It's not easy to think positive in this unfair life
But it can be done. In 1996 I ended up in a wheelchair because of no fault of my own. It was despairing as I tried to negotiate a world built for people with legs and balance. But then I realized, my shoes never wore out, and no one ever asks me anymore to help them move (I always did it but never liked it).
I try to look for the positives. Now I cruise around in a manual wheelchair which is great for my arms, and have figured out how to get me and the chair into my van. A lady at the grocery store watched me get out of the van and put the bin I use for purchases on my lap. I don't like to be stared at, but she said, "You've got it figured out!"
Despite all the terrible news, leaders, etc., I see a great awakening. Empathy abounds.