What is good for the gander is good for the goose as well. He is obviously hesitant to break it off with her and wants to try to salvage the relationship. After she experiences the game from the opposite direction I don't think she will play it as often.
BOOM!, right there man. You gotta show her how it feels. Dont go off and screw chicks, just stop trying to get ahold of her so damn hard!. This girl sounds like a loose cannon and it looks like you need to give her a wake up call dogg. You sure as HELL, would not be stooping to her level by not calling her. You've done your very best to show her you love her, the only way to find out if she truely needs/wants you is to show her what its like without you in her life as a consistant figure in her life. What I've noticed the most, is that girls let there emotions take control of there dicisions, and in some cases there whole lives. Thats why a girl can get mad at someone for hearing a song they dont like on the radio, be a complete raving beoch one min and a frikin angel you cant live without the next. In your GF's case, it sounds like shes under a big load of emotional termoil, and shes just trying to get away from it all. I know when im drunk off my ass im sure as hell not thinking about anything important. You bitchen and moaning about how you love her and want to know wtf is going on is only stressing her out more, which is why shes avoiding you, and, geting drunk off her ass. Keep the faith dogg, cus thats what strong relationships are made of, but you gotta expect the worst. If she breaks it off on you insted of you breaking it off with her, dont front on it. That leaves her with the uncertaintys, and even though it hurts, at least you know your not missing out on anything. Trust me, there are ALOT of cool girls out there looking for a guy who cares, just like you care. Girls are undoubtedly the best companions in the world, sure there irrational in completely obsurd ways, but damn. When it comes to comfort, love, respect, fun and happieness, they just cant be topp'd. I know you want to know whats going on man, and your in the right for feeling like that. But sometimes patients is what it takes. You have to remember that shes not thinking straight, so give her some time, ALONE, to figure things out. Let her come to you, be the someone she falls back on when she wakes up.