Originally posted by: Starbuck1975
Society is fickle. Ask someone point blank if they are against polygamous relationships and see what they say. The reason society condemns it is because most men and women don't what their SO sleeping with someone else. I personally don't mind if you want to be in a polygamous relationship, but it won't happen with me. I am a 1-1 guy. Not 1-2+.
Well that's really the whole debate...what society is willing to tolerate.
Taking religion out of the equation, there really is no moral judgment to be made on any manifestation of sexuality, save for cases in which one partner of the sexual act is coerced, forced or otherwise a victim...but what consenting adults choose to do in their own bedroom is their decision.
I think it has something to do with our society's tendency to require labels for everyone and everything...ancient society's did not view homosexuality this way largely because this dynamic was not part of their culture...although to be fair, those cultures were far more homogenous, and perhaps did not have to contend with the inherent challenges to a multi-cultural and multi-ethnic society.
That being said, the label of homosexual confuses me...my sexual orientation as a heterosexual does not define who I am...it simply dictates who I choose to have a sexual relationship with...now, during periods of time when I was single, was I still a heterosexual even though I was not actively engaging in a sexually active lifestyle?
I realize that to raise awareness and acceptance, homosexuals adopted the tactic of being visible and "out," but that tactic has also motivated the core base of those who will simply never accept homosexuality.
If there truly is a God, and he does not approve of homosexuality, then I leave it up to God to judge homosexuals at the Pearly Gates. While a rational or reasonable person may question why our society simply cannot tolerate and accept homosexuals, the fact remains that we have to live in a society that simply does not have a comfortable relationship with any form of sexuality, let alone sexuality that may deviate from what is considered "normal."
I don't have an answer to the problem...but I do recognize that making a kindergarden class the battleground for this debate probably isn't the right solution.