman

Nope! :evil:

 

[ThePresence]

LOL! AAAAAAAAALL women have emotional problems, man!

 

[oneshot47]

I met one once, then she dumped me....or maybe thats her deep emotional problem...she didnt like me...

 

[MikeyIs4Dcats]

some just hide it better.

 

[CraigRT]

as stated above, it's not common.
you are not the only one having this problem man.

 

[jtusa]

Originally posted by: Zim Hosein

Is there such a thing as an emotionally stable woman

Nope! :evil:

 

[Rage187]

Havent met one that has been emotionaly stable.

 

[Whisper]

And now you know why I've told myself that I'll never date a girl younger than (at the least) 22. It just seems to take most women a little while to "find" themselves and figure out what they want, and that period is most commonly in the early to mid-twenties. Us men, on the other hand, seem go through that same confusion when we hit 40 or so. Gotta love it.

 

[isasir]

Start dating women older than 25.

 

[Alphathree33]

Originally posted by: isasir
Start dating women older than 25.

I'd love to, but not many 25 year olds would date someone who's 21. There's a lot that happens in those years. I'm still in university, those ladies would be looking to get married!

None the less, there's this quiet and mature blonde girl at work, I'd say she's maybe 30ish... I'm really attracted to her for some reason, I suppose because she's so mature and I'm so tired of girly crap.

 

[y2kc]

Originally posted by: isasir
Start dating women older than 25.

they're nuts too..

 

[djheater]

Wait a minute.. has it ever occured to you that you are attracting these girls, and are most likely attracted to them?

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: y2kc

Originally posted by: isasir
Start dating women older than 25.

they're nuts too..

As the husband of a women in her thirties, I can assure you that they never grow out of it...

 

[yobarman]

i love emotionally unstable girls. brings some spice to the relatoinship! the crazier the better is my moto

 

[Childs]

Originally posted by: CraigRT
as stated above, it's not common.
you are not the only one having this problem man.

The last three girls I went out with had deep emotional problems, and I didn't know it beforehand. You probably subconsciencely pick up on it and seek those kinds of girls out. After the third one I did some internalization and I could see how I might do be prone to dating those kind of girls. And I could see how they would be attracted to me, when an emotional stable woman would probably go after someone with more cache (accent the e), all other things being equal.

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: yobarman
i love emotionally unstable girls. brings some spice to the relatoinship! the crazier the better is my moto

If the deep seeded emotional problem is a low self-esteem tied to an emotionally unavailable father, but more condoms....

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: Mwilding

Originally posted by: yobarman
i love emotionally unstable girls. brings some spice to the relatoinship! the crazier the better is my moto

If the deep seeded emotional problem is a low self-esteem tied to an emotionally unavailable father, but more condoms....

cute malapropism... as though the seeds were buried deeply...

It's deep-seated.

 

[Schadenfroh]

whores are easier to deal with

 

[Skiguy411]

Sigh, I know this all too well.....

 

Eventually you will understand how unstable you are as well.

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: djheater

Originally posted by: Mwilding

Originally posted by: yobarman
i love emotionally unstable girls. brings some spice to the relatoinship! the crazier the better is my moto

If the deep seeded emotional problem is a low self-esteem tied to an emotionally unavailable father, but more condoms....

cute malapropism... as though the seeds were buried deeply...

It's deep-seated.

for all intensive purposes, it means the same thing...

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: Mwilding

Originally posted by: djheater

Originally posted by: Mwilding

Originally posted by: yobarman
i love emotionally unstable girls. brings some spice to the relatoinship! the crazier the better is my moto

If the deep seeded emotional problem is a low self-esteem tied to an emotionally unavailable father, but more condoms....

cute malapropism... as though the seeds were buried deeply...

It's deep-seated.

for all intensive purposes, it means the same thing...

ARGHHHH!!!!!


....the horror... the horror....


For sake or argument:

I daught you meant any harm. I make mistakes to.

 

[Iron Woode]

Every GF I have had, has some kind of emotional problem/issue/illness what have you.

One was molested as a kid. I didn't find out about that till after we broke up.

Another became a skank at 14, followed by booze and drugs. I found out about this while we were breaking up.

Another has a Bi-polar mother that needed treatment and I can just imagine the hell she went through. She refuses to discuss it even after breaking up 16 years ago.

The only GF I fell in love with pic has a birth defect that affects her nose and eyes as well as her hands and feet. While it is not serious it has affected her self image because she was teased about it. She has a host of emotional issues.

My last GF has a bunch of issues too. She is a control freak and has depression. She's a good woman, but I couldn't deal with it any more.