I have all of the closing costs disclosed by the lender and have had them since day one on a pre-approval, but never an APR. We went over the closing costs meticulously yesterday, line by line for my exact loan amount. With the closing costs known, and getting a credit back from the seller, you guys are WAY overreacting that APR is a big issue, driving me insane thinking I'm going to get royally screwed which I do not think is going to happen. I have all of my paperwork in front of me. So it's my fault they didn't give me all the information needed on APR?
APR is a calculation based on the closing costs and fees that go into obtaining the loan.
If you have went over the closing costs and are okay with it, and have looked at a cost benefit analysis concerning the points you bought and are happy with that (which is hardly the case unless you are going to stay there for the whole life or nearly all of the life of the loan). Then you don't need to be concerned about the APR, because you've essentially already analyzed it. APR is just a metric to help you compare apples to apples.