Let her move in?

[poopaskoopa]

Do it. ATOT topics are getting less interesting these days, and this is sure to get interesting in a few weeks. :Q

 

[Gage]

Do you love her?

If you do then go for it. Don't let these pessimists scare you.

Don't waste any more time.

(What can I say, I'm a hopeless romantic)

 

[tarheelmm]

Originally posted by: lightpants
NO

 

[StageLeft]

This is such a plainly and obvious bad idea that I don't even need to go into the reasons why. NO. My God. NO.

 

[spaceman]

if you love her, and she loves you...then go for it man.


i think the question you may have to ask yourself is if you are prepared to be a father figure in her daughters life.

 

[StageLeft]

Bump for the NO crowd.

 

[Gage]

Pics?

I think we need a poll on this one.

 

[dayg]

Dude,

Got enough savings? Cause if you do let her and her girl move in, you better have enough or kiss the relationship bye-bye. Does she work?
I live with my GF now and basically supporting her for over two years. Let me tell ya, her maintainance is on the high side. That was my mistake asking her to move in with me just so I can get more. But I payed the price. One good thing though...she does cook a good meal. It is still not too late for you. Better think it through dude!!

 

[Ameesh]

you wanna be a dad?

 

[ScottyB]

Originally posted by: DocBartend
Well when we broke up it was like 9 years ago so the reasons back then were just to get more. God i cant imagine babysitting and going to PTC's and all the other stuff. God bless all you with kids but i just dont know. I know that if i said to move back here but not with me she would decline that idea. And then if i wanted to pursue her then i would have to move to Michigan. Now i do see ATOT LAN parties there so may be cool b/c there is never one close enough to theis small wonder of a state. Thanks for the input ya'll. I have to seriously think this out obviously. It wouldnt happen til June anyway. A long sip of Laphroaig every day for 6 months will help me decide. j/k

Michigan is a great place for redneck hippie computer geeks.

 

[hdeck]

do it, do it, do it!

 

[TheKub]

Dude, I think that allowing her to move in is going to open the door to more bad than good. Have her move to Del. some where near see how that goes and how friendship/relationship forms then let her move in if you so wish.

 

[acidvoodoo]

i would vote helllllllllllllllllllllllllll no

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Skoorb
Bump for the NO crowd.

You can't say No to a stupid idea often enough or loud enough.

Should you do this, just turn in your cock and balls at the door on the way out. You'll get Domesticated. :Q

- M4H

 

[Gujski]

Originally posted by: Skoorb
Bump for the NO crowd.

TTT

Seriously, if there wasn't a kid involved i'd say MAYBE think about it.

 

[jayglick]

ok, it's obvious that most people don't think you should move in with her but hey, maybe it would be fun

besides, there's nothing wrong with taking on a challenge, yeah?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: jayglick
ok, it's obvious that most people don't think you should move in with her but hey, maybe it would be fun

besides, there's nothing wrong with taking on a challenge, yeah?

Well, you're obviously a sex-starved teenage male, dreaming of ways to scare up punani by any possible method.

The cons FAR outweigh the pros. Let's have a look.

Pros:
- Possible sex

Cons:
- Possible sex (her and whatever guy she brings home from clubbing)
- You become a babysitter
- She mooches food, money, clothing, rent, etc
- She knows you're a sucker and will manipulate you even further
- Check your sac at the door, and wave goodbye to your single life!

For further insight, I'll defer to MichaelD's vast knowledge of this subject.

- M4H

 

[ROTC1983]

Originally posted by: benliong
I don't think you should rush things. Shockwave is right. If she's moving in just as roommate, it's going to be a great way to build up the relationship and get yourself confortable. That way she wouldn't have the right to tell you what to do and what not.

If she's asking to move in to start a relationship again, tell her that you guys should take things a little slower.

just my 2 cents

I agree with that

 

[jayglick]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: jayglick
ok, it's obvious that most people don't think you should move in with her but hey, maybe it would be fun

besides, there's nothing wrong with taking on a challenge, yeah?

Well, you're obviously a sex-starved teenage male, dreaming of ways to scare up punani by any possible method.

The cons FAR outweigh the pros. Let's have a look.

Pros:
- Possible sex

Cons:
- Possible sex (her and whatever guy she brings home from clubbing)
- You become a babysitter
- She mooches food, money, clothing, rent, etc
- She knows you're a sucker and will manipulate you even further
- Check your sac at the door, and wave goodbye to your single life!

For further insight, I'll defer to MichaelD's vast knowledge of this subject.

- M4H

really... so I'm looking for punani and I decide it would be beneficial to move in. Wrong, if I am a hardcore punaniizer (sp?) I would realize that my life would become much more limited because everyone knows that living with a woman will likely limit opportunities to "scare up punani". In other words, my reasons for saying it might be fun could have some sexual implications but most certainly are not limited to that.

 

[SagaLore]

For her sake and her daughter's sake, don't let her move in.

 

[jayglick]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: jayglick
ok, it's obvious that most people don't think you should move in with her but hey, maybe it would be fun

besides, there's nothing wrong with taking on a challenge, yeah?

Well, you're obviously a sex-starved teenage male, dreaming of ways to scare up punani by any possible method.

The cons FAR outweigh the pros. Let's have a look.

Pros:
- Possible sex

Cons:
- Possible sex (her and whatever guy she brings home from clubbing)
- You become a babysitter
- She mooches food, money, clothing, rent, etc
- She knows you're a sucker and will manipulate you even further
- Check your sac at the door, and wave goodbye to your single life!

For further insight, I'll defer to MichaelD's vast knowledge of this subject.

- M4H

Oh yeah, and one other thing... you're wrong on your assumptions of who I am. I am not a teenager and I have what is called a healthy sex-drive... Ask my gf of nearly 2 years (soon to be my wife)...

 

[Pliablemoose]

Any answer must be predicated on one thing: PICS? ,

 

[Shelly21]

hmmm, i'd say there's a 10% chance that you'll have the best time of your life..... so yes... go for it..... take some risk....

now if it blows up... come back and post a thread about it so we can help ....

oh pics?

 

[Shockwave]

I'll make it easy.

If you have a set of balls, and are a man and can stand up for yourself, go for it.

If your like all these ponani whipped, balls-in-mommas-purse cant stand up for themselves and lay the law down or even negotiate people who have been answering, then DEFINATELY dont let her. Cause you'll end up like all the rest of the spinless ballless people out there getting walked on by a woman.

I myself have a spine and have NO problems saying one simple word when I feel I'm getting the short end of the stick. No.

 

[benliong]

Originally posted by: dayg
Dude,

Got enough savings? Cause if you do let her and her girl move in, you better have enough or kiss the relationship bye-bye. Does she work?
I live with my GF now and basically supporting her for over two years. Let me tell ya, her maintainance is on the high side. That was my mistake asking her to move in with me just so I can get more. But I payed the price. One good thing though...she does cook a good meal. It is still not too late for you. Better think it through dude!!

So there's no love involved? you just ask her to move in so you can get more? The main reason why he's even considering the "her moving in" part is because he loves her.

I think the best thing to do is help her find a place near yours. Maybe help her out with the rent a little bit if you have the resources. That way she'll think more highly of you, you have your privacy to jack off whenever you want, and you get to see her often.

Of course I'm saying that because I don't know her reason for moving in. Is that an emotion thing or is it a financial thing?