Originally posted by: doze
Originally posted by: D22
The 11:20 Update
Yeah, her phone is most definitely off...I just left a very laid back message jokingly saying that I was checking if she was alive and that I hope she had fun and to give me a call about our plans this afternoon whenever she can...
It is now 11:15 AM...BTW, yes we have been sleeping together frequently, which is WHY I said I don't believe she should sleep with anyone else even if we aren't technically exclusive yet. It is a health issue, and if she did do it, then she should tell me whether she regrets it or not...That's my rule, I don't sleep with multiple people at the same time and I expect the same honestly...even outside of the health issue to me it's just not classy and I won't do it.
For those who are saying to be careful about being overly possessive, you just would have to be in my shoes. She throws a million compliments my way about how great of a guy I am, we went to church last sunday together, everything was aligning to say "let's be exclusive". But hey, I this is the price you pay for not having walls up. And no matter what happens, I'm going to leave my heart open for the next girl (if necessary). What is the point in playing the game if you rig it to the point no one can win?
if she got plastered last night she's probably still thinking of a good lie to tell you about the drunk and naked activities
Originally posted by: bctbct
If shes Catholic go to church tomm. and see how long confession takes, that will be your answer.
Originally posted by: vr6
Originally posted by: bctbct
If shes Catholic go to church tomm. and see how long confession takes, that will be your answer.
lol thats is creepy
Originally posted by: D22
MisterJackson: Your post definitely hit home. And I especially thank you guys for making me realize I can't beat myself up over the dumb issue of whether I should have gone or not. I am sitting here trying to find the answer in myself when I DON'T HAVE IT, SHE DOES. My behavior in this situation was irrelevant to the future truth.
I also like your explanation about the "guilt-trip" thing. She really does have that kind of submissive personality though, but I will definitely consider your explanation as a possible answer. It certainly does make sense, especially since she just dissapeared off IM without telling me "bye, I'm heading out...don't miss me too much" or whatever. That kind of gives me the impression she was at the edge of her seat just waiting for them to show up...I will definitely keep you guys updated because I want resolution to this...
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
PM Freedomsbeat and triforceofcourage for tips....they're both EXCELLENT sources of wisdom on how to handle your wimmenz problem
Yep, she was up all night playing first-person shooters. :QOriginally posted by: MustangSVT
dont worry, we all know she had a good ol time .. what is that now.. quadsome?
Originally posted by: Mrfrog840
sorry if its just me, you sound possesive. you need to be more laid back IMO
Originally posted by: Tuktuk
Originally posted by: Mrfrog840
sorry if its just me, you sound possesive. you need to be more laid back IMO
Well he was about to make things serious so I can see why being blown off so she can hang out with her guys friends would be irritating. I think the urge to be possessive is there because he wants to know what is going on, if she takes it as seriously as him, etc. Being laid back is the thing to do, though. Either she likes him or she doesn't and that will show more clearly if he doesn't try too hard. I think even calling today was a mistake but as long as the OP doesn't make another call he is fine.