I know this is long but it's worth reading. I'm not one to post often, even more so about personal issues but I really needed to say this.
There's this girl I've known and been friends with for the past 2 and a half years, basically the very begining of my freshman year of college. About a year or so ago I found out she was interested in me but do to other weird girl issues I didn't pursue it. Last fall she still seemed to be interested but I'm shy and very slow when it comes to these things so I didn't do much to pursue it. Finally this semester I had enough of wondering and I was really into her so about a month and a half ago I asked her out. She said yes. A month and a half pass and all is well, we're getting quite close. She mentions there's some trouble brewing at home but nothing for me to worry about. I trust her and don't worry. Then earlier this week she said her mother was flying out to see her, which seemed a little odd because she's from Oregon and we're in New York. But she said its no big deal and nothing changed between us. We were both involved in a musical here and last night was the big cast party. We're dancing and grinding away and shes getting me to be more physical than I tend to be. So finally around 1:30AM she says she has to get going to meet her mother. So I start to walk her home to her room and she says we can sit and talk for a bit. So we sit and this is what she says:
"I'm really sorry but I have to break up with you. I've really messed up this semester, I don't know what I want to do with my life. I was going to make a terrible mistake and my mother flew out here and isn't leaving until I go with her."
I ask if shes coming back at all.
"Probably not and I'm really not ready for the committment of a long distance relationship."
We talked a little more and just sat there holding each other for awhile. I didn't know what to say. I was in shock. Things had been going perfectly up until then and it was quite obvious she didn't want to have to do this to me.
I'm still in a state of shock. I don't know what to do or think. Shes probably home now. It was so abrupt. She didn't do anything to distance herself first. There are so many questions I still have and things I wish I had said when we were sitting there. After we sat for while she went back into the party to tell a few people and say goodbye to some good friends. She didn't want to make a scene. She then gave me a handshake, said goodbye and left. Not even a hug. I hope thats because it was hard for her and not easy. At least she gave me her home phone number.
Sorry for being so longwinded but I needed to get this out. And even though I've told most of my friends it still doesn't seem like enough.
Thanks
There's this girl I've known and been friends with for the past 2 and a half years, basically the very begining of my freshman year of college. About a year or so ago I found out she was interested in me but do to other weird girl issues I didn't pursue it. Last fall she still seemed to be interested but I'm shy and very slow when it comes to these things so I didn't do much to pursue it. Finally this semester I had enough of wondering and I was really into her so about a month and a half ago I asked her out. She said yes. A month and a half pass and all is well, we're getting quite close. She mentions there's some trouble brewing at home but nothing for me to worry about. I trust her and don't worry. Then earlier this week she said her mother was flying out to see her, which seemed a little odd because she's from Oregon and we're in New York. But she said its no big deal and nothing changed between us. We were both involved in a musical here and last night was the big cast party. We're dancing and grinding away and shes getting me to be more physical than I tend to be. So finally around 1:30AM she says she has to get going to meet her mother. So I start to walk her home to her room and she says we can sit and talk for a bit. So we sit and this is what she says:
"I'm really sorry but I have to break up with you. I've really messed up this semester, I don't know what I want to do with my life. I was going to make a terrible mistake and my mother flew out here and isn't leaving until I go with her."
I ask if shes coming back at all.
"Probably not and I'm really not ready for the committment of a long distance relationship."
We talked a little more and just sat there holding each other for awhile. I didn't know what to say. I was in shock. Things had been going perfectly up until then and it was quite obvious she didn't want to have to do this to me.
I'm still in a state of shock. I don't know what to do or think. Shes probably home now. It was so abrupt. She didn't do anything to distance herself first. There are so many questions I still have and things I wish I had said when we were sitting there. After we sat for while she went back into the party to tell a few people and say goodbye to some good friends. She didn't want to make a scene. She then gave me a handshake, said goodbye and left. Not even a hug. I hope thats because it was hard for her and not easy. At least she gave me her home phone number.
Sorry for being so longwinded but I needed to get this out. And even though I've told most of my friends it still doesn't seem like enough.
Thanks