<< Thanks, let me ask this. What is the best way to go if not redhat? >>
Thats a subjective question. So all the answers would be opinions. In my opinion, Debian and Slackware are better solutions. I am not as new though, so setting things up by hand isnt as tough for me.
<< I have used both Suse and Mandrake in the past. >>
All three of these are rpm based. rpms could be much better, but right now they are basic packages. Debian's apt is a much easier solution (great for lazy people like myself). But I learned a lot of my linux stuff on slackware which does not have a good package manager, so I ended up compiling almost everything then. Not the easiest and I ran into a lot of problems.
<< Since I am just building this system perhaps I should change course and move away from redhat. >>
RedHat is not a bad solution, you will just have to learn how to deal with rpms. I never had the patience to deal with it.