If I had a good time and the guy was cool, I would always give him a kiss before we parted. I don't usually wait for the guy to kiss me... although that was years ago, I have been in a relationship forever, I'm not sure I have the nerve anymore!
And gimme a break, not all women that "go all the way" on the first date are sluts... having sex on the first date is not a cry for love (hahahaha), sometimes women just want to have sex. And sometimes we pray you don't call and hope we don't run into you ever again, and it's nothing against you personally. Sound familiar?